Comments by "Robert Morgan" (@RobertMorgan) on "PsycHacks" channel.

Jealousy implies you WANT her past for yourself. Not sure many men are looking to get banged by a bunch of guys. DISGUST is the reaction here. Entirely different. It's hard to be jealous when YOU have the prize. A winner can't be jealous of themselves! But if the prize turns out to be spoiled, to not be the prize you expected and EXPECTATIONS are subverted, there's disgust and resentment.
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Women, here's the car lot, pick any car you want! Men, here's your issued car. Don't complain, be happy you get a car at all, most men get nothing.
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Never been afraid of rejection. Yes is what's terrifying. Yes takes effort.
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@froyokid riiiight...and now women are complaining men are not befriending them in the workplace after metoo. Keeping to yourself is now toxic.
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@thebatman8895 yep, "I wish I could get a guy like you..." "Well, I'm right here, I've always been here..." "Yeah but you're a friend, I like you, I know you, I respect and like you, NO WAY we'd be compatible!" That's like being shot in the face, and THEN she'll expect YOU to still be friends after she tells you you serve her but not enough to F...
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Being too much of either is a failure as a man. You need to be able to be bad AND nice better than all women and most men if you want to succeed. Having capability will never not trump not having capability. It's there if you need it.
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@TheRealBina it's because society has conditioned men that you need to be friends before you're romantic or sexual. Meanwhile women are told it's fine to bang the dude you just met 10 min ago in the bar bathroom and that's empowered.
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 @ellisjackson3355 sometimes the best way to get a girlfriend is to already have one... And what that says about women makes me never want to associate with them ever again. That's horrendous.
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@popejaimie if you make real actual friends with women, which is a lot of time and effort to invest, it would only be to sleep with them, and most men would agree if honest. It's all the girlfriend work and labor and time without the benefits. If you think it's not a problem, tell your wife or gf you have to skip plans to help a female friend and watch her go ballistic, because SHE knows what you have another woman to spend time with FOR
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@sj3969 yes, that is trading on your sexuality, 100%. There's absolutely women who could ask me to do something and I probably would, that if A man asked me I'd say do it yourself, you're a man, adult. Of course this is 2023, so also a lot women ask me I'd say "You're stunning and brave, you don't need no man, do it yourself, you're capable, I believe in you".
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@antonisch3861 this. All this. It's why a woman has a spreadsheet and an Access database of criteria and specifications, whereas most men are like "She needs to be not fat, shorter than me, thin, athletic, like me, not be a bitch, and best case all that plus no tattoos or face metal". Outside of that, she can be a high school dropout with no drivers license working for minimum wage, that's no big deal. I can drive, I can teach her to drive, she can get schooling, on and on. Men love taking on a project IF there's potential and opportunity there. But if she's got a degree, super successful, but jaded, hateful, tatted up and pincushioned, she can be hot as hell and zero attraction.
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Exactly. And when she cheats and leaves, she'll be with someone the next day. I've been waiting 15 years to get over that.
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 @peaceglory5973 fake wedding ring, I went from invisible to every woman having questions, especially those who I'd never talked to or gave attention.
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True, but not easy to do when getting to know someone is looking at their top photo for 1 second and swiping. On Tinder I haven't looked at a profile in years, I swipe literally 3-5 a SECOND, thousands of profiles a day, swipe right. Out of that I get maybe a match a week, and they're all fat old chicks wanting a green card marriage.
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All that gets me is slapped and told I'm TOO honest. Fuck me, it's hard to be honest and lie and tell you what you want to hear. I'll be 40 this year.
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39, attractive millionaire. Last date I was able to get Obama was campaigning for president. Turns out today nothing really works, it's just chance.
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All the good men have gone to ask "Where have all the good women gone?". Oh well, we'll wait until they come back.
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Most women don't find most men attractive, yet we have 8 billion of us. Imagine if women found men attractive lol.
