Comments by "AfriqueNY" (@AfriqueNY) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. Don't believe the op? Let your wife's fav pro athlete or actor get on her Dms. He could do anything he wants with her body. Hypergamy is a hell of a drug.
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  2. That's a good therapist.
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  3. That's called leverage. That's why you can't sign the contract
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  4. Fellas. Never take your foot off the gas
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  5. No. Cause the man getting it for free provides none of these things.
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  6. That's all women from a 1-10. That's why the most successful men with women give them less
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  7. Wife and kids are a choice. But if you want a legacy and your bloodline to live on you have to have a child and take what comes with it.
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  8. Hypergamy is undefeated
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  9. Lonely for certain men. If you are in a position of status it's the opposite and you just want to be left alone.
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  10. I respect your honesty. I wish more woman would just tell it like it is. As a Gen x man I explain to young men NOT to marry unless you can provide. Biology hasn't changed.
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  11. ​ @toriandjojo2018  old men have value. I didn't make the rules. Robert Dinero did. Lol
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  12.  @hungrybeaverontheleaver  I'd luv to jump in this debate. As i understand it from observable reality, men of means are ok with losing out on providing SECURITY to lesser women. This is why In the old days the romantic pauper raised the king, Duke, Earl or Lord's bastard children. The man of means still wins. He enjoys the woman and then discards her to the romantic hence the term "white knight". This is why in modern times average men will run to store on Valentine's Day and top tier men do not even bother. The top tier men have multiple options for a wife. Lower tier must take the scraps and fight amongst themselves using romance for a wife. This is why in modern times women are turned off by "nice guys" cause they know it's the tool of the desperate
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  13. That's different in my opinion than romance. That's validation of status.
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  14. Get yourself a Vette and some bling and rock out. Women despise safe men
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  15.  @JustMe-999a  he signed the contract. It's legally binding.
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  16.  @stefanmatton8778  because they don't HAVE to have any of those things to attract a mate. In the animal kingdom the male does some funny dance or shows plumage or beats up rival males or whatever and the females sit back and pick the best suitor/Victor. Human females are no different. They will always have the freedom of choice. Men must be chosen.
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  17.  @hungrybeaverontheleaver  ok. Let me explain it like this. A man's mating strategy is quantity. Given the opportunity I think most of us in this thread would love to have a harem of gorgeous fit women. Society frowns on that so even rich men don't do it (Hugh Hef was the last). So what happens now is serial monogamy . The rich man can rack up a notch count of top tier women with zero effort. When the woman becomes a liability (clingy, emotional, demanding commitment) he will gladly "lose" to a romantic nobody who will now be stuck with a depreciating asset. Do you think Tom Brady is going to remarry a 50 year old woman? His exes BF is the romantic who will be saddled with his middle aged ex wife and children.
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  18.  @ChickFenwick  he looks average. Like the VAST majority of human adults
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  19. Def a net positive for the woman.
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  20.  @monkeyboyalcoholic  it's a gamble. And it's one that even when you win you lose . Remeber that it's all feelings based. It's how a man makes her feel long term. Are you prepared to play the long game of making her feel like you are the best and most desirable man ever? It's one of the most difficult things you will ever do in life.
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  21. Please keep the content coming. You are helping both genders
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  22. That word partner sounds awful to any self respecting man. A man who is in position to be a husband will not want to be a "partner".
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  23.  @alexavasquez1992  I'm really happy that you eloquently brought up all of these valid points. You said something that i picked up on. "taken advantage of". This is what I tell young men and women today. Dating is NOT an even exchange. Marriage is. Romance is another word for game. The word game comes from African American street slang. Romance is game. Telling a woman what she wants to hear has always been the tool of the user. If a man has no intentions of marrying a woman he is using her for her femininity. All women will feel "taken advantage of" because there is no security to back it up. Back in the days making the wrong choice based on "romance" was life and death. Now a days the only penalty is either being used or single motherhood.
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  24. The reason why it's insulting is cause WE KNOW she isn't chaste.
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  25. You left out that dating and sex only work in the man's interest. Also date your own SMV ladies. Don't end up on a roster. Take an honest assessment of who you are and where you stand.
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  26. ​ @beatricewillows that's demonstrably false. The men that are most successful with women are not "kind".
