Comments by "Charles M." (@charlesm.2604) on "Kai Cenat Did NOT Handle This Well..." video.

That's how it's always been. It never changed, despite all the instances and with the metoo and shit. Honestly it's one of the biggest problem I wish we would have solved in these last years but for some reason bad actors are so brain rotten that they will never change. We need a new generation to wipe it clean and start the mind programming from scratch.
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@lil_T_V My first time the girl tried to say she was r-worded to her parents when they found out. She was honest with me and our friend group and she was even remorseful/shameful in private. Thankfully because she was a good person we were able to give her the confidence to revert her story when her parents threatened serious shit. She was young. We were all youngs. And thank god she wasn't manipulative, she was just scared of her parents' reaction. But the thing is when you're a good person who never wronged the girl she will eventually go back, just be straight up with her and explain the consequences.
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@lil_T_V Well I kinda just scratched it as "she is scared" so there never was bad blood or anger between us. Not even disappointment. At the end of the day I loved the girl (I guess love is a strong word for a 15 years old fling but you get what I mean). Thing is it's really all about being considerate. Maybe one of those girls consented to some things but she didn't consent to others and you failed to understand that. Consent is a hard concept. For example I might consent to my partner giving me a BJ but if she goes around and eat my ass I'm gonna feel uncomfortable because that's a boundary for me, I just failed to disclose it. And it's only after time passes that I'm gonna tell her "yo, i didn't like what you did to me and it made me feel violated", and depending on how she reacts I'm gonna give her a pass and move forward with her or just call it quit and be hurt over it. You see ? For my situation it was a bit different because not only the girl herself knew that she was lying, she was also honest with our friends, we've been dating for some time and she cared about how it made me feel and on top of it all it happened at a friend house, there were people downstairs who saw us engaging into it before going upstairs and who also saw us acting as usual when we went back to the group downstairs.
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