Comments by "s reed" (@sreed8570) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. One statement in this video really hit upon the problem with the thinking of these women. It stated that "a marriage isn't a one-sided proposition". That is exactly why these women are still single at advanced age, they only see a marriage from their point of view, as if it were a decision they alone make when they are ready to make it. Never once considering what a man might think or feel.
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  2. Whats next 75 year old women saying they are "High quality elderly single women"? Men can get high quality dried fish at the market, why would they go to a matchmaker for it?
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  3. The hollow empty eyes seems to be a trait they all share. Sometimes they can put on a fake smile but it never reaches those cold dead eyes.
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  4. The matchmaking is for men? Really? I guess someone forgot to tell them because the only people that show up to matchmaking events are either women or the matchmakers.
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  5. Now the men have to have helicopters just because she managed to squirrel away a few nuts for winter. This channel just gets more comical every time I watch it.
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  6. She says lets not let it kill off any chance WE might have, but what she really meant was don't let it kill off the chance I might have at getting his money and property. I've always thought western women were very selfish but the Chinese take the gold medal for it.
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  7. Women in their 20's say its their right to choose career over marriage, and everyone agrees. Then in their 30's they whine because men won't marry them. Men say its their right to stay single and not marry, everyone go's no no you must get married. Its like rights only for women.
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  8. That has got to be the saddest most pathetic thing I've seen watching this channel. If women actually wanted to be wives they would be, they would have realistic expectations and be more accepting of the men they date. They don't want husbands or to be wives for that matter they just want the wedding and security that comes from being married.
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  9. All these 35+ women and their great "conditions" meaning their high salaries are so full of it. If they make so much money why do they need a man earning twice what they earn? Its because they have no intention of continuing working either after the wedding but most certainly after the first child is born.
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  10. The only law that would even partially fix this issue would the the return of the bride price upon divorce. It would make women not divorce for frivolous reasons and alleviate some of the anxiety men have about getting married.
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  11. Every time I hear that stupid phrase "high quality woman" another blood vessel in my brain explodes. It never comes from someone describing a woman, it only comes from older bygone bitter barren women talking about themselves.
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  12. Its the same as it is in the US, men stuck in the friendzone at 20 are of course going to reject those same women when they come crawling back at 30+. Its like, now she thinks you are good enough but she is no longer good enough for him. And they get all pissy about it.
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  13. There is absolutely no reason to let these women get under your skin or piss you off, whenever it starts to happen simply remember NONE of them are going to find prince charming. Even if by some miracle they did they'd reject him for nonsensical things like a zit or the color of his shoes. We've all seen it time and time again.
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  14. Women living in dirt floor shacks demanding all this money and gifts is just mind boggling. I sure hope they like their shacks because no prince charmings coming to save them.
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  15. It's so sickening how women like to use the word "suitable", as if they meant a hard working decent honest man. They do not, suitable for them is tall handsome and wealthy and even then there are a laundry list of other things the man must bring, have and do to win their cold hearts.
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  16. I don't understand why they want to get married at all. Why don't they just live with the choice they made and be happy in the house they bought with their pets and their cubicles at work? Just leave men be.
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  17. They are so ridiculously childish. They destroy their families chasing some fantasy happiness like a child chasing a squirrel. Then when reality kicks them in the pants they want to call take-backies and have their family back. Sorry ladies that is not how being an adult works.
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  18. The only reason for a man to marry is to start a family and that requires a healthy fertile woman. In contrast the only reason most women marry is for the security, that's especially true for older woman.
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  19. China wouldn't need subsidies and encouragements for people to marry and have kids if bride-prices, dowries and other nonsensical bride remunerations didn't exist.
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  20. Pride-prices and dowries and things of that nature played important roles in society 100's of years ago, but modern society had rendered them unnecessary. They are now nothing but signs of greed that turn what should be a beautiful marriage between a man and woman into a financial transaction.
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  21. They have no desire to be housewives but at the same time they all want to be married. What possible use could a man have for a wife that is nothing but a burden?
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  22. Now women are getting jealous of call girls. Men are not "falling in love" they are simply receiving what they desire from women and are able to pay the price.
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  23.  @zebare726  The key word there is "someday". Someday I'll win the lottery, someday.
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  24. None of them would pass that's why they're so against it. Even finding a 19 y/o virgin would be like 1 in 100,000. You can bet the few women that are chaste have no issue with the checkup. The whole point of the arranged marriage and bride price was to insure the purity of the bride.
