Comments by "SocialExperiment" (@nitely2345) on "Danielle Kirsty" channel.

  1. As a male victim of CSA thank you so much for highlighting the fact that men go through this too. It seems like people still really don’t know this.
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  2. I can’t help but wonder why his family didn’t try a little harder to report the situation. As a mother I would know that my son doesn’t have the resources to defend himself in a situation of domestic violence. After seeing him all thin and mutilated I would have reported this and tried harder to get him safe. I know is no use to put “blame” but kinda shows why this man saw no value in himself… his own family didn’t make him feel important. Thank you for bringing light to a case of a male victim of domestic violence because a lot of people still think it cannot happen. So many children suffered in this one as well. And friends with Rose West? I don’t doubt she had the baby to make sure he wouldn’t leave cause psychos are very efficient like that.
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  3. My nephew is 13 and he loves playing with slime and eating spaghetti with his hands. They are not ready for a sexual relationship and I wish people understood this and stopped acting like it’s ok for boys this young to be in sexual relationships.
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  4. I wish there had been someone there to stop her. She didn’t deserve to lose her freedom this way I just wish she hadn’t done it. I wish someone would have helped her go to the police and handled this with her. I wish I knew more about how her support system was and why she might have thought this was her only way.
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  5. Women say the same thing. When I was SAd at 13 I told many women as well as men and nobody said it was bad. Everyone just congratulated me. Including the women.
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  6. Same! I’m so glad that the dad took it seriously. My dad acted like I was such a big bad man when I was assaulted because an older woman wanted me. It’s despicable how toxic society is to young boys.
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  7. He HAD to have known. There is cero surprise in his voice during this call. That was definitely not the first time he heard that story.
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  8.  @MadeOfQuestions  I couldn’t agree more. I was 13. I have been blamed for the whole situation because I did hit on her first. I was mostly joking tho I never in a million years thought she would actually be with me. The first time she r me I was in such shock I couldn’t believe this was real. I kept thinking “surely she’ll stop now… right?” But she never did. I tried to tell 5 different people snd all they did was talk me up like I was such a big bad man. “What a little stud” they said. So I convinced myself for years that this was a good thing. I spent my late teens and early twenties playing up my “player” image and basically felt like I was r wording myself every time. I just wanted it to mean something. I now have a son and I’m extremely over protective of him. He looks just like I did back then and also very tall for his age. I know how some women already look at him and talk about how handsome he is and it makes me feel nauseated. I really wish it was taken more seriously so I’m grateful to people like Daniele because a lot of people I’ll tell this is a problem they’ll tell me they’ve never seen it before and it’s because the media doesn’t report it. Most male victims are ignored if they even dare speak up at all. Thank you for your kind words 🙏
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  9.  @MadeOfQuestions  also what you mentioned about “the equipment not working” is so true. People don’t realize that just because it got hard doesnt mean the dude wants it. It can happen instinctively through sounds or seeing something sxual and it feels completely involuntary especially when you’re a teenager and are still learning to control your impulses.
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  10. It’s not suddenly happening more. It’s that people are just now starting to take it seriously. Sexualizing young boys at a young age has huge repercussions just like with young girls. But in the past (like when i was SAd by an older woman) nobody used to care. I told multiple people and people just congratulated me. No one saw me as a victim so neither did I. It took me having my own son and seeing how innocent he was and seeing how I was just like him. One day I burst out crying over that innocence that that woman killed that I’ll never get back. I’m glad people are finally caring.
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  11. In our Christian school we do background checks and the teachers are almost never fully alone with the kids anyway. I just don’t see how the school was so negligent that they allowed this to happen for so long.
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  12. I am the opposite. I find that woman are much colder to another woman’s pain. The male obgyns I’ve had have all been a lot more compassionate with my condition.
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  13.  @Dr.Morticia  that’s very kind of you thank you. Thankfully I married a wonderful woman that helped me work through it 🙏
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  14. @ I’m used to that unfortunately. Many people just laugh at me and refuse to believe I didn’t enjoy it. They don’t know how lucky they are that this didn’t happen to them. But I believe the more people see how much it happens and the repercussions it has the harder it’ll become to ignore. They’re gonna have to try and understand it. I hope so at least.
