Comments by "Robert Morgan" (@RobertMorgan) on "Alexander Grace" channel.

  1. She did SIGN (Shame, Insult, Guilt, Need to be right) & DARVO (Deny, Accuse, Reverse Victim and Offender) like all at once. As a brother to six sisters that's pretty impressive.
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  2. Yep, 6 sisters, it's why I'm 40 and single. I see all the tricks, I know all the ways and attempts. If I didn't id have never survived to manhood. The tears are always fake, and they're always lying.
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  3. Stop dating cheap women, then be sure to define cheap as not worth having kids with. "You're cute, but I'm not interested because you seem like you'd be a bad MOTHER" is the best/worst response to a woman.
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  4. I mentioned that stat to my younger sister, actuary, CPA, financial planner, and HER insight was if 80% of spending is by women, ADVERTISING is the problem, they're not effectively capturing that 80% market of men who are not spending! Not even her thought of women overspending, nope, has to be men f-ing up by not shopping as much lol
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  5. You experienced the reality of accurate feelings, that HATE is actually the most extreme form of LOVE, because to hate you have to CARE so much. Indifference is the opposite of love. I don't hate thing, I don't regard it at all.
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  6. It's DARVO and SIGN all at once. Deny, Accuse, Reverse victim and Offender, plus Shame, Insult, Guilt, Need to be right, and throw in some minimization and invalidation for fun, on top of the tears.
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  7. I've said that exact thing to myself quite a bit, "Just because I'm traumatized is not an excuse for me to traumatize others"
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  8. It's like a con man, if you can't dupe your mark, you hate them for not letting you scam them, and if you do succeed in duping them, wow what a dupe loser to fall for that scam.
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  9. My mom gave me away to adoptive parents, is another woman leaving me something I need?
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  10. Nah, I don't want to be controlling or presumptuous, I don't want to mansplain. A real man gives you space to solve your problems your own way. That's leadership.
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  11. IF she put in some WORK and simply ASKED any of those men, 100% chance at least one of them would say "Oh, sorry about that, here have my seat, I'm off at the next station anyway..." BUT if she EXPECTS him to just DO that, because of her presence, NO, F that. I keep saying it to women, use your words, closed mouths CAN'T be fed.
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  12. Does she not realize the ONLY reason for her man to go out and drink with the friends IS TO FIND A BETTER WOMAN. It's why women need to understand we feel that when they want to go out with their single friends. The only reason we do that is to get laid, so when they do it we assume they're trying to get laid be someone other than us.
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  13. I just realized, not once, not ever, have I heard a single woman reply to the 'What do you bring to the table?" question with the ONLY good answer... That answer is "What do YOU WANT me to bring to the table?". THAT would be hot as hell, not her griping about the question, not getting offended, but straight up asking what are you looking for me to bring to the table.
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  14. I'm leaving the date right now because I'm looking for a good mother above all, and you're not it. Sorry, you just got outcompeted by my imagination
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  15. I told you I'd mow the lawn, you told me you'd put out all the time, there's disappointment all around.
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  16. Just like as a man I'm too busy leading to deal with her problems. I'm looking ahead. If she wants to be a follower, it's on her to keep up.
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  17. The woman has ended every relationship I've had, including my mom when she abandoned me to adoption at birth. I expect to be left by default. It's my reality women created. Thanks!
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  18. I love telling them you want a leader, then you have to KEEP UP. I'm LEADING, that means NOT LOOKING BACK or caring who is FOLLOWING ME, I'm leading not following. If you're not following that's YOUR problem, do better or get left behind.
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  19. I have heard women complain about their in shape man spending all his time selfishly in the gym, because that's all time that could have been spent on HER.
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  20. I'm open and honest with women about what men want. Makes sense I'm long-term single lol.
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  21. Would he let a stranger talk to him like that? No? Then why TF would you let a loved one talk to you like that? Is always my thought process.
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  22. I was, but I have all sisters, so ...
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  23. I'm 40 and realizing I have NO CLUE what I want in a woman. What I DO have is a several page long front and back small print list built up over a lifetime of what I DON'T want in a woman. That makes me sad. I'd much rather have a positive trait list. But I can't because the list has to reflect objective reality.
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  24. Never faced physical violence from women, never NOT faced emotional abuse from women...
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  25. " " how can they have fun and talk all day and not get bored" is the question every man is always wondering about women lol. How can they have so much fun just talking all day and not accomplishing anything?