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  25. If human trafficing is illegal why not simply petition the government to add bride=pricing to those laws? For many families they're simply selling off their daughters to boost their sons.
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  26. Don't be naive and give your money to these massage girls who actually give you some return on investment, instead give it to 30+ y/o leftover women on blind dates and gifts with 0% return.
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  27. They refuse to accept that them having the freedom to demand certain standards of the men they want, means those men also have the freedom to reject them.
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  28. Resisting a health check is the same as resisting a DNA test to prove paternity. If there is nothing to hide why hide behind feelings of insult and indignation?
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  29. Men from rural areas without wealthy parents or exceptional abilities should spend their 20's living as frugally as possible and investing every cent they can so by 30 they can have a self sustaining income. It may not be a lot but removing the need to work 40+ hours a week will make for a much happier existence. They will also remove any need to be dependent on others.
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  30. The women that balk the loudest at not turning off beauty filters are no different from those that argue about signing a prenup. They give away the plot with every word.
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  31.  @Maybe-cg2tn  You're 100% correct, and the men still reserve the right to refuse.
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  32. These videos amount to nothing more than women throwing temper tantrums for not getting their way in the dating market. Exactly like children they refuse to accept that LIFE ISN'T FAIR. Your future outcomes are decided by your past choices.
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  33. Woman pushed and pushed, even as economies crash and people earning decent amounts feel the pinch they pushed and they pushed. Men have had it, women have managed to push men that 1 mm too far and they are about to deliver to women a most fitting reset. Its really good that women say they love their careers so much, because that's all they will have to hold at 40-50-60--->.......
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  34. She said it right there, they are ALWAYS looking for the better man. This perfect fantasy man doesn't exist and they will never find anyone even close. But they will sleep with one handsome moneyed man after next in an effort to find him.
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  35.  @smcdonald9991  Had to trade mine in woman wanted a 100k ring. HAHA
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  36. No man should ever take back someone who willingly packed up and left him.
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  37. No matter how many times they are told and who's telling them they just can't believe that men don't care how much money they make, especially the kind of men they really want.
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  38. If you didn't know the truth of their situations you'd almost feel sorry for them. But knowing the only reason they're single at such advanced ages is because brideprice greed and pickiness makes any sympathy impossible.
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  39. I think I understand whats going on in China, the educational system is NOT teaching women the true definition of the word "REASONABLE". They have no idea what it means.
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  40. 9 to 1 thems pretty good odds considering in the states its 900 to 1.
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  41. Its so sickening to listen to these women. Regardless of the situation or outcome its always the mens fault. If the man has too little money, his fault. If he has a lot but chooses not to marry, also his fault. Young marriage is dead thanks to women, older marriage is done thanks to men. Women need to stop waiting at the finish line for rich winners and work with men at the start to get there.
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  42. If a women Chinese or any other race wants to forgo having children and a family for her career what need doe's she have for a husband at 35+? What is all the bitching and crying about? Just enjoy your life and job as is, why do you need to get married? These are honest and reasonable questions. Men marry to create families, it seems modern women marry only to make their lives easier.
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  43. They cry he wouldn't remarry them, that sounds so insane. I've never heard of that happening before must be an Asian thing. In my country once you're divorced that's it there's is no take backsies.
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  44. When will women get it into their heads that masters degrees high wages and owning homes and cars DOE"S NOT make them more desirable to the men they want. To men with money homes and education only youth fertility and cooperativeness have value to them. They're like children, want to have it all. You get a choice when you're young, marry and have a family or college and career. You can't have both, that's why the divorce rate is over 50% and the marriage rate is 5 per 1000.
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  45. Its time for the government to step in and make the brideprice and other remuneration for marriage illegal. Its no different than parents selling their daughters and the extortion of men.
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  46. She says when they guard against each other like thieves, what she should've said was when he has to guard against her and her parents thievery. She had nothing to lose.
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  47. 20 Year old feminist=Feminism is great I don't need a man I can make my own money. 30 Year old feminist=Feminism sucks I don't want to work anymore I want to be a housewife.
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  48. They talk about the bride price and betrothal gifts as if they are some kind of absolute law that must be followed. When in fact they are nothing more than the WOMANS demands and her parents demands. These things could just as easily be forgotten and many more men would be open to looking for partners.