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  27. That's literally EVERY woman in a relationship. That's the goal of every straight man is access to her body and her goal is security in exchange. Nobody watches PBS nature shows anymore? Pretty much every animal has some form of this dance.
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  28. A year. Long enough to get the cheeks
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  29. Once you understand primate biology dating and mating all starts to make sense
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  30. ​@Yung Bali this is true. However it's impossible for there to be enough men to satisfy the average woman's hypergamy. Therefore women will be miserable with average men they resent or share the top tier guy. The arguement of "men need to do better" is crazy. If everyone was the tinder swindler dude then all of us men would be average.
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  31. I'm assuming you are young. Gen Z or a millennial. I'm Gen X. If I may I can explain. Just as women get bored with emotional available men, men get bored with sexually available women. Men also know that commitment to a woman gives her leverage. In this modern day and age dating ONLY benefits men. We men get what we want (physical) and women get nothing in return. The old strategy of making him wait no longer applies due to sexual availability of most women. Yes. We will wait but then just add you to the roster of women when you are ready. The answer is obvious to solve this problem for women . Date within your league . Take an honest assessment of your SMV and date parallel . If you date up in 2024 you will be on a roster .
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  32. ​ @MVProfits spot on. He equivalent of this for a married man would be if he suddenly became a rich celebrity. The marriage would fail. Women now are all "rich celebs" married or otherwise. Any woman on social media is going to have endless supply of "emotional energy".
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  33.  @paulharrisonadventuregearm5457  good luck with that young man
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  34. ​ @rougebaba3887 don't feel bad. That's normal woman behavior. She is doing that because you treat her nicely. That's just female nature. If you started pampering yourself and buying your own necklaces and looking like a don Juan her whole attitude would change.
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  35.  @SabrinaDacosta  let me ask you a question? I know you are young and idealistic. I get it. As a woman how would you feel if you gave your all and a man used you? Would you like to be treated with the same respect he treats another woman? It's not insecurity. It's pragmatism.
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  36. Why would you want to keep a depreciating assett
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  37. ​ @dearbrave4183 are you young?
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  38. It's called being catfished. Or Pookie. Or gigolo. Been around forever. Usually happens when women age out
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  39.  @petelipson3769  hello. Literally everyone else pandering to women and telling us men that we are losers for not being Tom Brady. We don't have to make up anything. Y'all women tell us to our faces.
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  40. Of course. But you don't give it to her at all. Women love that
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  41. And this is why Pookie always wins.
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  42. All relationships are transactional and manipulative. When people become adults they realize this
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  43. The whole King/Queen dynamic is silly in my book. Society tells you what your status is. Period.
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  44. ​ @blackjames4116 and those women want attractive men.
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  45. And men don't see that women now want to make the offer. Let them
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  46.  @brianmeen2158  i have a solution. One of my close childhood friends who has always been successful with women told me never to share details of your finances or what you do . He said it's a losing strategy. Over the years I have grown to see that he is right. Let's say you are a teacher she will automatically think you are safe soft guy. Cop well then you must be authoritative. Don't ever let anyone put you in a box. Once men start guarding their professional lives (stop putting it on your social media and dating info) women will have to get to know you.
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  47. It took me 20 years to learn this. He is absolutely right. Stay on the same course you were when you met her. Never bend. Never give in. Never submit.
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  48.  @Hellthee  i agree. But as humans we have to adapt to the fact that women are never going back to the role of stay at home mom. Men have to also understand that and allow women to provide a percentage .
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  49.  @skeletorlikespotatoes7846  as a full adult who is VERY qualified to have this debate i can tell you that romanticism HAD it's role in society but societies CHANGE. Would you like to return to the horse and buggy? How about the 1950s? We are not going back. You can't out romantic pookie. Adapt to societal change or become obsolete.
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  50. I'm also a Gen x dude and i agree. This guy nails it
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  51. Net positive is based on their feelings at that time. Study mammal biology . It will all make sense
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  52. There are idealistic women out there. Women who see successful marriage as a huge flex. Make no mistake. A happily married couple who have beaten the stats is a flex.
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  53.  @grantwithers  do you know how expensive a divorce is?
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  54.  @cangrejitamiry  as a "nice guy" myself I can tell you we "nice guys" also have game. We have to. Him telling you what YOU want to hear is top tier level game. It prevents you from claiming to the authorities that you were "used". This man is terrified of that.
