Comments by "Debany Doombringer" (@debanydoombringer1385) on "Sydney Watson" channel.

  1.  @randybaumery5090  Male therapists get involved with their patients too. Patients sometimes have transference which causes them to become obsessed with their therapist and believe they are in love with them. Ethically the therapist should immediately refer them to someone else if they suspect that is happening. Just like every other profession, some of them aren't ethical and take advantage of the situation. I'm a child psychologist. I didn't go into it because I get my rocks off listening to horrible abuse stories from children. I did it to help children get out of those situations and deal with the damage that it's done to them. The only therapist that deal with what your talking about are sex therapists. Contrary to what you're attempting to portray, that's an extremely small group. Edit: It's a field women like for the same reason they dominate the nursing field. It's the nurture aspect of women causing them to want to help and heal.
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  2.  @ohsweetmystery  That’s not true. Seats and planes have gotten smaller over the years. You can tell by old photos and how much they could put on the tray tables when they fed them. It was 3 courses and a drink usually. Airlines have been contemplating standing “seats” for the last few years so they could cram more in.
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  3. It's because she's trying to rationalize why she went from being treated like an amazing person to like a pile of dog poop on your shoe.
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  4. I developed early and had the same reaction. I wore my brother's hand me down clothes and suddenly the tops didn't fit anymore. There were these things on my chest that limited my movement and I couldn't throw and stuff like I used to. If someone would have asked me if I wanted them chopped off I would have been thrilled. I even wished I was a boy after the monthly crap started because I just wanted it all to stop. Women need to be open and talk about going through that with young girls so hopefully they won't be swayed into believing that just because they are uncomfortable in their bodies at that time doesn't mean they should be a boy.
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  5.  @zelenilum290  Kids aren't "sometimes" molested by close family members. That's the usual circumstance because it's much easier for them to gain the trust of a child. This person was telling this child that an adult exposing themselves to them is perfectly okay in certain circumstances. It isn't, ever. The fact she then went to talk about consent after exposing the child to things they didn't consent to is sending confusing mixed messages on top of everything else. Pride parades have kink in them. The fact she tells the child there are things they are too young to talk to about what they just saw, says the child is being exposed to things they shouldn't be. So stop trying to say they aren't like that or about context. You're ignoring the full context. I'm also going to point out you're insisting context matters while ignoring the fact a child doesn't understand context making your, and her, entire argument moot. Edit: I have a degree in child psychology and am a survivor of what's being discussed. I don't believe you are as educated or knowledgeable about this subject as I am. I'm honestly disturbed by the fact you seem more concerned about this woman than the child. You'd rather risk a child being harmed than say this woman needs to use better language or even entertain the idea that abusers are in the LGBTQ+ community despite the vast evidence to the contrary.
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  6. @Just Ask Questions Or they can pay for 2 seats since they’re consuming twice as much fuel as a normal sized person. Instead my ticket price goes up so I get to pay for it.
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  7. The ego of these teachers is just amazing. They really think they are every student's favorite teacher and that the kids in their class will protect them. My kids liked 3 of their teachers their entire public school life and none of them were like this. In fact, one of their favorite history teachers taught that black people have played an important roll in this country since it's founding. That they were leaders in the military, were land owners with slaves themselves, and like all landowners allowed to vote. That they were so much more than just slaves, you know, the truth.
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  8. I dunno. This stock thing was raining red pills. A lot of them were truly shocked that the big guys did that.
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  9. Honestly, yes that's what she'll be taught if she is unfortunate enough to get a teacher that pushes this ideology. They'll tell her that your relationship is toxic because you're being abused by someone with more power than you and her. She may or may not tell you because secrecy is a big part of this. They are inserting themselves between you and your child as the true authority figure. The only person that will be honest with them. This is the same tactic used by a certain someone in Germany.
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  10. I wasn't required to take that course in the early 90s, but it people that like playgrounds was covered in my abnormal psych class. Like others, treatment options were discussed as well as the tendency to reoffend, but nothing that you described was mentioned.
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  11.  @da-xninja255  It's countries that were created by white people and white is the majority. It has white culture and values as norms. Just like if you moved to Japan, you would be in a country where Japanese culture is the norm. The difference is that if you move to Japan, you are expected to respect the culture and norms instead of trying to change their culture to fit yours, but that isn't the case in majority white countries. It is demanded that the culture of that country change to make the new culture "feel accepted".