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  49. All it takes to identify people living in a communist country is to just listen to its women rant.
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  50. The problem comes from their feelings about money. Their money is this precious finite resource that must kept, hidden, hoarded and protected like a naked child in Siberia. Whereas a mans money is this fountain of limitless mana falling freely from his pockets to hers.
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  51. Women want the marriage rate to go up, if so they only need to do two things. 1 Stop waiting until they're 35 before considering marriage. 2 Drop the delusion that they're all going to marry a tall handsome rich man. We all know that civilized society will collapse and burn to the ground before either one happens.
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  52. Of course Chinese women come out in droves supporting the dowry system, because its they that will be on the receiving end.
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  53. Women are so quick to talk about how they can support themselves so much better single and don't need no men for that, yet what is their main condition for getting married? Its money to be precise his money. Men generally work to 65-70 before retiring, women don't make 40 before getting burnt out.
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  54. This bride price B/S started back in antiquity and came with certain guaranties like the girl would be verifiably untouched, "a virgin", and were she not she would be severely punished and the marriage cancelled. If some are so hot to stick to old traditions they should stick to all of them.
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  55. Of course he was attentive of his wife in hospital, she probably married him young and built a life with him. The other woman saw this and thinks she's going to marry at 40 and still have that attentiveness, could she be any more clueless and delusional. These women keep themselves single.
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  56. The second one proves that single miserable women keep other women single
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  57. No one can stick it to you like your close friends. You're naturally on guard against your adversaries so of course they won't have much opportunity to cause harm, but close friends especially ones that have earned a measure of your trust can really fuck you over.
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  58. The only thing this will do is drive the bride price which is now transparent underground creating a black market for it to continue unabated. Where this law is implemented the marriage rates will drop off even further.
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  59. These women are absolutely fucking insane. They won't accept guys their age when they are young because the guys don't have enough "money/resources". Then when they reach spinsterhood they won't accept guy their age because those men might expect something from them. They couldn't be more selfish and obnoxious. No wonder they are single.
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  60. In their 30's you could say these women have a miniscule chance of getting married and suffering through a geriatric pregnancy, but after 40 what possible reason other than usury doe's a woman have for getting married? The fact that they can't answer that is why men that age ignore them.
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  61. So what reaction is she and others like her going to have when the senior abbot tells them to leave their cellphones and all electronics behind. Willing to bet the next series of videos will be them regretting their choice to shave their heads.
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  62. The words "High Quality" are usually reserved for the description of products sold in the Dollar Store.
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  63. Pride-prices and dowery's are nothing but ancient traditional practices that cause nothing but problems in modern society. Sacrificing young virgin girls to the volcano was a tradition too, should we bring that back?
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  64. They could all be promoted to CEO with double the pay as their male colleagues and they would still find a way to play the victim card.
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  65. A lot of older womens confidence comes from their looks. The mentors should advise them to go on first dates with no make-up on. If they are truly confident in their natural inherent beauty they should have no issue with it. If they balk at the idea it means their confidence comes from beauty products not they themselves.
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  66. With the bride-price came certain assurances, the main and most important was the PURITY of the bride. Which was confirmed through examination before any bride-price was discussed. I wonder how many of these modern women could conform to the custom they want the groom to follow.
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  67. Older Chinese women would be a lock if the Olympics had a mental gymnastics category. The incredible hoops their minds must have to jump through to reach the nonsensical conclusions that justify them wasting their youth partying and sleeping around still find a way to blame men for their poor decisions.
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  68. You almost want to feel sorry for them, but they're so bitter and mean its just not possible.
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  69. She doesn't give 2 shits about "the child", wtf is that. You can tell she's completely full of it, it all falls on the guy. Its all his fault she got bored and wanted a divorce. If her kids so important than why did she leave him behind?
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  70. Modern women are supposed to be so strong and independent now, maybe in the workplace they are. But emotionally they are immature and cowardly. Even when they meet the man of their dreams they refuse to stand up and tell the man how they feel or ask him how he feels, if he doesn't do absolutely everything then they walk away crying.
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  71. Its just go's to show the level of mental instability that leftover women rise to when they realize they're never going to have that 1.8 meter tall millionaire they all think they deserve.
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  72. Marriage in China is the most one sided business arrangement on the entire planet. Name anywhere else that one person in a agreement gets everything and the other person get nothing and they are supposed to be happy about it too.
