Comments by "No Fate But What We Make" (@SonoftheAllfather) on "Traditionalism: Its Positive and Negative Aspects" video.
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@ Inisfad: "As a female, I was glad to finally get rid of an era where women lived miserable lives, in the hopes that they would receive 'spiritual fulfillment. Now you wish to bring that back....as part of some tradition? All traditions, while comfortable because they are familiar and known, are not necessarily good."
Women lived miserable lives as powerful matriarchs and keepers of home and hearth? I think that many women live miserable lives now under the current cultural norms. Those that don't marry and have children before they are too old for it to make sense end up becoming alone and depressed. My older sister is 38, unmarried, overweight, depressed, and an alcoholic. She lives with a roommate and has two cats (of course). She's also a feminist and a Leftist, who bought the bullshit line that your 20s are for sleeping around and partying. I think she will be alone for the rest of her life, aside from visiting my family and I. I still love her of course, and she is always welcome in my home, but my wife will always have our children and me while I'm alive, and that is the "spiritual fulfillment" I speak of.
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Arthur E Apologies. I didn't mean to paint you as a misogynist or MGTOW. My point is not that you're incorrect about most women, but you're generalizing women as all possessing these undesirable characteristics based on your preconceived notions and anecdotal experiences, which is kind of nihilistic, and certainly doesn't illustrate absolute reality.
I would wager that you live in an area with a political/social climate that creates feminist/materialistic women. That or you may just be young, and are dating/meeting only young, immature, uncultured girls with shitty family values. I don't believe that women have a naturally selfish hypergamy. Of course they want a man that has potential and provides, but that is not everything to a woman that has any semblance of a soul.
Women become less and less superficial as they mature and reach an age where they want to settle down and have children. That is when they select a man based on their character and virtue, not their money or their looks. You don't want a woman that values only money and physical attributes.
I have been happily married for 8 years. My wife grew up in a conservative family in Northern Germany. We have two boys, 3 and 6, and she's pregnant with another. I'm 35 years old and she's 32. I would say it's a pretty traditional family we have.
Happy Hunting.
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@ Matthieu Pageau: Yes, and a lucid comment, I might add. Cyclical nature itself is a hierarchy, so in balancing our civilization with nature, we must accept that hierarchy is natural. I also think that feminists and other cultural Marxists tend to contradict themselves in that they understand and accept hierarchies in a state of nature, but not in human social structures. They refuse to see humanity, even in the most rudimentary of senses, as living in a state of nature. They view human interactions through the lens of sociology (subjective pseudoscience) instead of biology and logical reasoning. They hold humans to different standards because they know that if they don't, they will perpetually possess less power than their male counterparts. This is not to say that "might is right," although in most senses that is true, but a combination of physical prowess, intelligence, and rationality generally puts males in a natural position of authority (with exceptions, of course). Traditionalist women are generally content with the role they play, because they understand that a good man and a good woman serve to supplement the other's natural weaknesses, and create a formidable team. It is so important also for children to experience this dynamic and have it be normalized in their life i.e. to see their parents be happy and a fantastic, indomitable team. So goes the traditionalist quote "a man is only as good as the woman beside him" whilst a retarded feminist might say "a woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle."
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@ Inisfad: And what exactly was wrong with the 1950s? My country and its people were better then in many ways than they are now.
You're simply using exceptions to the rule to try and invalidate the rule, which is a typical Leftist tactic. I don't know why Leftists always have to go around virtue signaling and being the "Not All" police, and then have the audacity to make such wantonly ignorant and fallacious generalizations as "all Trump voters are White supremacists."
Alas for your argument, the vast majority of married couples are not abusive, alcoholics, or drug addicts, and they certainly don't "loathe" the person they asked to marry and have children with. Again, this is a nihilistic view of marriage that is advanced by cultural Marxist scum that would rather you believe that marriage and children are the ultimate dream-killing prison, when in reality they are the most fulfilling thing you could ever imagine. The vast majority of marriages that end in failure are because the people involved are selfish and lack any semblance of stoicism. The same people that tell you "marriage is prison" will tell you we need to bring in immigrants because our native birth rate is below replacement and our economy will fail otherwise. They denigrate the backbone of Western traditionalism, the nuclear family, and then bring in foreigners that espouse hyper-traditional values and have gaggles of children. In three generations, bye bye White people, bye bye Western values.
