Comments by "Robert Morgan" (@RobertMorgan) on "[Response] "I Like BAD Boys" | TikTok Girls Show Why Men Don't Want Relationships Anymore" video.

Like I keep saying, I have everything I've ever wanted In life, but it's all worthless without someone to share it with. What's the point? Work on me, ok, done that for 40 years now, seems kind of selfish. I'm working on me to be able to care for others, if I have no others to be strong for, strength for its own sake is also useless. I have this strong drive to protect and Care for people, and I have no one to use that energy on. It's like a German Shepherd you keep locked up all day, yeah it's going to DESTROY your house because it has working drives you're not focusing or exercising enough to keep that dog sane.
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@jonathangrayson9626 but what's the POINT of getting better? Ask yourself and BE HONEST, look at all the things you do in life that lead back to why?...to get laid. Why do I work, why do I have a career? So I can have money, for....clothes and cars and a home and ALLL the stuff we buy, but why do we buy the stuff? To make yourself more attractive to the opposite sex and reproduce. If you strip away all the things you do just to get laid, you'd be alone in the woods, growing your own food, making your own clothes, not working, not learning, not doing anything really. If I knew for a fact there was no one out there for me, I'd do that in a second, I'd abandon society, because all of it is solely for sex and kids. Think about it really, it's all you do all day, we're that conditioned. You need this car, why, because it's popular and it'll get me attention. Wear this shirt, not that plain but functional one. Eat at this restaurant but not that one. Be nice to that person even though you hate them. If you stop caring about getting laid, you have to disengage and remove from society, it's the only way. You can't leave the game while still living in the game.
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@1230mkelly physical body has nothing to do with the mind, mostly. You can live a great physical life in a hospital bed, paralyzed, unconscious, as a vegetable, but you say that's the same as having food, water, nourishment, it's all you need. The body can be fine while the mind rots in misery. The mind has astonishingly different needs than the body.
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@lockyp204 what? No, I'm a man, I want a woman to rely on ME. I'm the protector, the provider, but with no one to protect or provide for, well, it feels like I'm improving for nothing. I'm training for a war that isn't coming. I don't want to rely on anyone, I want someone who loves me to rely on ME. I'm already useful and reliant on me to myself, like any other human adult.
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If I'd known anything about women I'd have saved $100k and not gone to university with the goal of finding a wife, failing that, turning to drugs and drink, getting expelled, moving back home in shame, and now ending up 39, single, never married, childless, feeling like an absolute and total failure as a man.
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@FBi_. if that's true I'm super fucked...my mother gave me away for adoption, which is why I'll never trust any human, and I'll never be loved, because as you say, the sole person who would ever love me, didn't. So now no one can, right?
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What if I'm spending all my time NOT trying to stay with someone because I'm invisible to women? If someone wants me as she says, where TF have they been for 40 years of my life, what are they waiting for, and if they're waiting like this why would I want to be with them? Why love a torturer?
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Like me, if I'd have known at 15 what I know now at 40, I'd NOT have talked myself out of self deleting. I promised myself it would get better. That's the last time I lie to myself, and I could have saved 25 years of suffering by being honest. But instead here we are and we have to deal with actual reality.
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I should add to everyone else, I'm a great success as a man, large farm, house, cars boats, career, everything paid off, retirement already funded, I have literally everything I've ever wanted EXCEPT anyone to share it with, so it feels worthless. I've built an empire with no one to run it with me, and zero prospects of a legacy. Here's to the next 40 years of, nothing and boredom I guess.
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@Grandmaster_Sub-Zero exactly 100% correct, and I'm living that.
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@jonathangrayson9626 yeah, I'm 39, single, never married, childless, and therefore feel like a waste of a loser as MAN, so if you could stop taking one for the team and let the rest of the team get some ourselves that would be great. I'd be happy to be used at this point, honestly. At least being used I'm USEFUL.
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As an old man in a dry spell since being a young man, remember, sex is like air, no big deal as long as you're getting some. Now try holding your breath 14 years or so, and looking at 40+ more suffocation.