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  73. The nightclubs would be just fine if women simply did one thing, pay for their own drinks. The fact that they go to them and spend nothing is the reason men have had enough and the bars are shutting down.
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  74. The men that actually meet her ridiculous standards either ignore her altogether or simply use her for target practice just as chads have done the world over. The more special and perfect a woman believes they are the likely they are to spend their lives alone.
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  75. Its easy enough to see why the "suitable" men they desire pass them by without a second look. They all want a man that earns twice what they do but at the same time have no intention of combining incomes to make a better life for both, they're idea is their money is their money and his money is their money too. What man grinding his ass off to make 500k would bother with them?
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  76. Why is it that their education and income are all they need from 18-30 in the years when they actually have something to offer men? Then at 30+ when children and family are not likely they suddenly get concerned about having a man. Just seems like a lot of usery to me. I say you made your choice time to step aside and let younger more fertile women have the men of means to raise children.
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  77. I still think this remarrying nonsense must be an Asian thing. I've never heard of it happening in the US. When you become an adult decisions made are final, there are no Take/Backsies.
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  78. American and western born women may be delusional in their standards for men, But Chinese women are certifiable.
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  79. Its not like she's some outlier or one off, many if not most women share her spending habits.
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  80. Its as if her skull was transparent and we could all see the squirrel on the hamster wheel spinning round and round. You know if by some miracle she finds a moron to marry her she's going to quit her job the next day divorce him and take everything. Great thing is men see right thru this b/s now.
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  81. They become the man of their dreams, high income, status, highly educated and wonder why they can't connect with men of the same caliber. Men that meet their ridiculous standards have no interest in them because dating them is like dating another man in a dress.
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  82. Only in China is it still legal for parents to sell their daughters
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  83. Its a good thing her matchmaking business is going under, when they are ALL gone then women will have to come to the table honestly with realistic expectations. It too ironic to see her use the same s-i-g-n language as American feminists. Hate to tell them shaming tactics and insults just drive the men further away, not that she'd listen her rants are mostly a way to vent for her alone.
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  84. They become the successful masculine men they want, then can't understand why those men have no interest in them. A handsome successful man can find happiness with a waitress at a coffee shop. A pretty successful woman can't find happiness with anyone.
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  85. The woman the perpetrated fraud thru maternity laws is the reason for the rise in what is known as "black companies", institutions that mistreat and exploit their employees using every legal means and loopholes they can find.
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  86. It's a brain sickness, it would be no different from a person punching a hole in a wall then blaming the wall.
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  87. Women want equality right up until they get it. Then its "that's not what we meant", they want equality like a Chinese buffet cherry picking the benefits while leaving responsibilities, compromise and trade-offs untouched. It doesn't work like that.
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  88. I really don't want to spread my negative emotions so I'll just make a video of myself bawling negatively and post it to the internet where potentially millions of people can be affected. Only in the female mind doe's that make any sense at all.
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  89. Theres no good men around her means theres no perfect tall rich men around her.
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  90. Until it is established that the couple actually like each other and are going to pursue a real relationship ALL dates should be 50 /50, with no party paying the full cost of the dates. That would end the B/S of women taking taking taking and then going oops I'm just not into you.
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  91. Kind of funny how even as the guy is getting scammed and defrauded she performed feminist mental gymnastics and found ways to blame it on the guy. The only expensive dinner date women should get is when they been dating a while and the guy proposes, and if she rejects the engagement then its a 50/50 dinner.
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  92. There's only one word that adequately describes these women, the word is sick. Its all my child this my child that but you can tell they are just bitter that the ex they thought they would leave miserable and unhappy is getting on just fine without them.
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  93. If these women were guarding their chastity like they did 50 years ago that would be something. But you have to realize they are being bamboozled into bed by chads just like western women. So they don't even have their virginity to offer to a man yet have ridiculous demands of them.
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  94. This is the government trying to bring men back to the dating market. Now if they just make bride-prices illegal things would get much better.
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  95. Bestie = Miserable single woman keeping her friends single and miserable just like herself.
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  96. Chinese women are no different than western women, once they've been with a few chads they get Alpha-Widow-Syndrome. What that means is no matter how great a guy is he's never going to stack up next to the few top 5% men that have thrown her some sex for a weekend or two. Those top guys give average women sex but never commitment, but the women keep chasing them.