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  26. That's why step one, suffer. Like me, I think back I was a virgin until 19, so I know I can go 19 whole years without sex if I want. Can she?
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  27. The advice I give everyone I know and work with is the same advice I got in college from professors: Never put anything in writing you won't be comfortable reading to a jury from the witness stand in open court.
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  28. He doesn't need ambition, he's already achieved massive success. He's living the dream. I'm wealthy, and when I tell people who are not that I'm jealous of them, because he has a son, they don't get it. MONEY IS WORTHLESS if it can't buy what you WANT. ALL the things I want have to be GIVEN, they can't be bought. And those people are truly wealthy.
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  29. If it's in savings it's a fail anyway. That should be in dividend stocks.
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  30. I think it was Pokemain that was making so much money she was spending $125k/year on just Starbucks delivery...
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  31. Try this thought: I actually CAN'T 'value' your time, because it's not MINE. I can't out a value on something I don't own. I can only accurately assign value to MY time, because it's mine.
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  32. Learning other people are just other people is what keeps me away from other people. If the bad ones are not special, that means the bad people are NORMAL, ORDINARY. meaning anyone including me can be a bad one. So avoid them all. That's where I take that. When my fiance left me, guys told me that, she's not special, she's just a woman, and I took that as damn, so all women can act like that, I'm out. If she was special, if she was outlier bad, I could take that. But if how she acted was normal bad, I want to avoid normal.
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  33. Yep, to ME it's not savings until that trade executes and I'm earning compounding divideds.
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  34. Where as me as a man, I often relish casually throwing out obvious truths no one else is willing to say in conversations and see what happens. Hey, that's a great plan and all, but [points] what about that big fuckin' elephant over there in the corner that tanks your whole plan and sinks us all, what about that guy?
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  35. She has prison looking tats and a nose ring, looking like that is why she's staying at home alone to me lol
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  36. Or even "Thanks you! I was having a bad say and it was almost worse, thank you!"
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  37. Whatever happened to seduction? My mother told me any woman that WANTS you WILL GET YOU. She'll make it happen if she wants to. Example: my dad said he shot her down 3 times before saying yes...59 years of marriage, 2 great grandkids, she chased him because he was what she wanted. He tells me he never wanted marriage or kids buy hey, why not?
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  38. Astonishingly easy. No girls, average salary, 30-50 is LOW in that case. My own dad left the military with a $30k payout, at 22, in 1961 so it was real money. He used that $30k to buy the property he left me that I've turned down 7 figure offers on, because it's worth 8 figures.
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  39. That's more an insult to her, honestly. SHE would have married him...and she's not in fact married to him, conclusion: HE would NOT marry her. If he would, he would have.
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  40. Makes sense why my spending is so low and my stock dividends are so high, no woman of the house to fuckup my procurement protocols
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  41. Who saves when they also have debt? That's losing money! If your debt interest is higher than your savings interest then savings is costing you money. You can't save until you are debt free.
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  42. BUT it has to be actual passion, and when you have actual passion SHE WILL COME SECOND. When you have a passion, you can't have TWO passions. And guess what, she'll come and go but your passion will remain, so whatever, forget her. If she wasn't enough to overcome your first passion, she wasn't good enough. It's why you don't date single moms, passion. Her passion needs to be her kids, if she makes time for me like I deserve OVER her kids, then she's a bad mother and why would I date a bad mother? If she's a good mother worth dating, she would not be available for dating because her passion is her kids and she has no time for a second passion, you. It's a catch-22 but that's why you avoid single-motherhood, she's in a lifetime committed relationship, with her kid(s), you can never be more than a SIDE PIECE.
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  43. and the masculine man faced with that walks away, because he has better things and people to do.  @derwoodhamburger 
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  44. They're romantics WHEN THERE IS A PAYOFF FOR THAT. I'm not really looking, so my romance level is subzero. If I'm not trying to get her, there's no reason to be romantic.
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  45. Humility is the ultimate confidence. Sure, I donated a million dollars, so what. Yeah, I ran that 10K in 59 minutes, I do that all the time, big deal? Yep, I'm the supervisor at work, and I didn't even want the job, they just gave it to me, I'm pretty good. The bigger the accomplishment, the bigger the downplay of it you have to do.