Nevertheless, my life is not perfect. My marriage is challenging and we have issues just like every other family. You can mock me all you want in an attempt to defend your hedonistic and utterly transparent hatred of traditional values, but at the end of the day, the truth remains the same: traditionalism is vastly superior to the alternative, and the proof of that is everywhere around us. Also, if you ever intend on being a parent (gods forbid), you'd better not have such fragile sensibilities as to be triggered by the word "bastard" in an online environment.
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@ Inisfad: I'm not basing what I speak of on any TV show that I watched. I'm basing my views upon the reality of the situation and on the women of that generation that I have met, including both of my wonderful grandmothers, who were both formidable and graceful women of great character. They were also the most generous, selfless, and nurturing women I've ever met. Women like them, that were the glue of the traditional household, have always held a certain power, especially over their children, but over their men as well. You just want to manipulate the definition of being a matriarch to being a woman that works and brings home money. You must not know very many immigrant families either...talk about women that run the household. Immigrant families are also very traditional.
I already stated earlier that I am 35, so no I wasn't there for any feminist marches in the 60s, and I'm glad for that. My sister chose the lifestyle that she lives, and squandered the best years of her life being a degenerate and not taking control of her life. She does not have a partner BECAUSE she was told she didn't need one to be happy by her miserable Marxist professors at college and all of her idiotic libtard friends, who all went ahead and had children anyways.
Average, single, never-married, childless men in their 50s are not celebrated or seen as attractive or desirable in this culture. George Clooney is not a normal person, and that is a pathetic example. Take Dale, 55 years old, never married, no kids, not much money to speak of, not particularly attractive, and works as a handyman. I'm sure the ladies are beating down the door to marry that guy and bear his children. What planet are you living on? I do look at old men that have no family as alone and lacking spiritual fulfillment, but I do not "disdain" them, you drama queen. My sister will not have immediate family as she grows old, and that is what I mean by being alone. Being a cat lady and living with a roommate into your 40s? Sounds like a depressing life to me.
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@ Inisfad:
Here's a little bit about life in the 50s.
Crime during the 1950s:
Was significantly lower in total, even when taking into consideration the infrequency of reporting, crime definitions, etc. I even used the stats from the end of the 50s, just to be fair:
*United States Population and Rate of Crime per 100,000 People in 1960:
-Total Crime: 1,887.2
-Violent Crime: 160.9
-Property Crime: 1,726.3
-Rape: 9.6
-Robbery: 60.1
-Aggravated Assault: 86.1
*United States Population and Rate of Crime per 100,000 People in 2015:
-Total Crime: 2,870.2
-Violent Crime: 383.2
-Property Crime: 2,487.0
-Rape: 28.1
-Robbery: 101.9
-Aggravated Assault: 237.8
The only two major categories that are less today than in 1960 are:
Murder: 5.1 per 100,000 in 1960, 4.9 per 100,000 in 2015
Burglary: 508.6 per 100,000 in 1960, 491.4 per 100,000 in 2015
This is normally attributed to security/deterrence measures i.e. cameras, home security systems, faster police responses, better crimefighting capabilities.
Education during the 1950s:
*the US had the best educational system in the world
*there were hardly any school shootings
*90% of all school levies were approved by voters
*discipline problems in school were minor
*Drugs did not infest American schools
Family during the 1950s:
*Divorce rates were low, while marriage rates were high and people married at a younger age than at any other time in history
*Only 4% of all babies were born out-of-wedlock, compared to 40% today
*90% of all children grew up with married parents
*Americans viewed the home and the family to be most important thing in society
*The White birth rate was extremely high, women were having almost 4 children on average
Economy during the 1950s:
*cost of living was low
*the GDP grew by 250% from 1950-1960
*average incomes tripled
*the housing market boomed
*developers were building 1.5 million homes per year
*Home ownership rates exploded
*60% of Americans were in the middle class category
*Poverty rates were less than 20%
*Consumer spending doubled in the 1950s
*families were able to live comfortably on only one income
Yeah, the 50's were horrible because everyone didn't know what was going on in the world. I think you must be cognitively impaired.
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Inisfad: You can say whatever pithy thing you like about my analysis. You probably don't even know any Black people, let alone shared a sports field with any. More than likely, you're some old liberal menopausal White lady living in a Lilly-White gated community and criticizing racism and border walls. Your George Clooney bit gave you away ;) A "coach" is an influential and motivating force in any young man's life. But for a kid with no father in the house, they are exactly what is needed. Discipline, respect, hard work, sportsmanship, grace in victory and defeat, competition, values. Athletics coaches take troubled boys, give them a purpose, and mold them into men of character. You probably wouldn't understand. I'm starting to think you're probably an old White liberal women that is utterly out of touch with anything masculine, yet still has an opinion (of course). Since that is likely the case, why don't you go ahead and STFU about anything that pertains to fatherhood and masculinity, mmmkay?