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  97. Nothing is more effective at keeping single women single than her single female friends. Her "Bestie" was nothing more than jealous of her getting married and planted the sabotage test him bomb.
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  98. First we have watch mentally damaged women self sabotage any chance of getting married and having a family. Now we have to watch them self sabotage their careers. The government really needs to step up and put something in the water to fix these broken women.
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  99. What juice? More like taint.
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  100. So now it just means all these women with so called "great conditions" are going to have to pay their fair share for the house. cars and savings in order to receive anything in divorce. What is so wrong or unfair about that?
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  101. They don't regret the divorce, what they do regret is the how the blemish the black check mark of divorce looks to new potential suitors. For most men single women over 30 are an unlikely match once you throw in that they're divorced its a complete non-starter.
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  102. OMG A woman who actually supports the bride-price? I'm shocked, shocked I tell you, well maybe I'm not that shocked.
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  103. Good thing she has her crazy old lady starter kit in the background, give ten years she'll have a dozen of them pissing all over her house.
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  104. The perfect tall handsome rich men they desire and think they deserve don't want them, never did and never will. A 30+ year old man that meets those standards is wanted by all women from 18 up so why would he bother with women past 30?
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  105. What else can you call this practice other than extortion?
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  106. Marginalized by society my ass, the only people marginalizing these women are the tall handsome rich men that don't want them. Only in the female brain can one's own choices that lead to negative outcomes be the fault of some societal boogyman.
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  107. The problem is the parents that let them get too comfortable, living in the family home in their old room past their 20's into heir 30s. An adult whether man or women should be out of the parental home by 25. That's more than enough time to finish their education and get settled into a job. You can bet they'll find partners then
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  108. Are we absolutely certain this is women in China? I'd swear I was watching Chinese-American women, what they have to say and their views on men are all but identical to American women.
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  109. She won't even hold his hand and yet complains how they aren't getting any closer.
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  110. The only reason women are still blind dating is for the opportunity to reject men to boost their egos and make them feel better about themselves.
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  111. 35 Year old women saying that marriage is no longer a necessity is too comical. Marriage for most women that age is no longer an option.
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  112. The thing of it is that most of the men that can actually afford the bride-price ARE NOT the tall handsome dominating CEO that women fantasize about. They initially agree to marry because the money and gifts are very enticing, but they have no interest in the men that can provide them. Many divorce or make it so miserable the man leaves, now they'll just try this new trick.
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  113. They divorced taking the children and NOT suing for child support because they didn't need it then and they still don't, they simply want to harm the father for the bad decision she made.
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  114. Once they pass 35 the delusional fantasy is all they have left, even the most unattractive men with poor conditions isn't going to marry them so they have to go on the attack and ditch them first to try to hold onto their unwarranted feelings of superiority.
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  115. The most telling thing is how women in a communist country are saying the exact same thing they do in the US. Just go's to show that "SIGN" language is universal, Shame-Insults-Guilt-Need to be right.
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  116. The guy Ideally should've left after the first rejection, especially when he found out why. What b/s it is for to expect him the make a million a year. But no one can fault him for leaving after rejection number 8, noone with a brain that is.
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  117. What makes us disgusted is how she most likely only "broke up" with the boyfriend as a tactic to get her way on some issue. She fully planned on getting back with him the second he acquiesced. Lucky Boyfriend I say, he got to see both of their true colors.
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  118. Its funny that marriage family and community is what gave humanity the ability to progress to the civilized society we now enjoy, and it will be the catalyst for its destruction. With the unholy alliance of government taking a mans lives work and assets and giving them to a women just because they lived together for a while is the end of marriage. Without the union of men and women there can be no society.
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  119. The beef noodles was nothing more than a test and she failed. Imagine the great life she could've had with a wealthy family background and a guy earning 300k a year and she threw it all away because of a bowl of noodles. Just shows that a woman can have 5 masters degrees an still be as dumb as a box of rocks.
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  120. Funny how women in the west are afraid of DNA testing and women in the east are afraid of GPA testing.
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  121. They cultivate all the qualities in themselves that they want in any potential partner but cultivate NONE of the qualities those very men look for in a partner. Then complain about the men as if those men forced them to make the choices they did, usually against strong argument from family and friends that knew better..