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  46. RIGHT?! I thought it was just malice, now I'm seeing it's incompetence, and now I almost feel bad for those women lol. Like he said, it's not a bug, it's a FEATURE, they're supposed to be like that. I remember my big breakup, my friends telling me "Hey man, she wasn't special..." and me interpreting that as "Wait, if she's not special, that makes her normal, are you telling me ALL WOMEN are THAT BAD?! OMG" and them saying Yes, that's what we're saying, was trying to cheer you up, think we just did the opposite lol. It's not finding a good one, it's finding the least-worst one.
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  47. I love women telling me what I want, I grew up with 6 sisters so it definitely takes a woman to tell me what I want. No woman has even ever ASKED me what I want so dafuq do they know?
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  48. Well, because of women's intuition they never choose abusers.
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  49. I grew up and took over my elderly parents finances and realized my whole childhood they'd lied to me, we could easily afford all the things I begged to do as a kid, I think they just didn't want to spend the time. The excuse was always we can't afford that. Sucks to realize lol. Now as an adult I'm in the same place, I want to do things, I can afford to do anything, now I just don't have the time or drive. Made me vow never to do that when I have kids. It's why I haven't had kids, I want to be in the right place first.
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  50.  @HelloWorld-cq1sq  Him? In my entire public school career, I had 4 male teachers I can recall, and only one of them taught an actual subject, other than the coach who taught health class or my history teacher. Sex ed was done by ALL WOMEN and this was the 80s/90s in Missouri. It's why I say all my boyish charm, that was beaten out of me by overbearing school teacher women who saw us as nothing more than defective little girls.
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  51. And that's insulting to sex dolls lol, someone, a whole TEAM of people, designed and refined and tested and improved that doll, lots of people spend their lives manufacturing that, someone spent their CAREER making that product, SO make your life as a woman more interesting than THAT. Because as a man, sorry, the How It's Made show about sex dolls would probably be way more interesting than how this women in front of me was made. And that's SAD.
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  52. So don't look for those women. Let them be alone with no kids like they demand.
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  53. The problem is not seeing the difference between "Hobbies I do for actual fun" and "hobbies I accepted because it makes me look attractive and gets me in front of women to meet". Learn to know the difference. A good indicator is the thing you mentioned last, dragging her to things that were not meant to include strangers, especially women, in. That was OUR thing, the friends think. Take HER to whatever YOUR GUY'S thing is. And remember men, if he's a real friend, he was there before her and he'll be there AFTER her, whether it's a summer romance or a 25 year marriage, women come and go, man friends are lifetime.
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  54. It's straight up a call to other men to 'rescue' her. Even if she doesn't know that, her video is screaming to other men watching "I'm better than those losers, I can SAVE her from that, let me DM real quick, hey gurl..." Next thing you know she's storming out to go meet up with Chad she met on insta because he treats her like a friend, lol.
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  55. It's the question posed in Succession: "I'm trying to decide if the pain of being without you is better or worse than the pain of staying with you."
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  56. ​ @joebeta1837 right,I wish they were more specific when they say women approaching in public...you mean like she walked by and you talked to her, or you were just there and she directly asked you out out of the blue? In my mind, unless she straight asks me out it's not an approach, and I've been approached that way.
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  57. That mindset does make sense in one context: motherhood. If she's raising my kids, that buys a lot of concessions in my mind, I WANT her to be selfish and by selfish I mean having the mindset of she needs what she's asking for to accomplish her mission of raising that child. It's masculine leadership to think of her like an employee at that point you have a responsibility to protect. I go to bat for the men that work for me, of course I'd do the same if I had kids.
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  58. She's telling me what I need to do, THAT"S MASCULINE ENERGY, WOMAN! I'm leading. That means you can keep up, or not. You can't be out front, because even I don't know what way I'm going until I go, so you can't frontrun me, you'll end up lost and alone, while I'm going a different direction. Why would I tell you, I'm leading, you don't consult people following you when you're leading. Fall in line or fall OUT of line.
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  59. She could Learn To Code....
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  60. I use that phrase at work all the time since I became a department head. If I don't have the authority to make that decision, then I won't be responsible for the outcome of it. Your choices are your consequences, boss.
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  61.  @mensaswede4028  no, that works, but you have to ACTUALLY IGNORE HER, as in not opening a door, not helping them, not responding to compliment fishing, treat them like a MAN.
