Comments by "MAR TE" (@marte1376) on "Hard lessons I learned from friendship mistakes" video.

  1. I mean, that can happen but especially that kind of thinking can be interpreted as selfish. We're not doormats to anyone at 2 am. But I get friendships are truly visible when you're in the lowest point
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  2. The thing is how are you supposed to know before it's too late
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  3. Buddhism is something that makes me passionate but it's extreme and non human. Although the concept of detachment and being in peace with the ever changing life is something mind blowing to me. I think your next level is stop assuming the worst will happen
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  4. I think she has suffered but being mature and realistic is understanding that people come and go. Very few people are here to stay forever, not even our parents. This kind of crap of : when the right person comes along everything will be perfect, if you can't get it, there's a problem with you. That's not how life is and is not our fault completely if we're not surrounded by like minded people
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  5. Very interesting topic. I think each person has a whole different dimension and complexity due to their circumstances. Right now I'm in a piece of my life where things are dark, I'm fighting to get a job, my parents are tired of me and giving me money and you know that with no money no opportunity to do something. I just had a terrible discussion with my dad and i don't have him anymore. I haven't aeen my friends for months and i don't want to tell them either that I'm struggling and the reason why. I've read this book the 48 laws of power and i just don't want people to know my Aquiles ankle, my weaknesses, but i feel alone. Interestingly I don't want my friends to succeed because that means they're leaving me behind but i think that they couldn't care much if i succeed too. I just want to be in respectable terms with everybody and not gaining any enemies but I'm not sure my friends are still my friends. I can't tell them my situation, my secret.
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  6. Substances are great in a certain extent but overall not all our interactions should be based on being in another dimension. And you said it, there's always a con
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