Comments by "Debany Doombringer" (@debanydoombringer1385) on "Tim Pool Is TOTALLY WRONG About Entitled Woman's INSANE Demands Of Men For First Date!" video.

So wait, if things don't go well and I realize we're just not clicking I was only trying to get a free meal? I've gone out with guys I could talk to for hours on the phone and just didn't click face to face. So I'm supposed to be able to tell the future or I'm just looking for free stuff?
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I won't say the amount is correct but yes meeting and grabbing a coffee isn't a date. If I was I went on lots of dates with former female coworkers. You do that a couple times during the get to know each other phase, THEN you go on an official date.
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To all the guys in the comments saying "first date should be coffee", that's not a date. If you think it is then no wonder so many of you think you're being ghosted or broken up with. That's just getting to know you phase of the relationship. Once you're no longer in school that's how you spend some time together to decide if you want to date just like you'd spend time hanging out with her at school. If you didn't consider just talking to a girl during lunch at school a date, coffee isn't one either. After a few times, THEN you ask her out on an official date which is a sitdown meal with maybe a play, concert, or movie afterwards. This is to see if your tastes and likes are compatible. So while I agree $200 is excessive and certainly shouldn't be expected for a first date, coffee isn't a date either. Edit: I've been married 25 years and know this. How can ya'll be so clueless when you're IN the dating scene. I'm not obligated to keep replying to you if we meet up for 30 minutes to get to know each other over a coffee once. That's not even a relationship yet.
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@urssoz No it's not and if you think that it's no wonder you think "modern women" are evil. You're starting out with a higher investment than her. A date means something. It's an offical step into the beginning of a relationship. A coffee is deciding if you're even worth my time and effort and vice versa. No obligation for future contact, no expectations. So stop putting the expectation on coffee that's reserved for an official date.
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@matthuber1333 Even conversation isn't enough because you learn more face to face. Like I said in another post there were guys I was 100% comfortable with talking to for hours on the phone or the internet. Face to face and there was nothing. Zero physical attraction. Not my fault or their fault. It's just how it is.
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For you guys in the comments thinking $100, this would be the total bill not just her meal, is too much then you're not making any effort either but expecting great results. Depending on what you order that could easily be most chain sitdown restaurants. You're also confusing a get to know you meet up with a date. A date is you are picked up and taken out. A get together to meet is each showing up at an appointed time at a coffee shop. These are not the same thing. They are not of equal importance.
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Unless you're picking her up, that's not a date. It's a meet and greet. Those aren't the same things. I'm seriously starting to think men don't know the difference or what each one of those means.
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