Comments by "Tête Dur" (@tetedur377) on "17 Minutes of Men Going Their Own Way" video.
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We know that women say one thing, think another, but respond in a completely different way. Why is it that women, as mothers, tell their sons what they think they want in a man, and not how to really get a woman?
In other words, my mother told me to go make friends with women. Her theory, as a Silent Generation woman, was that a guy had to do all the old fashioned things for a woman, get to know them, become friends with them, and then, and ONLY then, would he have a chance to marry "his best friend (or some bullsh*t)."
Her reasoning was also that "if things don't work out with you as far as marriage, you'll always have a female friend," for whatever that's worth.
Now my a*hole father (lot of people were glad when he died) presumably wanted to get laid, so he went along with that "how to get a relationship" advice my mother handed out, and I kind of sort of understand it - okay, not really, but it makes a tiny little bit of sense.
But I can't understand her dispensing that kind of advice to her son(s), and gods know what she told my sisters.
I never dated through age 17, when I dropped out of high school and joined the military. The only women I could con into giving it up were hookers overseas.
I quit even trying to date at age 24 after many failures, and now, at age 67+, I'm only now beginning to understand that maybe I was not the whole of the problem.
So now, my attitude at my age, is the same as at age 24: ALL women are 304s. They have the slot-C, we men want the slot-C, and we'll trade our souls for it. Unless/until we say "no f*ckin' way," and we go decades without it, but don't seem to be any worse the wear for the lack-o-nooky.
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