Comments by "Robert Morgan" (@RobertMorgan) on "Why Men STOP Dating Modern Women" video.

  1. The difference is, you could choose tomorrow to suddenly want a family, and have like a dozen kids, and everything would be good. A 54 year old woman does not even remotely have that option. I had a coworker, retired now, who started his SECOND family at 60. He has adult kids in their 40s almost 50s, and now they have a little 8 year old half brother with the 20 something he married, I think it's inspiring. I want kids, but I'm ONLY 41, for men these days that's still relatively young, for women these days that's ANCIENT, I look at women near my age like "UGH? HER?"
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  2. My younger sister, 31, married, two kids, was laughing telling me about how one of her older friends was FREAKING out and even considering filing a complaint of some kind because she is pregnant, 35, and her doctor had the AUDACITY to tell her it was a geriatric pregnancy. And my sister is like, yeah, you old, should have planned better lol.
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  3. ALSO, to me, if you're divorced or you have kids, you can't be single, you CHOSE to be in a committed lifetime relationship with that ex-husband and/or those kids, whomever comes after will never get ALL OF YOU. Women can never know what it's like to me a man, and as a man I can imagine how I would feel raising another man's children, or seeing another man trying to raise mine, and I don't like even imagining that feeling, much less living it.
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  4. The boy is 5 years old, the girl is 6 years old. Two kids, their ages. It's how these stories are usually formatted. Example : "I (M41) and my wife (F31) did thing and had argument..." You MISSED the ACTUAL red flag there, they've been married 5 years and have to children 5 years or older, so, it's a "I knocked her up, we have to get married now" sort of thing, in my mind. Kids are supposed to come AFTER marriage, not before.
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  5. It's taken me 40 years to realize my dad, 84, is like this. All the time, he asks me something random, I address it, THEN 'while you're here', and he asks me to do what he REALLY wanted to ask me, some totally unrelated thing he 'just happened to think of'. It drives me crazy. Just be direct. He also does what I've come to call 'woman asking' for things, "You know, wouldn't it be great if you (do thing)?" or "Remember when you said you'd do (thing)?". Meanwhile I'm thinking we're men, dad if you want me to do something just TELL ME to do it, you don't have to hint lol. It's a lesson I learned from women (sisters) that if they MENTION something, that's their way of directly asking. "did you see they opened that new restaurant (name) in (nearby town)?" Yes, I did see that, is that your way of asking me to take you there/go with you there, because I'll do that. Maybe I'm just blunt or on the spectrum, but I'm the kind of person to just ask someone "Hey, I want to go do (thing), do you want to go with me, yes/no?" No. "Ok, then I'll find someone else to, or I'll do it alone".
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  6. Guy I work with, twice divorced, two adult daughters who hate him, late 50s, is dating a chick almost 60 and they live together, is always complaining she never puts out, that all he's there for is the place to live and the sex, and how unhappy he is she doesn't bang him enough... I told him you know, you can just leave if you're unhappy, you're a man, you do what you want. He came to work the next day and told me "I was thinking about what you said, and, I'd never thought about it like that, you're right, I could leave if I'm not happy, I never realized that was an option." That was a year ago and they're still together, still griping. But it was crazy to me, to hear that from a much older, more experienced man (I'm 41, no kids, never married) that the idea of walking away and being alone wasn't even something he could conceive of. Didn't even cross his mind. He also plainly states "Men NEED P**sy, we NEED it, it's a REQUIREMENT." and the way he says it, you almost believe it lol. He was raised by a single dad with 3 other brothers, so I guess it makes sense. I was raised with all sisters so I can take it or leave it, the drama has to be less then the trouble of getting laid for me, I like peace over a piece.
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  7. Standard woman thinking, they could always work, it just wasn't work they WANTED to do. I don't want to work in the home, for a husband and kids, NO! I want to go out everyday and do MORE work for strangers.
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  8. He can't use his real voice because he's part of the movement, and thus a TARGET. The patriarchy is gynocentric, you try to decenter women from men's lives, that threatens TRILLIONS of dollars in economic activity, they will come for you.
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  9. I can speculate from my perspective, we want a feminine, conservative, modest women TO EVERYONE ELSE. We want you to be another one of our friends who also can't keep their hands off of us to US, in private. So many women today are the opposite. They act modest to their partner, then are giving attention to other men to inspire jealousy/competition in their man for manipulation. I see it daily. I've seen it happen to me, she has some problem or concern and she'll ask family, friends, strangers, ANYONE but the man she loves, and it should be the OPPOSITE. It's all about respect. When I've been in relationships, that's when I'd get ALL the attention from other women, trying to steal me. It's sickening. What's more sickening is the disgust you see in those women when you shoot them down because you refuse to cheat. Women don't do that, it seems, they get attention from outside men, it's flattering and they follow it. Not saying you'd do that, but the option even being there makes it hard to swallow. My main dealbreaker is "Does she want kids? No? Then what's the point, this relationship would go nowhere, not wasting my time, I want a family." I'm goal oriented, and so many are NOT today.
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  10. I have the means to do all that, right now. MY DREAM is to get a woman worth it, to have kids with, so I can stay home, she can too, homeschool, father, and exercise all day. ZERO WOMEN have any interest in that idea, not a one I've talked to. It's wild to me. In my 20s all the wanted was kids and I didn't, now in my 40s all I want is kids and no women at all do.
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  11. That's the major life lesson, the good women are not out whoring around in public where you see them, much like good men are not either. If only there was some way to make matches of those two groups, like some sort of match, maker?
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