Comments by "Debany Doombringer" (@debanydoombringer1385) on "WOKE Teacher IN TEARS After BACKLASH From Parents And LOSING JOB For Threatening Trump Supporters!" video.

@Bebopvicious00 That you're refusing to understand parents don't like anyone else using words that indicate possession is the problem. They are NOT yours. I have taken care of other people's children to the point I refer to them as child number 3 or my son by another mother. The difference is that it's understood it's a joke. That they're at my house so much, they might as well move in. It's also different because the parents know me and my family extremely well. Teachers don't have that type of relationship with parents. It's a stranger saying their child belongs to them. Your feelings aren't relevant. Parents are clearly indicating that's a boundary that's being crossed. Rather than acknowledge it, ever teacher just basically says f u, parent's boundaries don't matter.
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@gimpinainteasy No they're not. They are children that will be in their lives a year at most. How you're describing it is exactly why parents take issue with it. They are strangers. "Had their kids ripped from them," making it sound like a mother having her child taken away. That's the problem. It's a mindset that needs to stop. A boundary has been crossed. What's really creepy is that those were children she'd never even met before. Imagine walking up to a stranger and saying that about their child. I appreciate being passionate about your job, but that's what it is. A job.
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@KrazyIndeed No. They're expected to teach reading, writing, math, and other subjects as well as enforce the rules of the classroom. The rules of the classroom are not the rules at home. You're basically saying children should raise their hand to go to the bathroom everywhere and stand in line everywhere. Oh, and never talk unless they're outside. The things they teach in that regard only have a place in the classroom. Even young children understand this, but you don't.
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@elizabethjones3484 Parents take exception to teachers or anyone referring to their children as "my" kids. That's a possessive word. As in they belong to me. It indicates a mindset of how that person views children they see, in some cases, an hour a day. That they are equal to or even more important than the parents. You talk about boundaries, and if you're talking like you have some type of claim on someone else's child, that's crossing one. Not a single one of my teachers ever said "my" kids. They said "I treat those kids like my own." All these teachers are supposedly "educated" teaching children of the "uneducated", but even the uneducated understand that words have meaning behind them. That your choice of words reflects how you view something. I don't know where teachers have been taught to use this phrase, but parents have repeatedly said they don't like it. Rather than acknowledge that and change their phrasing, we're met with being lectured like you just did and told your life story to try to gain sympathy instead of simply stopping using it. Which again indicates a mindset of I know better than you, you're beneath me, I'll refer to your child however I please.
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