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  55. ​ @ZoldicsDiaries  I'm all for equality for the sexes. This isn't about that. This is about this new age where both men and women don't seem to understand their SMV. Men still think their job and good deeds will attract a mate and women think all the online free attention means their SMV is high. It's not going back to the 1950s .
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  56. The men I know that have the most good looking women are way behind in life. They have devoted their lives to the game. As a result they are dependent on what those women can provide financially
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  57. Imagine if I as a man said "hey I should be loved for myself but I have no desire to contribute financially to the relationship".
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  58. ​ @lisellesloan3191  that's horrible advice to somebody who is just trying to get access to a woman's body. See right there I can tell you don't understand a man's mating strategy. Just be honest and say "Everyone has an agenda". That's fair. If I was a woman I'd want the best man my looks can get. Period.
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  59. Nothing wrong with protecting your image. You are tactical.
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  60. Man. That was an impressive humble brag. I took notes. Thanks.
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  61. I get your point. I think the men most women find attractive have harems and rotations and therefore don't need women either. Hence standoff. This is for those who do want a healthy relationship.
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  62.  @cg-1973  I don't know of one single woman in the entire world who isn't moody and doesn't like to test her man every now and then. Women absolutely LOVE when a man dotes on himself. Don't know why. But I didn't write the rules. You can take the nicest woman and start treating her like a princess and doting on her while sacrificing. For example. She gets the new car while you drive the beater. No no no fellas. Make sure YOUR car is the best one. You come first. Then her.
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  63.  @beatricewillows  "won you over". Sounds like traditional courtship. May I ask what you did prior to giving him a chance?
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  64.  @monkeyboyalcoholic  thank you Sir. I speak from decades of experience. You have a higher chance of surviving Vietnam than marriage in this era
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  65.  @beatricewillows  I am a nostalgic guy. And old fashioned courtship makes a tear come to my eye. Now during that time you made him wait I'm sure you were NOT having fun with Pookie in the bedroom. If you made him wait while You also waited to confirm his intentions then kudos to you and him. I wish you both the best and a long long marriage.
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  66. Your friend figured out how not to be average. Lol.
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  67. ​ @clearlisted there is no such thing because humans have free will. This is 2024. Women are in limbo as to how to handle this new power they acheived.
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  68. No worries. Juan y Maria happy to replace ya
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  69.  @cangrejitamiry  I know I'm just some random guy from NYC on the Internet but "I'm proud of you". The fact that he sits at home is irrelevant . All relationships are transactional. As a woman make sure the man fills his side of the bargain as you fill yours. Best of luck moving forward
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  70.  @funicon3689  I wouldn't call this bragging. Some people really are happy with their mates. Those people tend to be pragmatists.
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  71.  @HelloWorld-cq1sq  mating has always been competitive. Now the average man has to compete with the world. Tough place to be in.
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  72.  @Lowdowndog  yeah. Did they bring out the champagne? I love that! Lol.
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  73. You don't take them on dates. You allow them to take YOU on dates
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  74. Persue that career young man. Never listen to a woman about your own path in life. She will be turned on if you forget your own path.
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  75. Pookie approves this message
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  76. I disagree. Most men AND women are average attractiveness. Most men will take a 5 and up. Most women want 7 and up. In the old days women took what they could get locally. Now it's global on their phone.
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  77.  @Doberman_6773  I agree . Hence marriage contract. When women say "it's not transactional it's about love" I say ok well if your husband decides not to work anymore and you and the kids become homeless please let me know how it's not transactional???? Everyone has to keep their end of the bargain in order to have a healthy committed LTR.
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  78.  @Kim-vw4nx  what did you say?
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  79.  @MiMysmelfandI  if mating is a win lose gender battle everyone loses. Nobody gets what they want.
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  80. VERY WELL SAID. Salute to you m
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  81.  @proximityclockworkx1572  facts
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  82. That is cause in order to have all this prosperity there has to be sacrifice and education. The more you are educated on human nature and mating the more it's looked at as a zero sum game to win at the others expense.
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  83. Pete Hegseth would like to have a word with you after his drink
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  84. Here is the issue. Everyone now has seen red pill content. Men and women. They know this and will counter. It's harder and harder to find a mate that's clueless as to mating dynamics. Everyone has a podcast
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  85. Comment of the day. Slow clap
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  86.  @blackjames4116  she may not aim out of her league but she will always LUST out of her league. We men also do that. But for us its all visual. For them it's emotional. If you are not her first choice she will hire to resent you.