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  15. My son is only 2 (looks more like 5 tho) and already I have had females that acted sus around him. Telling me he’s so attractive. One lady at the grocery store called him “hot” I almost had a panic attack. It’s insane how often this happens. Happened to me as a young boy and I told plenty of people and no one cared. People only congratulated me and not just men, women too.
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  16. People disassociate when a child isn’t theirs or isn’t in their family. Same with people that don’t report cases of obvious abuse and neglect or don’t care to adjust their behavior when they are around children. It’s not their kid so that don’t see it as their problem. In summery people are selfish and don’t care to protect anyone but themselves.
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  17. I just found out in expecting my second! Congrats on your new baby 🎉❤
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  18. It’s not that this is happening all of a sudden. It’s that it’s finally being taken seriously.
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  19. @Spicy Autistic GF this is all so true. After you’ve abandoned your kids you do get a second chance but you don’t get to just barge in and yell at them. You have to earn them now. She needed to, instead of becoming their enemy, talk to them in a way more understanding way. Say “girl listen I have been there. I know what it’s like I understand you and I know I haven’t been here and I’m sorry but I don’t want you to go through what I did.” People are way too quick to deem the girls as evil on this one but they went through a lot and deserved more patience as well. What they did was absolutely awful but they were not evil.
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  20. Same. As a man who was SAd by an older woman it is insane how no one cares. I told multiple people and I only got praised. I thought I was the big bad man until a decade past and one day I just burst out crying for that innocence that was killed that I can never get back.
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  21.  @princessbuttercup5787 nobody said that. Stop putting words in people’s mouths to try and have a point when you don’t.
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  22. I’m glad you appreciate that! A lot of teenagers hate when their moms try to protect them and act like they just don’t want them to have fun.
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  23. They should put all pedos in his cell. You know, accidentally, of course.
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  24. In homeschooling my son. No way I am letting him go through what I did. And then society will treat him as if he’s a hero instead of a victim and confuse him? No thanks.
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  25. It took him his whole life to realize he had been abused. It took me ten years to realize. It’s insane how no one cares when a grown woman takes advantage of a little boy like this. People need to understand that men are innocent as well.
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  26. @ I was lucky to meet a wonderful woman and a have a son that have healed me up and made me want to get better. Thank you 🙏
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  27. That was my question. Why all these women doctors and nurses knew and did nothing?
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  28.  @kaylamcgaughey  absolutely! Nothing brings me more joy than seeing good mommas out there protecting their children’s innocence. Little boys are so innocent. It took me having my own son to realize how innocent he was and see how I was just like him once and how I’ll never get that back. Burst into tears about it randomly one day. I just don’t even know what I’d do if some woman did this to my boy. I’ll spend all my time and all my money making sure the law throws the book at her. Seeing this dad going off on his son’s SAer was really healing for me. Many blessings for you and your cute son 🙏
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  29. This!!! I’m sorry but you can’t convince me some of these women didnt enjoy it. How do you go to the same doctor for 12 years whos msturbting you every time you come in?!?! There’s no way anyone is that innocent.
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  30. Seriously! I have a son, and for a grown woman to take advantage of his developing sexuality like this makes me rage. They really are so innocent and think they are in love with every girl they meet. He probably felt so special that this older attractive woman felt attracted to him and she took advantage of him. They mostly don’t even admit to themselves that they’re being assaulted until they are much older.
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  31.  @BakedBrain7100 they were probably not that bad? They were sexting with adults! That’s dangerous. How is it bad for the parents to want to take care of that? Y’all are nuts. This was not about their sexuality this was about their bad behavior. They were exposed to sex way too young and it had awful repercussions. Stop making this about what it isn’t.
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  32. This!!! People just worship celebrities. They literally model their lives after these strangers who are often straight up narcissist who care about nothing else but money and power.
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  33.  @laurapotpie this exactly! People need to stop thinking that being rich and famous is the ultimate life goal. It is not. Money and fame are not all there is to life. It is just a vanity.