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  62. If you have even a penny of interest debt your have zero savings. If your saving and the interest is less than your debt interest you're losing not saving. Example: you owe $100k at 7% interest. You have $100k in cash savings earning 5%. Saving that $100k is COSTING you 2% LOSS every second you hang onto it. Put it all into wiping out your debt, now the next single dollar you save will actually earn positive interest. That's how saving can wreck your finances.
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  63. You mean like how if you don't get a bugati and drink the right beer you'll never get laid.
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  64. remind her that all energy you spend at all times everywhere is FOR her. You're out achieving and doing things TO BE ABLE to come back to her as a winner and be the man she wants. If you DIDN'T you'd stop being the man she loves. She needs to know that.
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  65. Tall men BEAT them better, so it makes sense
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  66. The more educated they get the lower their earnings and net worth, so it does make a difference. Women alone are financing the university industrial complex, and it's trillions in their debt.
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  67. or CREATING gossip.
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  68. You don't have more than $7 worth of PRIDE to walk just 3 blocks? Low value woman. DO better, men.
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  69. It's like I tell women, so you don't want kids? Ok, that removes you from my consideration. What, whyyyyyyyyyyyy?!?!? Because the point of all this is kids. I'm not putting in all the work to have a roommate. I already live alone in the house I own. I want a lasting legacy. If you don't want kids, cool, i'll f around as much as you want, but I'll be gone if another woman offers more than you can. You refuse to serve your purpose, I refuse to serve you.
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  70. What is she doing to win ME over, that's my only question.
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  71. Even better, you don't have to say you're wrong, be happy to say I DON'T KNOW. I say it all the time. THEN we go find out. Nothing I hate more than a liar who makes something up to not look like they don't know. You're not wrong, it's just not knowing.
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  72. Ironically those are all MASSIVE assets and huge plusses. Not having negative things is a positive thing.
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  73. Her: That's outrageous! I buy other people's used shoes all the time, LOOK, these are someone else's shoes I have on!
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  74. If we're honest, we all probably have at least one thing we tried then really got into, even after they were gone, for a friend or lover. In my case it wasn't even her, it was her dad: My ex's dad was a pretty nice guy and really tried to mentor me into joining his professional career field, water treatment. I didn't do that, but after she broke our engagement and ran off, 10 years later I started a career in water treatment and have FAR surpassed her dad's accomplishments, all mostly by chance but that put the idea in my head way back then. Now I have a career that's put me where I'd have never even looked at her lol.
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  75. 2:05 damn, she looks good for a woman in her 50s? Early 60s? NO WAY that chick is under 40, stop the cap!
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  76. Crazy shes that desperate for him. I've never understood the get rejected, try to shame the man into wanting you. Nothing puts a hard on down like embarrassment.
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  77. They just can't understand the idea that for a LARGE portion of any market you're trying to sell to, any product, from ass to grass, just aren't buying. But she's perfect she thinks, how could ANYONE pass on ME?!
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  78. Hell, a little more work and those women could make the astonishing leap to SPEAKING their attraction to men, lol, like doing something crazy like saying "Hey, you're cute, my name is" and you have that guy if there's anything at all there. I know because that's how you pickup guys lol. You like to talk, so talk.  @hyperteleXii 
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  79. Like I say, I'm not afraid or anyone, I'm afraid of others they control. Woman says word, the Police and other men do their work for them, on you. Other men white knight for them, against you.
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  80. Hey, my mom abandoned me to adoption at birth, she held me than handed me off, so I'm acutely aware no matter how much a woman loves me, she's never more than a minute from walking away forever. If the woman who carried me for 9 months won't stay why would a stranger?
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  81. But ARE women cheap, seeing as they are now responsible for 80%, EIGHTY PERCENT, of all consumer spending in the US. 175 million men spend 20% of all money, and the 175 million women spend 80%. Women actually need to be CHEAPER. I mention this to you younger sister, a banker, and she's like "Well yeah, men are terrible at finance, they need women to handle their money"...like she does for HER husband.
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  82. Real men can say no to women. I learned how growing up with all sisters and a weak dad that did whatever they wanted for the most part. Learn this: imagine the love of your life who you're devoted to asks something and you say no...why would you do that for ANYONE else? If I won't do that for her, you have zero chance random stranger. Always ask the #1 man question 1000 times a day: Does This Serve My Goals? If it does not, STOP DOING IT (or stop doing THEM).