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  12.  @bigdaddy741098  Shaming someone for doing things is considered bullying today. You’re forgetting definitions have changed. Not being 100% supportive is considered bullying now. Slut shaming is called bullying. Looking disgustingly at a morbidly obese person is considered bullying. You’re talking about a bully at school which doesn’t translate into the adult world and interactions.
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  13. What does that have to do with the topic of biological men being housed with women in prison? Nothing. Here's a thought, don't try to hijack one cause for another one. You can support multiple causes at once if you so choose. You don't get to demand that people ignore the cause they are currently supporting because of your personal feelings. You're not the controller of what should and shouldn't be an issue. Edit: It's nice to know that you think women being r@ped is such a low priority. I'm sure that brings comfort to all the women having it done, becoming pregnant (your cause), and being told they weren't r@ped because it was a "woman".
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  14. It's because people are afraid to parent anymore. You've got all these "experts" that say just disciplining your children will cause brain damage. They're told they should do everything they can to make sure their children are happy. It's crazy some what some of the current parenting advice is.
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  15. Children would sit in front of the radio for hours too. It's not new. It wasn't new with TV. Parents were just more involved for the most part. Until Gen X it was uncommon that a parent or grandparent wasn't at home when the children got home from school. Gen X was the least supervised generation in history. That started the parenting trend that's still going on today. Just now their supervised by a stranger you pay. Parents come home, they're tired from work and mentally drained. They've got to feed the kids and do as much housework and laundry they can when they're at home so they don't spend much time supervising their kids. While I can blame the parents to a degree, it's just as much the current culture of consumerism that says you've got to have all this stuff or you're not successful instead of the standard of success being you're family.
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  16. ​​ @_Sloppyham ​ It's not my job or anyone's job to read their mind to try to figure out what they possibly might have meant. They said men. Not trans men. Men. So the answer is no. Men can in fact NOT get pregnant. It's scientifically impossible because in order to be a man (an adult human male) you have to have male gametes. To get pregnant requires female gamets. Men are not born with the necessary organs to carry a child. I use the scientific definition of man which is sex plus stage of development. Just like mare is the scientific term to describe a female adult horse and filly a young female horse. We have these descriptors for every species including humans. I can go into detail to explain how reproduction works if you're still confused. Given the state of our education system, it wouldn't be surprising. Edit: The entire point of developing language was so we no longer had to try to figure out what the other person meant. That's why maybe people like that person should stop trying to destroy it.
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  17.  @AeonStaite  Have you not read Supreme Court cases? There's a clear split between church and state. Believe it or not, people are free to be religious no matter how much you personally hate it. Just like you are free to hate it. There is no law pushing any religion on anyone. The only time there was, was when Jefferson declared Christianity the state religion of Virginia when he was governor. He did it to test the system. There is no question that our laws stem from Christianity, but that's because they are based on British common law which does have a state religion. That doesn't mean they're pushing that religion on anyone however. You may not like the decisions and laws some states have put in. It's simple. Don't live there. This country was founded with large state powers for that very reason. So every citizen can go live under laws that best suit them. We're not supposed to be completely cohesive or the people of such a vast and differing country wouldn't be represented.
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  18. Except the they still managed to support the kid and beat the baddies. 💎🙌
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  19.  @silverletter4551  Not when it came to adult topics. Children weren't consulted in family decisions or even allowed personal decisions. Working the farm and doing chores are not the same thing as making decisions.
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  20.  @boatman6865  Grownup? He's a senile old man with obvious cognitive decline. It's funny Trump was called a narcissist for calling out bad reporting and Biden is a "grownup" by telling reporters to only report what you're told or we'll investigate you. Not surprised though since Obama wiretapped them.
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  21. @Just Ask Questions Or we could advocate for healthier lifestyles instead of glorifying impending heart attacks and strokes.
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  22. That's what I did. When my 3 year old son wanted a pink CareBear castle for Christmas, he got it. A few years later at Disney World he wanted the pink light up gun, he got it. He wasn't shamed for it and he wasn't praised for it. We figured he was gay, and he is.