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  34. Yes! I’m so sad that people are blaming all men now. How is that what they took for this case? There were multiple females who knew and did nothing. There’s no way some of these women didn’t enjoy this. How on earth did women go to him for years and years after he’s SAing them so blatantly?!?! No one is that innocent. Always playing victim and avoiding all accountability.
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  35.  @GlamMa689 even after hearing all these stories you’ll still see moms and dads defending their choice to allow their kids on social nexus because “oh they’re gonna do it anyway” and “everyone’s doing it” some people are simply too stupid to understand the true dangers of things and things that all these negative influences have no effect on their kids. I really would hope they wouldn’t but literally on this comment section there’s people saying “you can’t shelter your kids, you gonna let them live” blah blah as if social media was some sort of vital necessity. It shouldn’t even exist.
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  36. I don’t care if I get accused of victim blaming… but the women who went to him for years and years…. There’s no way they’re that innocent. Msturbting them every single appointment?!?! Licking them?!?!?! How did anyone think that was a medical procedure?!?! No is that stuopid.
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  37. If a teacher slapped a kid nowadays they’d be arrested. I agree with your general point but still…
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  38.  @LunarEleven no, just don’t do it. You are not a in any position to me telling people that a ridiculously strong drug should be considered under any circumstance. Stop doing drugs and get some sense.
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  39. Yeah and all those female doctors/nurses who just allowed it to happen and did nothing are just so pure of heart. Generalizing on all men will never be ok no matter how hard you try to confirm your bias.
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  40. Oh gosh we have the same Sunday routine! After 11am mass this is what I watch to have lunch 🎉
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  41. Oh nooooo not the economy flight 😂 poor soul. I truly don’t know what goes through rich peoples heads lol I’m so glad I’m poor.
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  42. ⁠ @KwazyKupkakes show me one case in the us of someone getting 30 years for drugs and only 10 for murder.
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  43.  @kellyeaton9994  “trying her best” Isn’t going partying for 14 years and then barging in and demanding they listen to her. She literally did yell and was impatient this was said by most witnesses. No one deserves to be murdered and no one deserves to be abandoned by their mother during their formative years. Every action has an equal and opposite reaction. Inform yourself before bothering people with pointless comments.
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  44. All those female doctors and nurses that were right there and did nothing…
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  45.  @HopeSargeant so basically you want her to teach her kid that she should give into peer pressure and put herself in danger because otherwise the other little kids will laugh at her? Wow. Social media is not a vital necessity and not giving it to them isn’t any kind of abuse. Not every kid will disobey the way that you would have. My kid is still too young to ask for social media but my nieces and nephews don’t have it and they don’t care about it. They didn’t grow up with it so it doesn’t rule their life like it does other little kids. It’s too much pressure for little kids to handle and too much exposure to things they’re too young to understand.
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  46. She was probably too close to 25 for him lol
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  47. Unfortunately this is just Canadas Justice system. They never give criminals any time. They feel worse for the criminal than the victims. Even if the victims are children.
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  48. Not only that but she was having wild sx parties in the house her daughter lives. She was absolutely exposed to things she shouldn’t have and was putting her in danger of being SAd herself.
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  49.  @AniyuAsh  What about that female doctor that just laughed that victim off and said “oh that’s just how he is” was he able to trick her into thinking lckng a patient was a medical procedure… please. A lot of people selfishly looked away to protect their own careers. Like there aren’t enough nursing jobs in this world. Not everyone is a victim, sometimes people just don’t care about the suffering of others. You cannot convince me that all these people were just that innocent that they didn’t realize that the doctor was always asking to see the patients longer after the normal check up. A lot of people had to look away to make sure this continued to happen for as long as it did. And I’m sorry but a lot of patients were also not victims. There’s no way a woman whos given birth to children doesnt know that she’s being SAd and continues to go to the same doctor for 12 years, and even drives 4 hours to see him. Some of them were just questionable people themselves. I feel terrible for the minors and the people who went one time and tried to say something and were ignored.
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  50. Absolutely! All she cared about was all the money and presents she was getting just from selling herself to this guy so she was having wild sx parties in the same house as her daughter lived and kept her from her father to the point he was driven into depression. She is the most selfish person I’ve heard about in a while.
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