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  87.  @MisterCovek  those days are over. They know and don't care and men look foolish begging them to go back to the 1950s
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  88. It's already there. Actually women are terrified of true egalitarian world. That's where we headed..
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  89.  @RealSerie26  you sir are MAN!
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  90.  @jamesconner5004  I am one of those men.
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  91.  @jessijfly  hubby must either be loaded or a cop
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  92.  @jessijfly  I'm in NYC. Only men I see that are that ruthless to their wives....
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  93.  @cangrejitamiry  that's exactly what I meant. Except with Authorities involved and civil lawsuits and the like. Better to be nice to her and tell her what she wants to hear rather than the truth and be slapped with a lawsuit or worse.
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  94.  @cangrejitamiry  here is the issue. Men who are "managed" make great husbands. Men who are dominant will attract competition. Is that what you want? Can't have it all.
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  95.  @deltaxcd  that's a great way to end up divorced. There has to be a Ying and yang. Nobody wants a robot as a mate.
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  96. No different than the birds n the bees.
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  97. I really want to know why you require marriage? Do you want to start a family?
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  98. A Brad is a black Chad stop disrespecting us Bradlees out here. Lol.
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  99. For the umpeenth time. Chad is king. Then Black Chad aka Brad. Then Carmelo aka latin Chad. And then Pookie / Surfer / struggling artist
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  100.  @skeletorlikespotatoes7846  not true. Duty honor and obligation were a thing. That no longer exists due to rampant hypergamy and social media "choice". I can tell you are young. Good luck young man.
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  101.  @PermanentHigh  if she did that he would be devastated
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  102. ​ @vibhaverma2659  same thing applies to men. The difference is men's houses slow burn! Very slow.
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  103. Why are we as men focusing on some utopian idea of earned attention for females? Come on fellas. Yall sound just as delusional as the Bear lovers. As long as they have T and A they will get un earned attention as dictated by biology.
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  104.  @rensii-e8b  what I forgot to mention is that those men are also so good at what they do that they end up disrupting your life once you decide to choose a mate
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  105.  @TheAustrianPainter87  that's actually what they want. They speak loudly with their choices.
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  106. Women don't care about all that. They can also hop on a plane and marry a 3rd world dude. They are free to choose so let them choose poorly.
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  107.  @tarablue4472  a bad faith arguement. I never said Finances are all that matter. You said it yourself. You want a man that makes you tingle and is your partner in raising a family. Unless you can raise such family for FREE in the west you will NEED his contribution FINANCIALLY! I never said or ever will say that is all that matters. I prefer that my mate holds her end of the bargain.
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  108.  @tarablue4472  as an older man who has seen a few generations come around I can tell you women are not doing domestic work. Daycare and the housekeeper and the cook are. You cannot pin domestic chores on women anymore. Those days are gone and they are not coming back. What men will get from your post is "We want top percentile man in every category". It's not going to happen. And the threat of "I'll stat single" is useless. A mate is one of the most easiest things to get in this modern era where women require nothing in return
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  109. All animals are designed this way. Evolution and mate selection. Without it we would go extinct
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  110. Here is the thing. If you want to keep her around you have to give her the opposite of what she is used to. That differs for each woman
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  111.  @sbwlearning1372  ask Johnathan Majors and Puff Daddy and Dr Dre and all the rest about that. Fine. You want to ask an older wiser man? Just pay for it right? Ask Robert Kraft. When women decide "I was used" guess who they blame? Doesn't matter if you are an average joe. When your face is on TV as a "John" your life as you know it is over.
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  112. Are you not aware of biology?
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  113. The 8 is just playing the long game sir. Everyone now is educated on relationships
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  114. ​ @brianmeen2158  I'd be bitter too if I didn't get any cheeks. Lmaooooo. I'm Gen X so Im just an observer of the space. I find it fascinating. And the Red Pill did wonders for my professional life.
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  115. Signing a contract to give your mate leverage over you is insane
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  116. ​ @mavrosyvannah I beg to differ. My collection is doing well
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  117. That sounds great until your feelings change because .... Well they changed.
