Comments by "MAR TE" (@marte1376) on "Lisa Bilyeu" channel.

I don't know if I've met psychopaths but i know something: any man that doesn't have empathy or kindness is a dangerous man. Any man that doesn't respect your boundaries from the simplest things to the intimate ones. I experienced being with a guy that ised to did everything i told him no and i was r@p3d by him. Another man once we were in a shooting game and there were guns there and he told me: this is what I'll use to murd3r you. And that was so weird, we didn't continue dating, he was selfish and yes, he abused me too during intimacy. So ladies, i repeat, any man that does not respect your boundaries, is too aggressive during intercourse (hurting you) and any man that doesn't possess kindness is dangerous. Be careful
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@amerubix185 I think if he acts aggressive towards animals that's a red flag or if he enjoys suffering of this beings as well. This is mentioned in the video too
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@moondancing-y2b don't be so naive. You need to be ready and tough to read someone in the first seconds or minutes. By general rule, a handsome man is a man with sexual options, perhaps confused, resistant to commitment because he already is getting what he wants and is likely to be pursued, so that guy won't give you princess treatment. You see? Not hard at all, see them objectively and see yourself in the same way. If he is more handsome than you, you're lost, that guy believes he's the prize
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@dsoule4902 indeed. However, as said in the video, you need some form of interaction. Many men are not going to be aggressive right away and you'll need another form of interaction with them. You know, these men were not strangers, they were men whom I had dates, and I ended up doing things I wouldn't normally do. Many ladies have experienced some of these things with men that are their partners. In some way I feel bad for allowing it, I know I need to work on having stronger boundaries.
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I think this message is to tell whether our gut is realistic. If we're disregulated, our gut won't spot the correct signal
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Absolutely
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Men spotted without any sort of empathy. An intelligent man would filter these trends. Men not being chosen is not because they're good. Broke and ugly dudes are as dangerous as bad Boys because of their frustration and you're proof of that. Seek for help
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@Portia620 that's not the point. Those were things that I didn't want to do in the first place. I know I have responsibility for my weak boundaries but these men are not angels and there are many women in similar situations. What about the men that took off the preservative without the consent of a woman, that's also violent.
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@sandraeastern9720 jaja yes. I'm alive and I'm grateful for that. Other women don't have much luck and I don't know if they're psychos, some people are just jerks and selfish. Not justifying their behaviour
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@Ms_Nightshade you're very kind, I appreciate it ☺️ let's keep working on ourselves and build stronger standards and boundaries. Wishing you a happy life 🫂
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@Nonameneedeverone sounds like sarcasm. Either way, I'm alive. Men are terrible. That's why standards need to be really high. And the sad part is, many women in some point of their lives experience something like this with a man, their partners
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@kcj2862 that's sweet. Hope it helps someone :)
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Girl!! Break the pattern!!! I feel you, I am very sensitive and have trouble with setting boundaries. I attract abussive man and they're everywhere not just online. Break the pattern that gives negative things, break it!!!
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