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  23.  @darunealbane  Exactly. The vast majority will not end up being trans at all. This has been documented already. Of children that think they are only a tiny fraction ever go on to transition. The viewpoint of those pushing this say, then they just stop taking the blockers no harm no foul. The problem is we just set them back physically and mentally because hormones are key to brain, bone, and organ development. So yes there is harm.
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  24.  @danielarejas7118  Not all trans people need to transition. It's for the ones that are in danger of self harm if not done. It's dangerous medical procedures and dangerous medications with very serious long term side effects. Trying to ignore that out of presser to be accepting doesn't change the facts. How can a society say smoking is bad because it causes cancer also advocate for taking pharmaceutical drugs with the same or even greater risk of cancer? HRT was created orginally for women after hysterectomies. They were encouraged to get off of them after 50 because the risk outweighed the reward of preventing osteoporosis. Now the companies are pushing women that haven't had a hysterectomy to take them to stop menopause symptoms, which is a natural process that we've had forever. Knowing full well the risks of heart disease and cancer it causes. Going even further, they are also trying to get children to start taking them again knowing the longer you take them, the greater the risks increase. Why people see this differently than tobacco preying on children is beyond me. Especially since we know these companies have a history of this behavior, or have we all forgotten the opioid crisis already?
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  25. I saw it there too. So I was aware of this story already. It's horrific.
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  26.  @Awklife  That's in one city and children aren't there at night when it gets like that. People are also arrested when they go too far proving the point.
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  27. As someone with a son that would classify and has been diagnosed with dysmorphia, it's definitely more "born" that way for the true ones. I'll also argue that there's likely a hereditary factor as well since I'm anorexic which is another form of it. He is not recommended for transition because I never treated him like he was different or special and raised both my boys to be confident in who they are and their abilities. He's too comfortable in his own skin to need to change his outside to feel better about himself. He still goes by being male. He does cross dress on occasion, usually at comic or anime conventions, and that seems to be enough for him. That's the only place he does it in public. When he was young he did gravitate to somethings that were more female like he wanted a pink Carebear castle and would choose pink glittery flashing guns. He was different enough that he convinced my father just by being himself, you're born gay or transgender. Edit: He did have a lot of his friends trying to pressure him into being full on transwoman and going for surgery. Fortunately he knew that wasn't for him because he admitted he didn't feel like he needed that. He also 100% disagrees with all this craziness going on right now as do most transgender people.
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  28. Unfortunately not everyone lives in a rural area. The majority of the population live in cities so those things aren't an option. Those also aren't activities most young girls like to do. Tiktok really exploded during the pandemic when those activities were banned in many places. It's nice that you grew up that way, but it's not a solution for most people. To be more blunt, it's a nice story, but it's not a realistic solution to the current problem. I grew up working the family farm, but I know most people don't have access to that type of life.
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  29. She bankrupted him and ruined his career. He got fired from every role he had and no one will hire him, despite him being a huge box office draw.
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  30. They’re both eating disorders. Anorexia isn’t even really about food just like being morbidly obese isn’t. For anorexia, it’s about control. Everything feels out of control and the one thing you can have complete control over is what you put in your body. For the other way it’s about comfort. They find comfort in food again because they feel out of control. Both require you to address the underlying cause instead of just treating the symptoms they create. I’m anorexic. Just like any addiction you’re never “cured”. You will always get the impulse. You have to learn techniques that let you overcome them. Blaming other people being skinny for my emotional problems doesn’t help people like me. Edit: My 2nd pregnancy snapped me out of it, but still almost 25 years later, when my stress levels start to build I stop eating. The difference is now I realize I’m doing it and why and force myself to eat at least something.
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  31. These ideologies ignore that the group they're hating on has the largest number of self harm and the largest group of homelessness. I will say that at least in Britain on some levels, they're coming to understand the damage. New studies are showing that that group is now the highest statistical under achievers in education and have fallen behind so much they are the group that now requires intervention. Rather that actually occurs or not remains to be seen, but at least some are acknowledging the true situation.