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Has anyone stopped to think that going passport bro means you just get the leftover undesirable women of some other culture? If they were wife material in a traditional sense, THEY'D BE MARRIED ALREADY LOCALLY. Just like American women, if they're available for some foreign man and their local community men won't take them, that indicates something is wrong, just like American men even considering being a passport bro means something is seriously wrong with women in the US.
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Happy wife happy life makes absolute sense when you realize YOU being happy is what's SUPPOSED to make the wife happy, therefore everyone being happy makes for a happy life. If your wife is happy, it's because you are happy, and if you're happy as a man, everything around you has to already be handled, sorted, stable, safe. If I'M not happy no ones happy because that means I'm not taking care of something.
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@jonathangrayson9626 translation: fuck all the other men they're destroying, got mine, pulls ladder up behind him...
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@toddpacker1015 lol, I'm there at all, confidence test passed ages ago. I recently talked to some hoe on Bumble, she said she's crazy, she will push all my buttons....she didn't reply to a message I sent so I didn't double text, I figure it's a test. I've been waiting over two months for a reply lol. Test passed.
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@NahuCommNS yeah, hoes and dolls is where we ALREADY are, that's already what's not meeting our needs for connecting and Intimacy and trust. My ex is the sole person in earth that could tell me to my face, bald faced lie that I told her to tell, that "You'll figure it out, everything is going to be Ok". Even knowing she was lying, telling a lie I told her to tell me, I still felt better because I trusted her. It's the trust that allowed her to cheat for so long lol. No whore or doll is going to give me that. Sex is a need I can meet in 5 minutes, anytime...it's all the missing stuff around the physical act of sex we can't buy or steal or manufacture or get from a drink or drug. I know, I've been trying it myself for 15 years single now. If you found a whore/doll combo that's legal and meets all a man's need, fuckin' share, mate, everyone here is all ears.
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@NahuCommNS men find purpose TO get women. Full stop. Even if you can't be honest to yourself, it's reality. It's your biology, you can't trans it away or think your way out of a problem our brains themselves create. A broken tool can't fix itself. Saying men don't need intimacy means men don't need the one thing men live, die, and kill each other over: TRUST. If I trust you man to man, that's Extremely intimate, I might be literally sacrificing my life and trusting you for some task. Each man has to make THAT decision, and you have not, so no man can trust you
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@NahuCommNS lol I'm perfectly honest with myself which is why I can't lie and say I can change my nature, any more than I can meditate and cure cancer I I had it, or any wo-wo manifestation/secret bs. You can't master your biology unless you first acknowledge you have to master it. You have by your own admission failed this. Doesn't mean you have to ACT, but you do need to know. Besides, if you've removed everything that makes you human, as you claim, why stay one?
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@NahuCommNS if you're saying intimacy equals penetrative sex, I'd disagree. That's just sex. The vast majority contains no intimacy. You bang a stranger it's zero intimacy, you might not even know their name. Is a gloryhole intimacy? Be honest-er.
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Ok, but to take her home on day one she'd have to meet my parent, who lives with me, so what's the big deal? If the cost of banging is saying hey to her mom, maybe having some milf manor moments, well that's pretty cheap and easy
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Mistake one, ever trying to control anyone, man women or made up gender in between. You try to control me, even for my own good, I'll resist, I'll rage against, and I'd hope any other human would as well. The trick is getting someone who wants to be there, doesn't need to be controlled, and honestly any person who would LET you control them IS TOO WEAK A PERSON TO HAVE AROUND.
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OR, gayness is going to rate-explode by several hundred percent. Fun fact as a bi guy, you cannot tell the difference in any way between a man's or a woman's mouth, and grinder is 1000% better than any other hookup app. Do with this info what you will.
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Going overseas IS Giving up. I better myself to get an American girl, not someone I have to wetback in over a decade just to leave me anyway lol. How have we equated self improvement with spend thousands of tens of thousands to go court some immigrant or mail order brides, women apparently their own locals don't want. Have we thought about that, the reason there are left over foreign women for us to go get is because they're the undesirables of their community? If they were desirable they'd be married already, like women here in the US or anywhere
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The figurative corner you describe has another option: you smash, you knock her up, you flee to your new foreign home. You have a biological child, you fulfill that urge to procreate, then you move on. It's not like she deserves more.
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