Comments by "Robert Morgan" (@RobertMorgan) on "Why You Have No Personality" video.
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I think there is a mindset concern here. For me as a man, BORING is EXCITING. Why?
Because boring means TAKEN CARE OF. If you're starving, facing enemies, broke, in legal trouble, circled by wolves, that's all not boring. Boring can only happen if everything else in life is going amazingly. Boring happens when you run out of problems to solve.
For men, boring is ideal, it means all your shit is HANDLED. Money, got it. House, paid off free and clear, boring, we'll never be homeless. Property, huge, developed, owned outright, can't ever be taken, BORING. Career, going great, all my needs are met, I'm fulfilled, I like my coworkers, no drama, Boring.
BORING is what I ASPIRE TO, because you can't be exciting UNTIL you have boring, because unless all your stuff is locked down and handled, you don't have the FREEDOM to be exciting.
You can't be spontaneous and do actual fun stuff if your life is all dramatic and in shambles.
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