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  118.  @terry9238  I agree and on face value that makes perfect sense until hypergamy comes into play. Relationships are never egalitarian. There are plenty of men willing to be a partner or even the servant. Women don't want those men long term. Biology is the way it is.
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  119.  @LisaCulton  your choice. Plenty of people do just that. Jails full of them. Their choice.
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  120.  @swojnowski453  I agree. The woman always gets a benefit from that "friendship". It's usually "emotional availability". But often it's a set of competent hands to fix her problems for free. On the other hand the man just gets to be "seen" with the woman. That's his only prize. Not a good deal UNLESS she is sooo hot that other women say "I wanna know what's going on with that guy". In that case it's a win.
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  121. That's crazy. Men pay for childcare and all sorts of things. Women AND men both work out of the home. This isnt the old days where the man left the woman at home with a screaming baby. Come on.
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  122. That's Pookies secret weapon
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  123. Have you seen men's wives in the grocery store or home Depot? Come on. We men are realistic.
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  124. You want a unicorn
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  125. Pookie is still undefeated!!! Rich, wealthy or otherwise he gonna take your chick.
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  126. He has wealth and status and DR next to his name. Women are NOT an issue for this guy.
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  127. The crazy part is that a HVM can spin multiple plates at once and not even blink. One can blow 500 in a couple of days on dates to see what girl is best option. Her thought process is flawed.
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  128.  @CC-2020  come on man. Really? Not cool
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  129.  @rougebaba3887  I applaud you for that.
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  130.  @TriggerHappyThoughts  I beg to differ. And spend decades married to a "nice woman" and let me know how it goes.
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  131. Wow. This is spot on. This should be pinned.
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  132.  @LisaCulton  as an MD you know that geriatric pregnancy is very common now as women are having children later in life. Nobody is saying it can't be done. That's a choice.
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  133. ​ @suefleming  don't worry. Juan and Maria will. That's why we need immigration in the west
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  134. ​ @pslndt  we don't want to be called Tyrones. Black Chad aka Brad will do just fine. Thanks
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  135. ​ @elduderino1635  who says they are?
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  136. ​ @hansjusmeus5023  That's how it's been done for thousands of years
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  137.  @dadewoye  it's already legal. It's called Only Fans/Instagram Baddies
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  138. ​ @KeyaCares  I say the same for men who believe their paycheck is the reason why 8, 9s and 10s are "allowing" them to be seen in public spending money
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  139. ​ @edenartgardenamusementmuse7253 cause Miguel's name to the women is Carmelo. Carmelo is running through everyone's wives and GFS. Women are hard wired to want the top guys. For the first time in history they are free to pick that guy. Chad, Brad (black Chad) and Carmelo can't possibly bang all the chicks that offer but she will always pine for him.
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  140. I'm from NY. In my demo if you don't have multiple women you must be a loser.
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  141. It's NOT going to happen. As men we have to stop the pie in the sky utopia nonsense. This is the real world with rules made by nature. It's perfectly natural to react to an attractive woman . The winners will always have the charisma to bed her.
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  142.  @doates625  I live in the NY tri state. As birthrates and marriage rapidly declines the influx of immigrants from the third world is rapidly increasing. Within half a generation they own homes, businesses and have 3 to 4 children. The women are not interested in competing with their men for supremacy. Their children will drive the next economic wave of the west.
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  143. It's always been that way since dawn of time.
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  144. ​ @dearbrave4183 you have got to be young. HOUSEWIVES divorce husbands ALL the time. When you come of age get back to us.
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  145. Not going to happen. Biology and nature are undefeated
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  146. Peace out then!!!
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  147. Old world society and values....... And even that is changing amongst the youth there because of social media and western influence.
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  148.  @missfromsunshinestate  my comments get deleted as well and I'm no woman. I'm a red pill lefty liberal progressive tree hugger. As soon as I mention any observable reality that I have seen in my Gen X years it gets deleted
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  149. I can confirm all of these things work based on women's biology
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  150.  @PSAqi6kh  fellas. Never listen to a fish give advice on how to fish. "be yourself" really? Laughable
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  151.  @arand4125  as it should. Humans are primates. Women like the guy who stands out. Don't believe me? Go look at the thousands of groupies screaming for the pop star or rapper.
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  152. That's great! I'm in a major city. I see it every day. And these woman work hard.