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  83. The disconnect is they actually don't know, don't get it, the sole reason I'd go out to bars with friends is to get laid. We could sit at home and drink and have way more fun, you go out and do it to meet strangers. That disconnect is also why they don't understand why we disapprove of her 'just hitting a few bars with the (single) girlfriends' or 'we're just going to Aruba on a girls trip, for two weeks, stop being jealous and controlling!' is for her to get laid. The point of 'going out' like that is to put yourself on the market and take bidders.
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  84. Related video: Inside the illegal world of global eye trafficking for beauty! How Us women are having foreigners eyes harvested and implanted to change their eye color. Now that I imagined that, scary, that's probably happening. Some influencer wants blue eyes so some chick in a Nordic country is abducted and harvested for like $50k.
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  85. 41, Savings, like $2k. Net worth, 8 figures easy. It sucks being a property millionaire that makes $40k/year, I'm a catch but women can't see net worth, only FLASH.
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  86. I have savings because of this economy, it's the best ever for many people, us working that is. Since most of you refuse to work the rest of us are earning your money working lol. I'm always desperate to hire people. I have so much savings because women hate rich men so I'm single, and no one else can do my job so constant work. If some chick would decide she wants a millionaire husband and give me like 6 kids I'd retire and we'd live on my paid off giant compound and I'd homeschool. I want to quit working and raise a family but all the women are fat and poor lol, blaming the economy.
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  87. As a man, If I feel insecure, I do better. Women, if you feel insecure with your man, step one, DO BETTER. You're insecure because you know you're f-ing up.
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  88. Women don't understand a healthy male sex drive. Years ago when I had a steady GF I was bringing home, we'd go two rounds, maybe 3, that evening, I'd drive her home and more often than not take care of myself again to the memory of the night. 4+ nights a week. For years. And I still wanted more. With that in mind, I have friends doing that with multiple women at once lol. If you don't want your man to cheat, don't LET HIM. He can't be in some other chick if he's in you, girl. Do work.
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  89. I say it daily, if he's so bad why do you reward him with sex? Why not reward the men you WANT with sex? He's terrible!...he is, so why did you have two kids with him?! I can't share a ROOM with people I can't stand, why are you sharing your WOMB with them?
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  90. ​ @MiMysmelfandI exactly, when someone I know comes to me and starts with "You won't believe what so and so did" and starts gossiping, I just assume they're doing the same about me and they're now on the 'control all info you give this person' list.
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  91. Has she tried finding men in front of her? As in just ask them.
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  92. I'm 40 and realizing I have NO CLUE what I want in a woman. What I DO have is a several page long front and back small print list built up over a lifetime of what I DON'T want in a woman. That makes me sad. I'd much rather have a positive trait list. But I can't because the list has to reflect objective reality.
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  93. The upgrade is leaving her for a GOOD woman. Her upgrade is getting a man at all lol.
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  94. that guys doesn't need ambition, see, he already has success. It's ALL for sex, working, careers, tech, all of it serves sex, if You can get it outside all that you're very successful.  @williamtaittinger4529 
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  95. ​ @edheldude Bitcoin is up over 100% and good wives are up like 20,000%
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  96. You're a rider, you get it. On two wheels it's ALL you. You can't blame someone in another car if you can't ride a motorcycle lol. It's one of the things I love about riding. Absolute second-by-second total accountability.
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  97. "Chimpanzees have excellent memories; if a male remembers having sex with a female the last time she was in estrus, he will refrain from killing the offspring that resulted from her mating frenzy" Humans are roughly similar. We lack the senses of other animals that can just sniff one another and know if they're blood relatives, but we do remember, and yeah, if some chick I hooked up with had a kid that looked similar to me, and we were pillaging , I'd probably spare her because just in case, that COULD be my kid, I have no way to know or not know if the timeline works. Now, if it was a few years back and she's got a newborn, eh, sorry....
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  98. If you were a real man (already walking away)....
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  99. leading means keep up or get left behind. I'm not looking back to see who's following me, because I'm busy leading, followers problems are their problems.
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  100. Ideally she'd have friends that are friends BECAUSE they're all married to great men. I don't know who would want to be friends with the wife of a bad man lol.
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  101. "The ethics are questionable..." Why? They lie, cheat, and steal from men endlessly, zero sympathy.
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  102. Here's a reply to that: every abortion you have before 6 weeks is ALWAYS A WOMAN. Human embryos are female from conception, differentiation into male happens later in development, so every morning after pill is ALWAYS violence against a woman. Women have killed more women than man could ever dream of
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  103.  @calleocho2107  true, yet there are billions of said fools right now globally. The vast majority of people I know in multi-decade marriages met at the bar, the club, or work.
