Comments by "Roope Reimi" (@Yurikon3) on "How To Make A Disrespectful Person Look Insecure For Insulting You" video.

@moist faucet I'd dare to say everyone has something they dont like everyone to see. Someone jumping in to very specific question in situation is not necessarily decisive, because the intention of the questioner might just be to tear person down to avoid an issue. Asking question back is simply a way to either return to subject by revealing that the goal of the question is not very sincere. People have their secrets but revealing them to people who want to use it against you is not necessarily the best option. Manipulation is a term too casually thrown around in issues like this.
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@moist faucet It is simply hierarching the worth of relationships and giving them approxiamate uphold. The reality rarely follows our assumptions. You merely assume that when people dont answer all questions, they are untrustworthy, but maybe they just dont trust you. Maybe they assume that if youre ready to reveal the most hurtful things about yourself, you're less prone to keep a secret. Long story short, we usually assume the worst of other people, and it in order affects how others view us. What one considers dishonesty, others make a call to trust them. In the question of pre-nuptial contract we can also make it show honesty. It tells that while person might be ready to commit, they dont go in without realizations that it is not merely cotton road and things might go wrong. It also gives sense of security knowing that these people are not hostages to each other and thus gives room to be loyal, not merely because of principle but outta respect and self-will. Trusting someone is not merely about answering questions. But same time you are not forced to trust anyone you dont want. Still, what one considers trustworthy behaviour might not always be the same.
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@moist faucet or one can misread it. We dont have time and patience for every personnel, but sometimes screwing the theories of psychology and give some time and patience might form strangest of friendships.
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@moist faucet either give it time and treat it as buddy-level relationship rather than friendship or just disengage. The thing is that there are differing things which people consider trustworthy. And when it comes down to "sensing" I'd take it with grain of salt. Usually our preconceived ideas murky that sense.
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@moist faucet interview, detective or other information extraction are pretty different contexes. Humans might have their shameful pasts but try to move forward and refine themselves. It however does not become easier if every unrelated personnel knows some bad details about you and might use it against you, hindering progress. Their motives for not revealing all information to you is just that they dont trust you enough. And positivity. Sigh, that is one of the most deceiving facades to be. Smiling face might hide sorrow and insecurity and unlike sadness and angery, they can hide the problem. Social pressure to always be happy is one of the most abstract sources of stress and expectation of being lively and joyous around folks might be more depressing than accept things how they are.
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@moist faucet and true sociopathic and psychopathic people are that big rarity that I think you overestimate the danger. Secondly I think people use these terms too casually in common talk, making sociopath out of person they dont like or understand by subjective base. If you think emotion or brains are not scientific then I dont think you should use terms like socio or psychopath that casually. Actually it might be the normal people exactly who avoid to answer all questions. That means they know shame, that means they also acknowledge other people which in sense makes person trustworthy in beginning sense.
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@moist faucet everyone is not criminal and the one who has served their time might want to turn back right way. The fact that this criminal feels shame is a mark that they arent totally rotten. If in your mind someone not answering all your questions is criminal, it affects how they perceive you. Actually person who might have darkness within but acknowledges it and does not try to live according it and do what is right is propably the most honorable one cause they know evil and refrain from it, no matter if they like it or not. And forming trust. You honestly think people become the best of friends after just one answer or one day? It usually takes more than that. Besides, even honest answers can be a facade to fool even more. Arent we already having kinda deep conversation? Even without changing deeper information? And what is this talk about whites and PC? Starts to sound pretty shallow generalisations. Actually it is "shallow" talk like this which can give hints is it worth to reveal deepest of secrets to another. Besides, your last paragraph. If you use that rule to yourself, it might reveal why people are not willing to answer all questions. Because they cant be sure if people are always that good to keep secret.
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