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  153.  @annsheridan12  Those men are not going to marry them anyway. The competition is not from above but from below. The immigrant woman will take those men and satisfy their own hypergamy. All parties must adjust to the new reality.
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  154.  @annsheridan12  Juan and Maria got that covered. No worries.
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  155. ​ @marriagecausesdivorce7540  Chad Brad and Carmelo are also on the internet. My friend Brad who women worship loves the RP spaces. Remeber that miserable married guy who is balding and has a gut was once a Chad. The RP helps save mens lives
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  156. ​ @marcusmcgraw3519 do you have cheeks?
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  157. ​ @gabrielamartiniuc6322  that's default. Getting laid is much deeper than that
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  158.  @adelb7897  we are born, eat , grow, mate, breed grow old then die. Just like every other organism on this planet.
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  159. ​ @gl3mmy903  even an average woman will have more options than an attractive man
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  160. Im Gen X. I grew up watching Nature on PBS. Jane Goodall with the primates. Well humans are primates. Women will always prioritize potential in a man and men will prioritize looks and abundance in womem. Without that our species would go extinct
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  161. That's forcing the market. That's not going to happen. We are global now. As a man your competition is every man in the world. Not every man in your town. It will come back to earth when birthrates decline due to Chad not wanting to pay child support for a fun night. When women want children again they will realize their SMV
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  162. Why cut loose? What's the point of getting married?
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  163. @2coffinfuneral486 I'm sure she would tell you that she doesn't need or want his money. That's literally what every woman nowadays says.
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  164.  @a.d.b535  here is the thing. You willing to cut the one guy who is committed to you. Don't you find that odd?
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  165.  @a.d.b535  now I understand. You did what you had to do. I just hope you respect your new guy for being into you. Most women do not.
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  166. ​ @Sldoficn  statistics prove you wrong . Nature and biology prove you wrong.
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  167.  @shin-ishikiri-no  as a dating strategy what i have learned from young men in their physical prime is to start early. As far as Gen X is concerned we for the most part are in our financial prime. Our issue is protecting our assets while mating. It ain't easy. The millennials have to start vetting women and not accepting Pookies leftovers.
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  168. I'm confused. Are you a woman ? Are you saying you have zero SMV? That's impossible. You are either a 1 or a 2. You can't be a zero. All women have some SMV by virtue of being a woman. There is a niche for everything
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  169.  @dalegrant9282  you want to conquer primate biology? Good luck with that.
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  170.  @skeletorlikespotatoes7846  if women are telling you "i don't like romance" why would you continue with romance? Are you telling me that you think modern woman are not smart enough to know that romance is BS? Women are humans just like us. Would you want somebody romancing you?
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  171.  @skeletorlikespotatoes7846  i bet you that you don't. Lol
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  172. This is one of the best explainations i have seen in years
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  173. ​ @LisaCulton  I don't know of one man in my circle that this applies to. If it did the marriage would have been a one sided transaction where the man gets to mate and the women is paying for her own security. That's an unnatural state and usually will not work long term
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  174. ​ @neomacchio4692  I disagree. It's a trend because women are free to choose and they want pookie
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  175. That's boring AF! Chasing strange in the club is a endorphins rush
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  176. @colaro4381  you can't engineer animal behavior. A good relationship is not available to everyone and never will be. Mother nature was designed in a way that only the best traits get to be passed on to next generation. Relationships have always been competitive and transactional
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  177.  @EduardoMartinez-ys6fb  that sounds awful
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  178. Until Tom Brady DMs your wife.
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  179. ​ @professionalpookie  awesome screename
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  180.  @LisaCulton  actual just take her straight to the hotel. Most relaxing of all after long days work. They have pool n Jacuzzi with bubbles. Today's women are not impressed or interested in dates
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  181.  @TheAirlock  why? If the goal is bedroom fun those are the best ones for the job.
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  182. @leeche87  those days my friend are over. Why would you offer an equal person anything but yourself. Take it or leave it. Women have freedom to choose. They do not require a bribe
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  183. @thehonestguitarist6543  only top percentile of women getting invited on a yacht. And that's looks only.
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  184.  @leeche87  that's the thing. Equality means freedom of choice but also consequences. Im free to offer courtship to women. They are free to tell me to get lost and go pick the guy who only offers bedroom fun. Therefore I'm free to either adapt to what women are choosing or go extinct. I obviously have chosen the latter.