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  104. No one likes a BRAGGART, regardless of gender.
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  105. And we know the only response to that as a man is "So, this ex, can you get in contact with him? You can...that's GREAT, you can go talk to him about all this because I'm done listening to you stay hung up on him, later".
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  106. Jealousy is bad, but ENVY can be useful. I know personally it makes me feel bad seeing happy couples and families, but not in a way that I'm like "F them, why do THEY deserve that and I don't", no, that's a mistake. Thinking damn, what can I do myself to get that because that's what I want. It's nothing to do with those strangers, they're just the example I'm comparing my situation to. I don't hate them, I hate whatever about me is keeping me from that, THAT I can probably work on and control. I can ASPIRE to that. I look up to those successful people, I ADMIRE them.
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  107. Probably projection as well there, because SHE knows if it was HER out, there WOULD be bad things afoot, she'd make sure of it. So she assumes he would too.
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  108. I tell men that's a mistake, having kids is when you need to step on the gas of life, more risks, more speed, more work, more goals. You have more to lose so you can't slow down. Slow and lazy and safe is what you do when you're single, to stay alive to reproduce lol. Also, what man wants kids to see them as some sap, some loser? Hell no, kids are an excuse to live life WAY harder and take them with you. Be the dad that's taking the kids skydiving on the way to traveling the third world. That lets his son drive the race car.
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  109. "An object, what, that's crazy. You're an OBJECTIVE, girl. I'm trying to complete you"
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  110. even better is the woman who TELLS you "You ARE a good boy, You'll make good decisions". No one wants to be told what to do, everyone wants to be told what they do is what they should be doing. From now on when YOU leave the house, try this: Look into your eyes in the mirror, and truthfully state to yourself "I love you, I trust you, you have a good heart, you're going to make good decisions" and see if you start feeling better each time. You should, it's ok to.
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  111. Imagine taking the not getting any dick L over $7. Still $7 more than I'd pay for sex lol.
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  112. Anytime someone says "This was a joint decision!" I reply with Yeah, and I was on board with it while we were still smoking that joint, then I sobered up and realized that was a stupid decision.
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  113. And here I am scouring the earth for any woman that makes me need turn my brain on lol.
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  114. : Imagine if men said "I need a feminine woman for me to be a masculine man" Literally every man in the 'sphere is saying that daily. There are no feminine actual women, so how could I marry? I don't want a man I want a woman. Hard to find in 2024.  @derwoodhamburger 
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  115. Wait, women LIKE you calling out all their BS and not caring? I grew up with six sisters, I can be a dick to women like a superpower, that WORKS?
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  116. They really can't get that it actually takes more balls to ignore these useless chicks. I'm not approaching for any reason to do with me, I'm not approaching because you, you're not hot or exciting to me. Sorry. I can't force myself to feel. Maybe she could do better and she would attract me, but meh, probably not.
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  117. I mean, the POINT of ALL of this is having healthy children in a safe family environment. Outside of that I'm not all that interested in women problems as a man to be honest. If she just wants to play house I guess we can bang but that's all you get without the promise of a family.
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  118. Right? That's why I say the most valuable things have to be given, not earned. Bought love is not real. It has to be selfless to be truly there. That's seen rarely. Being controlling and forcing people into 'loving' you, basically serving you, that's easy, you see that all the time, every day. Being loved or beloved, people CHOOSING or even putting in effort you didn't ask for or maybe even want or expect, that's love, that's somewhat rare anymore. That's your sibling texting if you're still at work, because they realized you've been at work all day and you're probably hungry, so it just so happens they've cooked one of your favorite things and of course far too much of it, they'll be by in 5 minutes with food for you. Unexpected, unsolicited, and with no expectation of anything in return being cared for, that's WEALTH, and it's priceless.
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  119. If he has to pay because he's the only man at the table, if you're the only woman at the table you have to blow all the guys, right?
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  120. You can reflect on and realize that in a self-aware way, man-ness confirmed.
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  121. That only works if the man doesn't take her back. That NO at the end is crucial. Not no after we try things out again, not no after one quick blow and go where she 'happened' to 'coincidentally' run into you, NO it's who are you, I thought you died, gtfo I'll get a restraining order shouting no means no at her in crowded public. I hear it so often, the then I took her back again, and she did it again, ran off with a felon gangbang, then I took her back for a few years, then....just on and on, over several marriages, ick. Be stronger, men.