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I didn't say the divorce rate was the same in the 50s. Can you read? Perhaps you should get your prescription checked. I said it was lower in an earlier post showing several stats from the 50s. An economic renaissance is only possible with a cultural renaissance. Worthless, degenerate, selfish people are not good for any economy. The fact that you can't see the relationship between the two highlights your utter shallowness and vehement unwillingness to disavow modern culture (the culture your shitty generation created). The mean household income in the United States, according to the U.S. Census Bureau 2014 Annual Social and Economic Supplement, was $72,641. Per capita is less than 30K, and that includes the unemployed, welfare recipients, the elderly on SSI, children, and women that are stay-at-home Moms. Median individual income for persons, age 25+, employed full-time with a Bachelor's Degree is $64,074. Try again, Leftist.
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Inisfad bullshit. It's a symbiotic relationship and even in middle and upper class families the lack of a father is highly detrimental to a child's life. You focused on ONE statistic: the one that your flawed argument hinged upon. What about the suicide rates, the teen pregnancies, the runaway rate, the behavioral disorders, the high school dropout rates, the prison rates, the drug abuse rates, the rape rates???? Are they are economically motivated as well? Keep telling yourself that men are not necessary, you pathetic feminist troll. Children with fathers have a MONUMENTALLY better chance of becoming well-functioning, healthy, productive adults, regardless of economic factors. From one of the sites I posted: "Children with involved, loving fathers are significantly more likely to do well in school, have healthy self-esteem, exhibit empathy and pro-social behavior, and avoid high-risk behaviors such as drug use, truancy, and criminal activity compared to children who have uninvolved fathers." Anything to do with economics? No.
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Sesshounamaru
1.) I didn't say that fatherless children get a free pass to be a failure in life. There are some kids that turn out fine in a single parent home. There are some that struggle and still come out a well-functioning human because of shear willpower. However, exceptions to the rule don't invalidate the rule. You can play the "not all" game from now until doomsday. It doesn't negate the fact that fatherless children have a higher likelihood to fail in life.
2.) Of course Black kids from fatherless homes can find passions that help them achieve in ways outside of athletics. That doesn't mean that Black fatherless kids are not the perfect candidates to partake in organized sport. If you think Blacks aren't more likely to be athletically inclined than academically, you either aren't paying attention or you're cognitively dissonant. Most Black kids do have mothers with strong personalities that present them with a constantly toilsome influence, and I agree that can be an unnecessary weight on their shoulders. Still, positive male role models help any young man or woman in obtaining a normalized view of men in general and of their view of what a healthy relationship with the opposite sex entails.
3.) The foster home you worked in must have been the one home in this country where most of the kids were from married families, because 70% of juveniles in state operated institutions have no father in their life. 90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes – 32 times the national average.
4.) Saying degeneracy or delinquency is a whole lot easier than saying drug use, teen pregnancy, dropping out of school, suicide, going to prison/juvie, committing crimes, being unemployed, being homeless and being a general detriment to society as a whole. Degeneracy to me does not mean anything I don't agree with or the slightest deviation from traditional values.
5.) I am a living example of the things I preach, believe it or not. Read previous posts if you're interested. I am not as unreasonable or insane as some radfem lunatic, nor am I as uncompromising. I simply argue what is already known and should be the accepted truth. A truth that people generally just don't have the courage to admit it because it's distasteful and contradicts what modern cultural norms dictate.
6.) The whole "autistically screeching" meme does not apply to me, and it really is getting kind of cliché and overused, to where anyone with an opinion you choose not to agree with is by default "autiscally screeching" about it. I rely on fact, not emotion. I practice what I preach. Traditional family values are healthier and work better for our people, our culture, and our nation. I'm not arguing to bring this country back to the 50s, I'm only arguing that 1.) the 50s were a better time to grow up and 2.) the nuclear family is incomprehensibly important.
You dismissing the importance of the nuclear family and comparing its destruction to an argument about something as meaningless as transgendered bathrooms shows your shallowness. People that can't conceptualize the importance of the family unit likely cannot conceptualize the importance of cultural integrity or the importance of the nation-state, either. That being said, yes, people of this nature are ignorant of the damage they're doing normalizing the destruction of the nuclear family. You use Kek references, so I'm assuming you fancy yourself alt-right, which confuses me. Family, race, culture, and nation are all intrinsically linked, and none can survive alone. That seems to be what the alt-right argues as well. Amirite?