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  185. @pf4773  offer nothing. Let them offer
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  186. I can tell you are a woman by how you wrote "emotionally satisfying". I don't think women want to compete for mates.
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  187. You make money and she makes money. Win win .just spend the money on things YOU like. The old rules no longer apply. Women are attracted to men who dote on themselves.
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  188. I disagree and here is why. Why would anyone give up being in power? Nobody is going back to the way things were . That's not happening. You despise it cause nobody wants to be subjugated. At this point it's not about who rules who anymore but asking men for the responsibility and giving them zero authority. You cant have both and that's the problem. And men can't ask for the authority without taking on the responsibility. Both sides are trying to have it both ways. Can't work. For women either submit or be the provider and for men either provide or be locked out of mating.
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  189. What you are missing is that they are still in demand. Billion dollar demand
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  190. His advice is to be your true self to the man you really adore.
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  191. ​ @nina.cazimi  we know. Some other woman will take your place. The market is the market
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  192.  @tarablue4472  that's fine. There is no mandate on coupling in the west. I prefer to have good faith debates. I don't see anywhere saying that women are forced to have a man or mate or couple or get married. Last I checked women are free citizens able to do whatever they want.
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  193.  @tarablue4472  not for my generation! We are doing just fine.
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  194. The west is trying to reengineer primate biology and everyone is miserable. Reproduction will always win out.
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  195. You pay. You just don't know it
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  196. But what to say of modern men who are still offering courtship and resources to a whole generation of women who just want an attractive man to sleep with.
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  197. Those same girls are going to see Chad at 2 AM.
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  198. Women are not wired that way. Women of all species want the winner.
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  199.  @tarablue4472  that's awful advice. If everyone took that advice society would be chaos.
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  200. ​ @lansvance4870  you wasting your time with these men on this forum. I don't expect women to get inside our heads as men and I don't expect to get inside women's heads. This gender competition is silly.
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  201. ​ @mattiaslp9645  until she decides to sue you for abuse and trafficking.
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  202.  @unknown-vo3di  paying for it will result in a lawsuit or criminal charges or public shame at some point. I'd advise you not to go that route young man
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  203.  @ws-ss8ks  that's Always been primate biology. Women all want the silverback . You can't escape biology. Money won't make up for the tingles. As a man you have to stand out from your demographic no matter what it is. That's nature
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  204.  @unknown-vo3di  until she decided she felt used and decides to press charges and sue her list of John's
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  205.  @sbwlearning1372  the way the west is set up it doesn't matter . You gonna pay one way or the other. Unless you get lucky enough to have a woman grow bored and leave you and pity you. When that happens you win.
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  206. You are correct. Access to a woman's body is NOT guaranteed in nature. Never was. So 90 percent of men will always chase. 10 percent of men will be chased. Even the top tier men will give up their leverage by signing the contract.
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  207. ​@scottlang7025 they just wait until you commit in some sort of way. Either they move in or get preg or marriage contract. Then they have leverage and the nonsense starts
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  208. Had to watch this one twice Doc.
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  209. ​ @Nordic1133  and we don't care. Gimme the goods.
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  210. ​ @JustinColletti  the goal of every hetero man is to get laid
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  211. ​ @Chud-mb7gl  I have a variety of friends here in NYC. All races and types. One of my friends is a 270lb diabetic woman. She is NOT attractive at all. I asked to see her dating profile and she handed me her phone. I was blown away. 100 guys of all types and races all asking her for a date. You can't cheat human biology. Women will always have more optionality than men for mating. Men will always have to compete for mating access. Just like all other mammals. If you have 10 healthy large stags there will always be that one stag that can out duel the others and the does will mate with HIM.
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  212.  @ninopavkovic64  or have a family and keep the cars, bikes and toys. Sacrifice should be mutual and worth it
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  213.  @patrikback739  cars and jewelry and watches and handbags and houses all signal status. Humans treat other humans differently based on status. The same woman that valued spending money on nesting over a nice car will lust after the guy with nice car when she grows bored with the house
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  214. ​ @sepisdead  the value isn't perceived. Sex drive is the catalyst of any organisms survival as a species. The female in every species picks the winner. It's instinct
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  215. He is not settling. Idk about you but as a man I don't want a bigger version of myself. No thanks.