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  122. Imagine reversing that, you're the only woman at the table so you have to bang all us men, it's your job.
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  123. The big learning experience for me was discovering all P feels basically the same, so you're better off choosing the housing you like lol. Like, Chevy/Ford/Dodge will all pull your trailer the same, so decide on features and price.
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  124. Maybe I'm weird because I grew up with all sisters, no brothers, middle child, tell these women NO. You broke a nail, you want to go to Benihanna, no. Just no. Oh, she walked out? Great, glad she left willingly. You give POWER over yourself to those you can't say no to. MEN, did you have sex when you were 5 years old, 10 years old. NO, so you KNOW you can go without sex, you've done it before. Value peace and your self over her demands. If we're not the prize to her, YOU BE THE PRIZE TO YOU. Make HER work for it. Walk away as a FIRST option, they'll follow, or they'll get out of the way, either way not your problem.
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  125. I know a LOT of men like her too, that will tell you things like "You just had to miss work, I had my KID, my kid is more important than your job" NOT TO ME. My career IS MY KID, I care about it more than any kids you have. And I tell those men that and they get upset, but oh well. You're a dick. No on cares about your kids but you, and especially us men with no kids. I don't deal with single mom's, sure as hell not going to put myself behind single dads lol. My time is my time, I can't value your time, it's not mine.
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  126. That's why I have a man rule for stuff like that: They're not here, I'm not thinking about them. I'm on a 6 mile trail run, alone, so why would I think of other people? This is my time to not have to do that, just for an hour, let me be ME, not "ME in the context of how I relate to other people". As far as I'm concerned in that moment, there are no other people. It's just me and the moment, every moment, and they all count. If women never get to feel that, I pity them, I truly do. We should all get to experience freedom inside our own head and selves now and then.
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  127. HOw can women not get that marriage is the biggest act of SUBMISSION a man is able to do in life. That man is giving the world to you, he's committing to care for you for live, and he's giving up FOUR BILLION OTHER WOMEN FOR LIFE to be with YOU. If that's not enough for her NOTHING will be enough for her.
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  128. You could have had free Starbucks, but now you're walking. LESSON!
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  129. Reminds me of Olly London when he got eye surgery to look Korean, and he tweeted "I have the eyes now", like he's acquired some ancient artifact that imbues him with some preternatural powers lol. These are my eyes too, had them a long time, they're even paid off, they were a gift from my dad.
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  130. Have you seen how women are trying to 'reclaim the space' by changing it from STEM to STEAM, Science Technology Engineering ART Math. NO! The whole point of STEM in my opinion was to get the 'art' out of things that aren't that artistic. I have degree minor in math, it's not art unless you consider learning and applying rules artistic. STEM is a safe place for the non-artists, literally 'safety in numbers' instead of people.
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  131. Here's what I would have done: I'd pay for everyone, then I'd lament how all the wives friends died to me. Your friend who? Nah she dead. I don't know her. And never have anything to do with them ever. They had a chance to have me as a friend, or sell that for the price of a meal and make me an enemy, and they made their choice.
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  132.  @FullCircleTravis  You've confused FEMININITY with feminism. It's like confusing communism and fascism. Related, but distinct.
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  133. Absolutely, and man are the same. Why would I want a fat chick or a single mom? Other men will laugh at me, that was all you could get? I want a woman that other men envy, that other women hate for it, that CHOOSES to be with me. That's what's up. "Damn did you see Rob's new chick, wow, (looks at other women) why can't you all be THAT hot?"
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  134. Not hard, she's not much. That's an ick, dog. They're complaining we're not buying the nothing they're trying to hawk. I'm standing in a desert and she's chastising me for not buying more sand from her.
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  135. If she doesn't want kids why are we on a date? I'm not looking to play house, I can do that alone or with another man lol. I'm not looking for a good time, I'm looking to see if the kids I have with your would be raised right, you're auditioning on date one for decades down the road.
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  136. The more you understand the more you avoid them. Six sisters, only brother, and I've been alone-single 38 of my 41 years.
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  137. Ah, well if you're not attracted to me we sure as hell can't be friends, why would you have unattractive friends? Bye, off to where I'm WANTED. She don't get free attention after she tells you off.
