Comments by "Debany Doombringer" (@debanydoombringer1385) on "Tradwives" video.

@tonycooke8545 No. Both are submissive to each other. Because it's the woman saying that, it's obviously bad. Submission in this context means putting the needs of someone else above your own desires. For example, I could go out and buy something really expensive I'd love to have, but that will put a burden upon my husband to then work harder to replace it if it's not something we've budgeted for. That works both ways. If the husband does the same, it puts a burden on the wife when buying food and purchasing essentials for the family.
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People are misunderstanding what submission means. It's being said by Christian women. It's directly from the Bible. The Bible also says the man must submit to his wife. It's not a one-way street. It simply means putting others before yourself. Which if both spouses do that, it means you're both thinking about how everything impacts the other person instead of only thinking about yourself as a child does. I'm a "trad" wife. I'm a Christian woman who fulfills her Biblical role. The man is the head and the woman is the neck. She controls where the head faces. Yes a wife should do what she can to support her husband's career because when he is successful, the family benefits. That doesn't include doing his work for him because that's fraud and against the Bible. This doesn't work if both don't understand their roles and what's expected of them. This is why if you want to enter into a traditional Biblical marriage, you both need to know what that means. It seems like her husband had no idea she wanted that role or expected that from her marriage. That's why I always dated a minimum of 2 years before even considering marriage. Even so, I was engaged 3 times, asked 4 or 5, but only walked down the aisle once. Her saying she didn't understand he was abusive means she never had any other relationship in her life and I find that very hard to believe. My husband understood what I expected before we got married and agreed to provide. Me wanting that and having the qualities I do, is why he wanted me to be the mother of his children. Not because of what I financially brought or my looks. My morals.
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