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Holy shit, that so perfectly describes me, leave me alone BUT with people I want to be alone with. Like I've asked others, ever feel really alone when you're by yourself, but then when you get around people all you want is to be alone, but then you're lonely, so you go be around people, and so on. I think that's far more common than people know or talk about.
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"I want someone kind, and honest..." Ok but those are often absolutely mutually exclusive. I can't be nice without lying and I can't be honest without telling the truth and no one wants to hear that. People don't want to be lied to, but they REALLY don't want to be told the truth.
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Meanwhile as a man: You stop even asking the question because the answer is always "Mmmmm, yeah, I'd do her, unless she says or does some crazy ish". And they always do. They always do. Women talk themselves out of 99% of the sex they could have had.
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@witoldschwenke9492 you still say it the same....men want sex from women, women don't as much, so now that's LEVERAGE. And leverage it they do. Makes me so happy I'm Bi lol. She shoots me down, there's a guy waiting to take care of me better than she could, you just can't be as open about it lol. Women talk themselves out of 99% of the sex they don't get by just talking and talking men out of it. The effort to reward ratio goes too wonky
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@awecballwin77 right, local women are too much trouble, SO let's spend countless thousands and ask several governments for permission and fees to bring one in lol. Also, if she's so desirable that rich white american me would want her, how is she available to me? She can't be THAT traditional if she's unwanted by the locals and 'sold' on the global wife market lol. Think this through, don't wallow in woman-logic
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It would be weird not to, WOMEN do it all the time.
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That's why I CAN'T get over my ex, she's not special, which means ANY woman can and will act like her. If she was special, it could be just a exception case, but since she's just an 'everygirl' now I expect every woman to fuck me over like she did, because she was nothing special.
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Counter: Are you looking for something more than sex from ME? If so, that's a problem, we didn't talk about that. You're outside boundaries and expectations.
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@MzBunny2790 also, it makes competition. Men see other men doing well, were like wow, good for Doug he's killing it! Women see others doing well, it's who does she think she IS? I know how to f up Jeanine and her 'perfect' little life, I'll get her husband mark to bang me, take that bitch! Men nurture each other because women won't, and women compete for no reason.
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 @popejaimie you only lie to authority figures, correct, and all men make up the patriarchy and authority, so you lie completely to men, so you're now like an unreliable narrator.
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@sj3969 the sole reason to have female friends is to get with them. It's why you'll notice men who are successful with women have zero female friends, while guys frustrated have a bunch of female friends they'll never bang, but exploit for male attention without risk. Yes, every man, every single one not related to you, has a non-zero desire to be with you, because you're a woman. They don't even need to be cognizant of that drive, it's there. There's always a CHANCE, every guy thinks. If it costs nothing to keep her as a friend, maybe it develops into something romantic? But if she's EXPLICITLY said that's off the table, you'll see a LARGE percentage of men will disappear after that. Men have lots of male friends, why, because they're not trying to bang them, so actual friendship is possible, no underlying subtext or desires. Don't yor elders teach you kids this stuff anymore?
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@sj3969 for the vast majority of men, straight up, if you're being nice to us as a women, even if it's just being friendly, we have to take that as a sign of interest because the stakes are so high and men get ZERO attention. Women don't realize, a man might have not gotten a random compliment for DECADES, unlike how women get them all the time. The one time it happened to me in 40 years it wasn't even a woman, it was a gay man lol. Men get so little positive attention from women today, if you show even the smallest nicety we'll jump on it and be very appreciative, and it feels like a come on. Like you have to want something, because why else be nice to a man these days? That's what's going through OUR head.
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Here's the plan: get a will made that leaves everything to anyone other than your wife, get it ironclad, go to therapy and get a clean bill of mental health, then off yourself, self-delete, she loses everything and ends up alone, you escape, sadly everyone wins. Looking at the stats, I bet this is happening a LOT more than we think or know.
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That's why I CAN'T get over my ex, she's not special, which means ANY woman can and will act like her. If she was special, it could be just a exception case, but since she's just an 'everygirl' now I expect every woman to fuck me over like she did, because she was nothing special.
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