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  32. ​​ @wtfimcrying  That's not true. Homeschooled children do fine socially. They really do better because they socialize with adults in the worst case scenario. Most people that homeschool connect with other parents and set up field trips and outings. They are also in organized sports at the Boys & Girls Club. As for worrying about their peers if they don't have a phone, you're the parent. Their peers aren't feeding them, clothing them, etc. What they think isn't relevant. You're coming off as wanting to be your child's friend. Will you put yourself in the poorhouse because your child won't have the newest gadget like a friend might? My sons didn't have a phone until high school. They didn't have a smart phone until college. They were limited on computer time and weren't allowed online at all until they were older and always monitored because there are very bad people out there. Making personal and face to face connections are important to development. So it's interesting that you're worried about social development when it comes to homeschooling, but not when it comes to making sure they can communicate outside of messaging. Edit: My sons are Gen Z. I'm going to assume you're a Millennial or later because you care why too much about what others think to be Gen X. My degree is child psychology. Both my sons are well adjusted, caring, responsible, productive members of society. Your job as a parent is to raise good future members of society. That's it. Not to be their buddy. Not to be their personal bank account. To be a parent.
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  33.  @ultrazappy7815  Then point out the legislation so it can be changed. Nobody can. It doesn't even meet the definition of a theory because it's not based on anything concrete. It shouldn't be taught at all and certainly not as fact which it is. It took Critical Theory, which is based on Marxism and Freud, and added race because that's what is the weakest point in the US. No where in the world is Critical Theory taught as fact and if it is taught, it's with clear understanding of where it comes from. Just like the 1619 Project isn't based on but a single historical fact yet they are trying to teach it as the truth even though the author has said it's fiction, they are trying to teach that CRT is 100% how it is and that's simply false. Edit: How can you look at that poster, created by Krenshaw the mother of CRT, and take this theory as fact?
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  34.  Bo Stephens  Then, when humans built the Tower of Babble, He destroyed it and spread humans all across the world and forced them to have different languages to prevent them from reuniting. I would imagine that is when races were created for the same reason since it can be detected by DNA. Plus God destroyed the Earth by flood after Adam and Eve, so we're all descended from Noah's family. In other words, you're leaving out a lot.
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  35.  @wu1ming9shi  First you have to understand that transgender is an umbrella term. It was made to encompass both transsexuals and transvestites. Transexual is what you're referring to. Transvestite is a man who likes to dress as a woman usually as a sexual kink. After they were combined, then the individual terms became "offensive" thus mixing the kink into the dysmorphia. Now no difference is seen between the two, even though there is. So now people with a sexual kink are getting access to the target of that kink which is creating women being assaulted and exposure to male genitals to fulfill their fantasies. Edit: Transvestites are also undergoing partial surgery so they can live their kink 24/7 out in public.
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  36.  @jonathanjacobs5783  Women have been teaching for centuries. Even in the Bible it says it's fine for women to teach young children about God. Whatever issue you have with women is your personal problem that you're trying to force others to comply to, just like the teachers you're complaining about.
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  37.  @jackmorgan8931  My children weren't allowed any of those things until they were older. I monitored everything they watched on TV, they were only allowed to play educational games with me supervising for a couple hours a week, and they had no phone or anything online until they were teenagers (16 for the phone with no data). You're trying to act like something is impossible when it only takes a parent being a parent. Edit: They both are kind, productive members of society in long term relationships.
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  38.  @bobby45825  That was more true in my generation because we didn't even have anything afterschool. No programs, no babysitters, etc. That's why we were called latchkey kids. We didn't end up like this. What are parents supposed to do? Stop living beyond their means and don't let their kids have internet access. If you stop trying to buy every new gadget and do your own cooking, most married couples could afford for one of them to stay home or at least only work part time. We scratched by and even sometimes had to sell some of our stuff, but my kids had a parent at home because raising them was more important than stuff. Edit: You teach your children culture because it's not based on everything outside your house. That's why we have multiple cultures in the US. Why does your child have or need a cell phone? They don't. They are children.
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  39. Sorry about your issue, but the rest of the world isn't responsible for taking care of you. It's not hard to avoid. As long as you don't engage the content, the algorithm doesn't feed it to you. The internet is clearly not the place for you so I have no idea why you're on it. Trolling, which is what this stuff is, has been a thing since the internet came online.