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  138. what drives them even more nuts, relaxing and sleeping NOT with them.  @James_St._James 
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  139.  @pugsymalone6539  I hired my first employee in my 9 year career the other week. He had almost as much expereince as me, is on track to get all the same licenses I have, and has worked at more treatment plants than I have. My interview process was giving him a tour, describing things, answering his very knowledgeable and relevant questions, then just saying "I can see you know what you're doing, do you want to give us a try?" | I'd basically already hired him on paper because his resume was great, so the interview was basically a formality. I need people, I'm not trying to disqualify, I'm trying to convince lol. Luckily in my org, at the moment, I'm my own HR dept.
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  140. When he's trying to describe what he means by "hot women" at the beginning... ME: "Oh, he means BIMBOS. We used to call those women bimbos."
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  141. Damn, I've been being a woman lol. I don't date people I'm not lifetime interested in, so there are expectations there, it's a date lol. Marriage interview
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  142. Also it makes me laugh, if a man HAS in income, that's broke. Your top men they want are men of leisure. They don't need income, they're wealthy. My salary is literally 0.004% of my net worth. They don't even get hints.
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  143. If that's the case, they should be mercilessly shamed for anything THEY do that violates that image. Painted nails, what are you a teenage girl? Makeup, that's for child pageants in Texas, lol. Going out to the bar, that's only to pickup men, that's little girl activities, I thought you were a woman that has a man?
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  144. Exactly, I don't WANT power over a woman. I want a woman who WANTS ME to be in power. It's weird how well men do at that. A group forms, immediately someone is in charge and the others follow. Women can't seem to do that.
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  145. Going out to bars is what you do when you DON'T have a woman like her or friends like that. If I had friends like that and a woman like that, why TF would I go out? You go out to GET women and friends. SO when SHE is always wanting to go out with her friends to the bar and club, she's LOOKING FOR NOT YOU is what we assume.
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  146. That's not a skill, that's narcissism.
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  147. 0:19 it's because you're not attractive TO ME. Women, I'm a man, IF I WANT TO I WILL. If I'm not, that's ALSO an answer. If I walk into a room full of women, and then walk out, I just judged the entire room and didn't see anything I WANT and certainly nothing I need. As men we understand every meeting with every woman is an opportunity, but if you're not selling what I want why would I spend a penny buying? Why would I even think about or so anything for or even speak to some random woman I don't want. Makes no sense, I'll focus that time on something worthwhile. How do adult persons not know this readily and early?
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  148. I'd have paid for them all, with the understanding that with that you just cashed in your entire lifetime of attention from me. I'll pay today but it's the last time I interact with you ever because all I'm worth is a meal check.
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  149. A woman with a career and a house is unattractive, that's a ton of work to undo. She'll be unavailabe due to work, she has to take care of her house and we'll have to sell it if I keep her, I'd rather start with a blank canvas.
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  150. I know SO MANY men who consider work their ESCAPE from their homelife. I used to work with a guy who had 5 autistic kids, and he was always first to volunteer for nights, weekends, holidays, and if you asked him he would straight up tell you "It's the only way to get a break from these damn kids". He openly resented them. People are complicated.
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  151. I remember when the only advertising woman had to do to get a husband was BE SINGLE AND ALIVE. Those two conditions meant they were looking for a husband. Just like being an alive single make meant you were seeking a wife.
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  152. true, in my own head I hold the standard that no man can be high value UNTIL he is high quality. Just like you put 4 honda engines into a Bugatti, look it has more horsepower now, it's even better! NO, it's far worse because it's no longer a Bugatti, even if you sell them 3 for the price of one, it's still not worth the value you expect because you f-ed up the quality. This caviar is SORTA good, it's bargain basement fake caviar, BUT we have a TON of it, so you can eat as much horrible tasting of it as you want. Then you complain no one eats ALL this caviar you bought, ungrateful.  @nestroit5010 
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  153. "Even if the guy is young but smart and hard working she will choose you because one day you will be that CEO." Zero evidence supports this, including my own lived experience. I was young, smart, rich, hardworking, and am now the ceo...haven't even spoken to a woman since 2006, they're not there. They're not looking.  @sierraecho884 
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  154. I disagree. I'm literally a millionaire, been single since 2006. If HAVING cash works for women it doesn't for me lol. Maybe they can't see it on me.
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  155. But, But, I'm too arrogant and conceited to get cheated on! She's spectacular and gorgeous, then she spoke.
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