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  216. The man that you are with now will always be second to the bad boy you truly crave
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  217. Not all of us men are into nasty freaky stuff. Where does a man go who wants vanilla? Asking for a friend.
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  218.  @janek9535  gen Z or millennial?
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  219.  @LisaCulton  cause that's how societies work. They have rules
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  220.  @chrism8180  exactly.
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  221.  @detroitvcw  see below. Not 100 percent loss. If say 90 percent
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  222.  @keerankenny4374  I'd say it's the same. I as a man have an agenda and she as a woman has an agenda. It's set by mother nature
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  223.  @ws-ss8ks  larger women get married all the time.
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  224. Interesting
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  225.  @stepheninnerarity6802  I disagree. As an average man who does not fit any archetype that women desire, the moment I stopped caring about pleasing women was the moment I had more sexual access than I ever could have imagined. I learned that if a woman has feelings for you and you do not return those feelings it turns them on. I think it's rooted in primate nature of the woman always desiring the guy who has options besides her. Intercourse for a desirable man has never been easier to get in recorded history.
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  226.  @stepheninnerarity6802  I would also like to add that we are primates. We are designed to compete for sexual access as males. All men were not meant to mate. That's the cold hard truth of the animal kingdom. We have engineered a society where now it's an expectation that every male will mate. That's the problem in and of itself. Women are free to choose whom they want even if it's the same guy 100 other women want.
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  227.  @markdatheist9179  it's not. It's men vs women
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  228.  @doru4248  how would these contracts be enforceable?
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  229.  @doru4248  those societies exist and they are currently under military assault by the west. Women in the west are not giving up their power.
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  230.  @Passport2Pleasure  yes. I have been telling my friends this for years. The whole adversarial dynamic of modern mating is wild .
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  231.  @bobcobb158  it's ok. No problem. The market dictates
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  232.  @csmith9699  we don't care. Days of being a dancing monkey are over. I know what real desire from a woman looks like. It's not negotiable or you don't have to "work" at it.
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  233. Neither. They ain't going back. Besides. You don't want somebody pretending to like you for material gain. What's going to happen is that feminism will evolve as competition for provider males increases with immigration.
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  234.  @virtual-viking  Then they will say that men need to "step it up". That's how it works in the animal kingdom and we are no different.
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  235.  @shygrammer  word. You never going to beat Pookie at his own game. No hard working man has time to be lying to a woman all day long on the phone or in person. When having a roof over your head, a car to drive and some nice Jordans on depends on it, you gonna develop some game that's legendary b
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  236. Madison ave has told us all that we need all this stuff or we are failures.
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  237. @Marfy1208  don't marry these broads
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  238. Freedom comes at a price
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  239.  @FilthyCasual-np7yk  not caring is bad for society. And if you want children you had better care
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  240. ​ @paulsmith5611  you just proved Dr Orion's point.
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  241. @Wolverine_Workout  sheeesh man. Red pill god.
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  242.  @cg-1973  a few decades allegedly. Lol.
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  243.  @FoxSleeping  you are describing primate biology. The male protects the family unit for outside forces. Women know this . That's why they are hypergamous and as they age they scramble for legacy and security.
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  244.  @ALT3REDB3AST  translated. Pookie made her tingle
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  245. I disagree. Since the dawn of time women have always known what men wanted. For the first time in human history women are free to choose what THEY want. And fellas what they want is counter to what we want. Hence the gender wars
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  246. ​ @katielowen  Katie. You are coming from a position of supremacy. Here is the issue. Modern men don't understand that the world has changed and now everyone has an agenda in mating. Chastising men for wanting women is wild work. Valuable option to women can mean just about anything cause what women are we talking about here? Time to start telling young men and women the truth.
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  247. ​ @Nordic_Sky  impossible to do both in a competitive legacy based society.
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  248. ​ @mariosok64  not woman's fault. Freedom ain't free.
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  249. ​ @perieven6357  sure
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  250. Once you take the red pill you can never unsee the truth. In my own opinion the red pill is just the knowledge that Mother Nature is undefeated.
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  251.  @blackjames4116  back in the days unnatractive women didn't have any access to men way above them. It's unsettling knowing that at any given time Drake or Future could Dm your wife and she will flat out leave you kids and all.
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  252. ​ castiel4746 very silly. Laughable.
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  253.  @highlighthilltop5470  if you need to negotiate you are already doomed. Never sign a contract
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