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  40. You didn't watch the whole thing and that's clear. Males commit suicide at a higher rate mainly from lack of a stable male role model in their life. Not as you suggest at all. Men are rejected for being manly men even though studies show they tend to toward masculine when their masculinity is threatened. She also addressed that women taking what used to be male roles and even being praised for being masculine while not uplifting men in similar ways has been detrimental and leave men feeling they have no place in society, but feel free to focus only on the first couple of minutes that just introduced the topic. If what we wear has no affect on us, why do women feel a need to dress up or feel better when wearing certain items.
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  41.  @NilsDavila  He's not being treated like a minority because they aren't treated that way and haven't been for decades. You're entire comment is just as bad as the woke ideology crap because it accepts it as fact and still puts everything around race and gender. The hierarchy in the US is based on class, like most places, not anything you or they claim it is. Take your race baiting BS and go peddle it to the racist woke people that agree with you.
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  42.  @tayteashworth2521  OMG! It's nearly as bad for ya'll. BLM wanting to remove ya'll completely from any type of family role and the current media portrayal of being gay. It's ridiculous how many black male roles in commercials and shows currently are all gay men.
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  43. @Chandler Burse Most conservative history professors aren't saying that. What they are saying is that ONLY the bad stuff is being taught. So either way isn't a complete picture. Nuances are removed completely. For example, yes Washington and Jefferson owned slaves (Jefferson did not father a child by one according to DNA testing even though some teach he did). They also both did not like the institution and wrote it as the largest section of the Declaration of Independence. However it was removed because 2 colonies didn't agree and they everything in there had to be agreed upon by all 13. The negotiation during the writing of the Constitution was that it would end in 20 years. The invention of the cotton gin made it much more profitable so that didn't occur. Nobody is taught that part so they're taught they were racist horrible people so everything they created is based on that. Also the first regularly published works in the colonies was the weekly sermon by a black pastor. It needs to be taught correctly and not in away to influence but to simply inform. Edit: I was taught about the bad people that owned slaves, but also about families that would purchase a family to keep them together, educate them, and release them and leave them property upon their death. The reason it was upon their death is because it wasn't legal to free them before then. Nuance.
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  44. ​​​ @jonathandevereaux298  That's disputed. It's well documented that the mind will go to incredible lengths to protect itself from trauma until the person is able to deal with it. The idea that it would go so far as to create an entirely different person isn't really that far fetched. Creating a large number of them? Extremely doubtful. What is being shown on that app? Absolutely not. There's no trigger that's causing the other one to protect the mind. Whether it's a flashback or a real perceived threat. So no, these are make believe. Most likely they are just flushing out different aspects of their personality. Trying to see who they really want to be. Which is more acceptable to others and that type of thing. Edit: Other than taking up the time of psychologists, doubtful it will cause longterm issues.
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  45. I'm Native. We still live there. I don't know who taught you that complete BS, but we're not extinct. That area was already controlled by France and Spain. We bought it from France and won the rest in the Spanish American War. I don't know how much you know about how Spain treated Natives, but I'd suggest giving it a look. Manifest destiny had to do with the entire continent. The US doesn't want, nor is it trying, to take over Canada or Central America. If we wanted Central America, we could have taken it during the Spanish American War. Also you should know that Natives have fought beside white Americans in every single war. Take your decisive crap somewhere else because the majority of Natives aren't interested. Edit: This whole stolen land stuff is extremely insulting just so you know. We fought and lost in most cases and signed treaties. Those treaties were violated and that's the only land that we consider "stolen". Those are and have been settled in court. Saying anything else was stolen is insulting because you're calling my ancestors cowards and stupid. They were neither.
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  46.  @nightmarerex2035  My sons weren't allowed a phone that would text until 16. I strictly limited their TV and computer time too. I didn't allow them to have a computer in their bedroom and once they got decent phones at 16, they had to give them up when it was time to relax and go to bed. They are 23 and 24 now. When it's nice outside they'd rather be outside relaxing near the pool or watching the dogs play then be on the computer or phone. They both work fulltime and contribute to paying the bills as long as they live with us. They know how to talk to people face to face and make friends in real life instead of having just internet friends.
