Comments by "Tespri" (@Tespri) on "How Social Media Manipulates You | Asmongold Reacts" video.

So true, I have been telling this to my friends who aren't successful with women for long time. Just get female friends and be honestly their friend without any ulterior motives. That's how you learn to talk with women and become more charismatic around them. So many guys become total weird creeps near women and totally lack self-awareness how much that actually undermines their attempts to hit on women. It's not about their look, height, money or even d-size (you need to get in the bed in the first place for them to find out your size). Seen how women dismiss tall good looking guys just because they don't know how to talk or act.
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Nah, people change all the time. Don't even focus on knowing yourself. Just relax and act around them like you would act around guys. Learn to be flirty with girls you like but do it in more comedic manner and see how they react. If they know if you like them anyway and usually give hints or respond to flirty jokes back with another flirty joke. IF they don't laugh or didn't get the joke then move on and put them into the "friendzone". Aka stop trying them. That is pretty safe method to see does girl like you or not.
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@fyecofi That's why you're still virgin and I'm considered as player.
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@tyty8484 People do change and I'm living proof of that. Me from past wouldn't even recognize myself. When friends made same claim as you I asked them directly. "Do you really think I'm the same man I was 10-years ago" and they all say that I'm totally different. Thus always ending up the debate. People change, change is slow but graduate. Trying to fixate yourself to label is just stopping yourself from growing. I used to be "introverted, stuttering and shy". Now I'm considered as extrovert, with lots of charisma, humor and quick wit. I used to be lazy and have no ambition. Now I'm having multiple hobbies and have had big jump upwards in my career. I used to have hot temperament as well, and now I'm acting calm and cold in situations that would've made me see red in the past.
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@tyty8484 Nah that's just some weird excuse for you. "just got comfortable with yourself". You can apply that to any change people have. "oh you used to hate kids and now got them and ended up liking them? I guess you just got comfortable with yourself" I'm basically polar opposite as personality and hobby wise. What else that is than changing as a person? What does it take for you to believe that someone has changed? If not complete personality change which I have gone through. " Or are you saying you just magically grew wit and humor?" Are you saying I magically just stopped being extrovert and shy? Ever considered that I actually worked on myself to change myself? "Some people do" Thus my argument is correct and you're wrong. You shouldn't be focusing on "knowing yourself" since yourself can change over time. What really matters is just relaxing and learning the game. Instead of trying to throw some labels on yourself and stay in it rest of your life like coward. " Did you start taking some" Nope, no medication and I don't use any mind altering substances. Beside alcohol during social events where drinking is part of the event. "In any case, anecdotes are not valid arguments against generalizations or just in general. " Actually they can be. You're making claim that people don't change without mind alterning substances or injuries. This claim is probably because you're still less than 25-year old aka some random kid without any life experience. You made positive assertion that people don't change thus the burden of proof is on you. Meanwhile we can see historical examples of people changing over time. You think your father was always lame and boring? All you need to do is to hear stories from your parents and compare how they are now and the evidence is obvious.
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@tyty8484 Life isn't easy, your philosophy is incel philosophy where instead of improving yourself you just stay as the same. "make you a different person." The end results does. Forcing yourself to build up on your personality and habits will build up discipline, will power and the new habits and personality with it. You're like overweight guy saying that people can't lose weight and are stick to what they have. "Wit and humor are inherent traits" They are tied to intelligence. However shy and introversy are not tied to your intelligence and those can change as your personality shifts. "That's why it's important to be real." You're not real, you're just acting like an incels who demands that people should just take you as the losers as you are. "After a few failed relationship" I can see why they failed. "Never set the bar high and then fail. " You got it wrong. Failure is acceptable, giving up is not.
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