Comments by "Debany Doombringer" (@debanydoombringer1385) on "The Personality Disorders Behind Wokeness With Josh Slocum" video.

  1. We used to understand this. I'm a survivor of childhood sexual abuse. One of the first things in therapy is to think of yourself as a survivor instead of victim because that's the first step in taking power back from the abuser. It's one of the most important ones. Once you get that into your frame of mind, you're able to stop blaming yourself and stop reacting to what happened so you take back control of your life. Now everything is just affirming how someone feels rather than really helping them deal with it.
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  2. Seeing as you grew up around Hollywood I can see that being your perspective. The film industry isn't a good reflection of the how it is in the rest of the world. It's an extremely isolated bubble. So it is wrong to judge everywhere under the false assumption that it's like it is there. That's just not the case. I personally have had far more women try to control my decisions than men and I live in an area people like you would most likely consider backwards and misogynist without having actually lived there. Very red, very religious areas. I have been charged with being a drain on society and worthless as a woman because I chose a more traditional role. A role my mother didn't take. She worked in administration her entire life with computers and in IT departments while my father, who was less educated, worked in chemical plants. I didn't like not having a parent at home, so I chose the opposite. I have been attacked on line and in person by other women for my choices. So no, men aren't trying to control me. Women on the other hand will try to strip me of my womanhood for not bowing to their ideals. That's life outside your bubble. I'm not anomaly either. It's been going on for several years. My family also dates back to Jamestown as an indentured servant (he was the 2nd son to a royal) and before because his great grandson married a Native. I don't know why you added that, because it doesn't make you special or more authoritative. Edit: I am college educated and could practice child psychology. So I'm not a stupid hick or anything either. All the women in my family, going back to my grandmother who was born in 1918, are college graduates. While none of the men are Edit 2: Correction. My great grandmother was a school teacher. I'm the first in 4 generations to choose to not work outside the home. All born and raised in the same red, religious, state. This was on top of running a small cattle ranch. Being told you can't work and everything else, never applied to poor and rural people which my family was.
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  3. ​ @SuperMarion61  That's an opinion though. People are allowed different opinions. Someone not agreeing with you doesn't make them "wrong". It just means they have a different perspective.
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