Comments by "AfriqueNY" (@AfriqueNY) on "Responding to my female critics: the importance of intentional sexuality" video.

  1. The reason why it's insulting is cause WE KNOW she isn't chaste.
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  2. You left out that dating and sex only work in the man's interest. Also date your own SMV ladies. Don't end up on a roster. Take an honest assessment of who you are and where you stand.
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  3. I'm assuming you are young. Gen Z or a millennial. I'm Gen X. If I may I can explain. Just as women get bored with emotional available men, men get bored with sexually available women. Men also know that commitment to a woman gives her leverage. In this modern day and age dating ONLY benefits men. We men get what we want (physical) and women get nothing in return. The old strategy of making him wait no longer applies due to sexual availability of most women. Yes. We will wait but then just add you to the roster of women when you are ready. The answer is obvious to solve this problem for women . Date within your league . Take an honest assessment of your SMV and date parallel . If you date up in 2024 you will be on a roster .
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  4. All relationships are transactional and manipulative. When people become adults they realize this
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  5.  @cangrejitamiry  as a "nice guy" myself I can tell you we "nice guys" also have game. We have to. Him telling you what YOU want to hear is top tier level game. It prevents you from claiming to the authorities that you were "used". This man is terrified of that.
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  6. Imagine if I as a man said "hey I should be loved for myself but I have no desire to contribute financially to the relationship".
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  7.  @cangrejitamiry  I know I'm just some random guy from NYC on the Internet but "I'm proud of you". The fact that he sits at home is irrelevant . All relationships are transactional. As a woman make sure the man fills his side of the bargain as you fill yours. Best of luck moving forward
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  8.  @Doberman_6773  I agree . Hence marriage contract. When women say "it's not transactional it's about love" I say ok well if your husband decides not to work anymore and you and the kids become homeless please let me know how it's not transactional???? Everyone has to keep their end of the bargain in order to have a healthy committed LTR.
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  9.  @cangrejitamiry  that's exactly what I meant. Except with Authorities involved and civil lawsuits and the like. Better to be nice to her and tell her what she wants to hear rather than the truth and be slapped with a lawsuit or worse.
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  10.  @cangrejitamiry  here is the issue. Men who are "managed" make great husbands. Men who are dominant will attract competition. Is that what you want? Can't have it all.
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  11. A Brad is a black Chad stop disrespecting us Bradlees out here. Lol.
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  12. For the umpeenth time. Chad is king. Then Black Chad aka Brad. Then Carmelo aka latin Chad. And then Pookie / Surfer / struggling artist
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  13.  @tarablue4472  a bad faith arguement. I never said Finances are all that matter. You said it yourself. You want a man that makes you tingle and is your partner in raising a family. Unless you can raise such family for FREE in the west you will NEED his contribution FINANCIALLY! I never said or ever will say that is all that matters. I prefer that my mate holds her end of the bargain.
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  14.  @tarablue4472  as an older man who has seen a few generations come around I can tell you women are not doing domestic work. Daycare and the housekeeper and the cook are. You cannot pin domestic chores on women anymore. Those days are gone and they are not coming back. What men will get from your post is "We want top percentile man in every category". It's not going to happen. And the threat of "I'll stat single" is useless. A mate is one of the most easiest things to get in this modern era where women require nothing in return
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  15. ​ @Sldoficn  statistics prove you wrong . Nature and biology prove you wrong.
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  16. His advice is to be your true self to the man you really adore.
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  17. ​ @nina.cazimi  we know. Some other woman will take your place. The market is the market
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  18.  @tarablue4472  that's fine. There is no mandate on coupling in the west. I prefer to have good faith debates. I don't see anywhere saying that women are forced to have a man or mate or couple or get married. Last I checked women are free citizens able to do whatever they want.
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  19.  @tarablue4472  not for my generation! We are doing just fine.
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  20.  @tarablue4472  that's awful advice. If everyone took that advice society would be chaos.
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  21. Not all of us men are into nasty freaky stuff. Where does a man go who wants vanilla? Asking for a friend.
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  22.  @janek9535  gen Z or millennial?
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  23.  @ws-ss8ks  larger women get married all the time.
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