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  47. Twitter doesn't pay much and it was designed to be how it is from the beginning. Seriously, welcome to the internet. This has been a thing since it went live in the late 90s. It's just normies, like you, weren't on it. The best advice I can give is the same we gave the odd one that would wander in. Stay off it.
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  48.  @jones1351  One huge problem with that strawman you just built. That letter of intent isn't binding. You can also leave the military. You just have to pay back the government or smoke some pot for a dishonorable discharge. You can't replace your ovaries or testicles. As for top surgery, correcting it is very difficult and a lot more expensive than chopping them off. You have to slowly inflate a balloon to create skin to close around the implant which will be difficult due to scar tissue and it will be nearly impossible to make them look right. That's why if you have a mastectomy you're asked beforehand if you plan on reconstruction because the surgery will be done differently. I can find studies that claim the wonders of a lobotomy and that smoking is healthy. Psychology is a soft science so screaming about the scientific method when it comes to that field is laughable. There are too many variables that can't be included a study because it's genetics, environment, and several other things. A parent saying no about a piece of candy when you were 3 can change your outcome to someone else. Edit: I'm an actual child psychologist so if you want to play the appeal to authority card, I've got that covered. Just so you're aware, those that practice psychology and those engaged in research don't usually agree. We're the ones that have to deal with the fallout of all their studies and the real world results. We're dealing with a second adolescence because of parents reading "studies" and researchers publishing books.
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  49.  @Mikerille  It was the Japanese that were cornered off after WWII. The Chinatown in San Francisco has existed for 170 years. It was an immigration point of entry for the Chinese in the 1800s. They were created by Chinese immigrants because there was an economic downturn and they were driven out of jobs in the gold mines. They lived near each other and supported each other's businesses in that area and thus Chinatown was born. Just like there are little Italy's, Chinatown was created similarly. As for your claim about leftists, the Democratic party is 40% "Progressives" which are the ones pushing the censorship, socialism, and the woke mess. Democrat leadership and voices (like journalists) have been calling for those that supported Trump be rounded up and put before Reconciliation councils, that they be denied jobs until they repent, and various other things to prevent them from daring to do that again. I guarantee you more than 10% agree on some level with the Progressives, so no the left is no longer a majority of moderates. That's why it's been bleeding moderates and continues to do so. Since you don't know anything about the history of Chinatowns, it's not surprising you don't know what's been happening now. There are an estimated 11 million illegal immigrants currently in the US so I have no idea where you get 40,000. Yes the majority of citizens speak English. It's required for citizenship, which my husband just got Friday. It's required for the majority of jobs as well. That's why almost all products have a label in English only unlike in Canada which has English and French. I'm curious why people like you are fine with illegal immigration when it directly affects the ability of minorities to get jobs, especially blacks. It's also interesting that you're fine with their low wages and few protections under the law. If they get seriously injured on one of those hard labor jobs, they don't get anything because they aren't covered by Worker's Compensation and can't receive disability. To me it's little different than China's labor force and how they are treated and not far from slavery honestly. I guess you're argument is they do jobs white people don't, when the reality is they do jobs well off white people won't.
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  50.  @easternrebel1061  See you can't have the US or the Constitution if you eliminate liberalism. The US is founded on liberal ideals. The Constitution is built on their foundation. This isn't Europe where there are different types of governments to pull from or try to return to that weren't liberal in history. Every political party in the US, at least major one, is liberal. Progressivism has advanced here to the point it has become illiberal. You should also be made aware every political party has everything from slightly the opposite to hard left/right historically. It's only recently that one party has become solidified and driven out most of its moderates, centrists, and slightly leaning the other way. As you've pointed out, it's not Republicans. Contrary to how you're framing the left (they are no longer really liberal as they embrace more and more progressives), it is not a good thing that they are so cohesive. As those not in line get pushed out, it weakens the party's political power and ability to maintain a majority. Either you're European or you don't understand or aren't as educated in US politics as you're attempting to make yourself seem. A lot of people tend to confuse conservative with religion as well. That's because Reagan focused the party to cater to them to get them as a large voting block. It's not because conservatives identified with them. Just as the party is now starting to focus on the working class because they have been abandoned by the left. The focus of parties change as the political needs of the people change. The parties always contained a mix because it forces them to compromise on issues so the country functions better and the people are represented.
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