Comments by "False sects like shia are judeo ibn saba made" (@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543) on "The Tomassiyeen's Unmanly Complaints" video.
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SO so video. she had other bad ideas like wanting couple or male friends, not Islamic. bad enough & her looking down on being at home. Is Khadija a maid? She worked from home, many leave that out. She may need a friendly dawa reminder on why her cut and paste is wrong thats the issue! I even over looked her tone a bit, Working from homes isn't bad especially these days if she may become a widow, keep mind strong etc. and if they want to help dawa and charities even to the husband. If he says stay at home and raise kids to avoid western public school, free mixing and he makes enough, i dont' see how has only choice but to obey, unless she does fardil Khfaayah job like sonographer gynecology etc and they don't make enough. Optimize by being halal, that is the best way for Allah is all Knowing!
Men are leaders, womb + man = umra'a... womb thinking goes into fight or flight mode and creates rushed decisions and stingyness for those with lesser iman, though men are polygynous and nikah is charity. For women too, Gabriel talks about how polygyny can help many single women as well, so thats a 2 way street even if man pays mahr, women still need that man thats why there ahs been misyar, but i do agree being leader comes with responsibilities! Marry for din but there are other things to consider like preferences.
we have to avoid bida and haram money, this misrepresents and makes ppl weak individuals not knowing Islam, knowing basic Islamic, knowledge seekign salafiyah would prevent 2 ignorant individuals bringing bad ideas to marriage as a couple, also bida can misrepresent Islam and make ppl turn away from practicing it while being Muslim, apostasy is high in Iran which is pagan but they also have other bad ideas like mootah one night stand marriages etc. Md hijab has been dosed by ikwani bida'a shame on him which has torn Egypt! Just see how bad bida does at a societal level. Salafi lands are better.
We also have to teach halal jobs and economy! a man in his 20s, can maybe make marriage level money, a 20 yr old in I-Tech can make 6 figures possibly or be on scholarship. We need to encourage halal jobs that will help the family, not show off degrees. Also forfilling amanah in general can give good feeling like qawamun!
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It depends, emotions vary, some women are upset men are leaders and cut and paste like woman above, We have ground ourselves. Hadith JIbril, aqida, 5 pillars of Islam, sciences of Allah's speech, 5 protected sharia pillars: din, life, mind, family & money - notice family is up there!
We have to learn the rulings and optimization, mutual rights, why it benefits, a house can't have 2 heads generally working against each other!
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@Baatipari thanks for reminder. not about strangers, but wanting positive communication to build, defensive in that? ppl go to jahunum for tongue too, not just privates, its more unsettling. Be safe and sincere w. haya! keep it simple! keep it transparent what Islam says, its part of the safety of Islam. ppl who want it should take it! I think positive with wisdom insha Allah, knowing what steps to take to defend, while helping etc.
over - generalizations due to going into fight or flight is why women aren't leaders and need walis but can be detailed helpers!
"not sure what men like this want... " - who? again not clear, how can you help someone get what you say then? If you are going to talk at least be clear as the sunnah says. No danger or rocket science in that! I assume I am looking for the opposite if anything as stated above, with good leadership...
alone on the net? in person? don't get you? - Hayat and accuracy is better, prevention is better then cure, is my idea.
If you are alone and looking for help, I pray Allah helps you! take care!
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But why? Atheism built 0 civilization, Islam is preserved faith others point to, humanity in all proves Islam true, shows Allah is Just, All Wise and Merciful. So point is be a good worshiper of Allah will include being a good husband or wife and building civilization.
Why's is civilization going backwards? The family unit is, why? The individual is due to lack of Islam in particularly bida..
Lack of ghira in din leads to lack of ghira in other affairs. Men are taught bida by imams who have no evidence so they hide how to seek knowledge from the men and critical thinking, so bida of like sufi imams divide society and bida of the laymen lack growing or research in Islam. The bida imams will use mathabs as an excuse for blind division and fit in their agenda but all 4 mathabs said follow us not blindly but with Quran and sunna evidences. This can lead the men and women to turn to other ideas and attack the marriage. So returning to the sunnah can help us grow and unite as individual learned men and women.
Islam has 5 pillars to guide society, 6 of iman to guide individuals, and then the sciences of Islam lead to judges and specialists to up hold 5 protected pillars of shariah - din, life, mind, family, money.
So marriage falls under pillar 4 of shariah.
Among the first sciences is knowing Allah's Siffat.
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