Comments by "L.W. Paradis" (@l.w.paradis2108) on "Everyday ways to see through people's defenses" video.

  1. @eddyalonsomoramorales6069  Right, it's not always and universally the case that the behaviors that most annoy us are the ones we ourselves have internalized, or that identifying the same tendency within ourselves to behave that way is in some sense therapeutic or authentic or liberating. I think a lot of people are triggered when we are reminded of a moment when we felt defenseless against a person who frightened us. That doesn't mean we have internalized the desire to emulate that.
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  2. You're not sad about it. You're glad. It is a cover for you. 😂😂😂
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  3. This was simplistic. She's usually much better.
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  4. You beat me to it.
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