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@TimeKeeper25:
Not likely:
Crime during the 1950s:
Was significantly lower in total, even when taking into consideration the infrequency of reporting, crime definitions, etc. I even used the stats from the end of the 50s, just to be fair:
*United States Population and Rate of Crime per 100,000 People in 1960:
-Total Crime: 1,887.2
-Violent Crime: 160.9
-Property Crime: 1,726.3
-Rape: 9.6
-Robbery: 60.1
-Aggravated Assault: 86.1
*United States Population and Rate of Crime per 100,000 People in 2015:
-Total Crime: 2,870.2
-Violent Crime: 383.2
-Property Crime: 2,487.0
-Rape: 28.1
-Robbery: 101.9
-Aggravated Assault: 237.8
The only two major criminal categories that are very slightly less today than they were in 1960 (surprisingly) are:
Murder: 5.1 per 100,000 in 1960, 4.9 per 100,000 in 2015
Burglary: 508.6 per 100,000 in 1960, 491.4 per 100,000 in 2015
The drop in murder and burglary is predominantly attributed to higher effectiveness and usage of security/deterrence measures i.e. cameras, home security systems, faster police responses, better crimefighting capabilities.
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@ Sesshounamaru:
I agree degeneracy is used far too much in alt-right circles. It has almost lost its meaning, like any buzzword. I use it only when it applies by definition. Since I'm curious now I'll look up the actual definition: "having lost the physical, mental, or moral qualities considered normal and desirable; showing evidence of decline." Also the noun can mean "an immoral or corrupt person." And degeneracy is defined as just the state of being degenerate. Sounds accurate enough to what I was describing, but perhaps delinquent would be more applicable.
I can imagine where you're coming from, being from a culture that is oppressive with their traditionalism. I for one believe that good things can be taken from traditionalism, and bad things can be left behind. My OP stated that the Boomer generation just rebelled against and questioned every traditional value out of spite, even the ones that seemed like they had obvious virtue. Having children outside of wedlock and making a considerable effort to maintain a nuclear family is one of those. Even if it means sacrificing some degree of your own happiness, the moral virtue of this seems unquestionable to me.
I don't really have a problem with homosexuality. I don't think it's degenerate, in and of itself. I do think that gay people, and especially gay men have a tendency to be promiscuous and exhibitionist, but not all of them are that way. Most Pride parades are kind of degenerate in my opinion. I think that gay people should be less blatant about making a public display of their perversions. They almost weaponize their sexuality in some ways. Look at the difference between the Pride parade in Tokyo and the one in San Francisco. The one in Tokyo was totally fine, and was just a very classy celebration of who they are. The Japanese, of course, have a much more traditional culture. They are generally weird and kinky in their sexuality, but not publicly. The one in SF has guys in S&M, being walked like dogs, wearing next to nothing, fucking each other, etc. There was even some little kid, 12 years old, twerking and getting dry humped by all of these older men. That stuff IS degenerate and perverted, and I hope you can agree. I wouldn't think it was appropriate for heterosexual people to put on displays like that in public, so gay people shouldn't get held to a different standard in my book. Sexuality is a private matter, IMO. Forcing your sexuality upon other people is rude, and really that is the reason why a lot of people have a problem with homosexuals, I think.
I believe there are only two genders and very rare instances of intersex persons. Transgenderism (gender dysphoria) is a mental disorder, technically. I think gender=biological sex and gender expression is something different. Just because a guy wants to be a girl, dresses like a girl, even surgically mutilates himself and takes hormones to mimic being a girl, he is still a he, and he is still a man. All of that stuff just kind of feels like people are trying to mainstream these people's delusions under the guise of tolerance. I for one prefer to live in reality. I would never go out of my way to ridicule a transgendered person though. I just believe that a trans woman is still a man, and no one is going to shame me into believing otherwise.
I don't think the societal stigma should be oppressive surrounding these values. I just think it should be accepted and encouraged that this is, by and large, the best way to raise healthier, smarter, more productive children with the most potential. Our children are the future of our world. They are our legacy, and our most important resource. I think the meaning of life is to achieve happiness, and to me, nothing gives me more purpose than the pursuit of moulding my boys into being exceptional men.
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