Comments by "Robert Morgan" (@RobertMorgan) on "She got rejected and made a video about it.." video.
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@jessbellis9510 That's his point. A woman can go on an AMAZING date, have ALL this fun, really like the guy, brag to her friends.
The guy is telling his friends "Yeah. failure, it was a waste, she didn't bang me so she's not into me, no second date, moving on."
If the journey is amazing BUT you never made it to your destination, it was a wasted trip. If I'm going to the gym and not getting stronger and not losing weight, I'd stop going, or change what I'm doing.
Being goal oriented is a curse in a society FULL of people just looking for a good time and to feel good.
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That's why I advocate for NOT dating like that. I like the idea of inviting her along to something I was already doing, that way if something goes wrong, meh, I was already doing this alone anyway, so what? No emotions invested, no getting ready time wasted, because I don't do anything different to get ready for a date than I would to leave the house for any reason.
Don't ask her out, tell her you're going out and invite her to follow, if so great, if not well that's awesome too. The absolute most I could ever offer even the love of my life is to tag along with my life, companion on the journey I'm taking anyway.
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