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  122. What I find to be the biggest difference between Chinese and western women is that deep down western women know that finding a tall handsome wealthy man is purely delusional on their part and are just enjoying the delusion. But Chinese women, especially those over 30 truly believe that one day this perfect fantasy man is going to appear in their lives.
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  123. They want to falsely make men think they are the worse off single when aging. That's simply bullshit, how many videos have we all seen lately of 30+ y/o women crying about how tired they are and they don't want to work anymore? Men very easily work into their 70's but women can't make it to 40 without being burnt out.
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  124. The government wants marriage and birth rates to rise. It cannot directly interfere with the bride price and other foolish outdated traditions but by allowing and promoting foreign women becoming wives to Chinese men it wins in the end. Its time for average Chinese women to settle for average Chinese men or see them lost to foreign women.
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  125. There's more than enough single men young and old that can afford cost of entry but refuse to live by 1970 standards for men when the women get to live in their 2025 world. That is what these women and this reporter refuse to admit. Yes there are a fair number of younger men that don't have a lot of money, but for every women wanting marriage there are men to go around they simply are not interested in the rude uncooperative overly entitled women available.
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  126. She won't even mention them because to her they are a given that all men must have.
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  127. Men have traditionally worked well into their 70's without issue, our bodies were built for it. Women on the other hand usually find themselves completely burnt out by 40. In most cases its the women that quit their jobs, if not right after marriage then after childbirth. There no way a society of older childless women are going to be able to work to proper retirement age.
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  128. She has a high income, thats fucking great cause she's gonna need it. Sure hope 10k is enough for 3 people. Even the most wimpy simpy guy with the kind of money she's talking about will never marry her.
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  129. Its funny how she says sperm degrades as men age, tell that to the 70+ year old men who routinely get their young wives pregnant that carry to term healthy children. Children born with autism and other birth defects has been scientifically proven to be caused by the viability or lack of it of the womens eggs.
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  130. Western men are increasingly being turned off to marriage due to the unfair and bias divorce laws, this leaves western women little choice but to look overseas. The problem with Chinese women is they aren't looking for a man, they are looking for an income a house a car a dowry. Whereas western women are seeking husbands, the men themselves.
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  131. What will be interesting is the female population explosion in counties that do not adopt the new policies.
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  132. They don't hope their "sisters" can advise them, all they want validation from other women in the same situation as them. A 40 year old non-virgin wanting 500k brideprice and all her other requirements can only be described as mental defective.
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  133. Men since antiquity have always been the ones to scrimp and sacrifice and set aside their own happiness to marry and build a family. But for millennia women were prepared to be of assistance to those men to make their lives easier. Now its all laid at the foot of the men and the women refuse to provide anything except there presence. Women and boats share the distinction of being holes to sink money, but a boat can at least take you fishing.
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  134. Its ironic how women want to live in a futuristic society for themselves but want men to follow ancient rules of courting like bride/prices and dowries.
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  135. You have to remember this isn't some big win for him. He lost his entire family as surely as if they were taken in a fire or car accident. She gets to start over with her new lover nothing lost. All he can do is maybe get back a small portion of his dignity, but even at that he has to listen to outsiders chide him for not supporting children that aren't even his.
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  136. Watching this a second time has brought an important thing to mind. Once women pass 30 and lose the ability to have children they are seen as leftovers and undesirables for marriage. But regardless of how old a man might get as long as he can earn enough money there will plenty of opportunities to marry, in fact older men with money are the most desired by younger women. Men can also still have kids well into their 70's unlike women.
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  137. Women DO NOT lose their intrinsic value as people when they age. They DO lose marriage and child producing value as they age past the point of having healthy children and a problem free pregnancy. The chances of birth defects is 10X greater for a woman of 35 than that of a 25 year old.
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  138. The second woman sounded so reasonable right up until she describes her standards that he must meet, and as always he's got to be rich have a house a car yada yada yada. Hot looking 20 year olds aren't getting proposed to by rich guys, what in the world makes a 36 y/o single mother think so highly of herself? There must be some brain eating amoeba in the water that only effects women.
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  139. All she's looking for is a way to defraud a man of the bride-price. Pretty telling how no matter what happens or who's at fault the bride-price is non refundable. The moron that marries her is going to be "peacefully separated" from his money very quickly.
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  140. Its smart to leave the overly attractive women where you find them. But he's running for all the wrong reasons. He's not going to find a plain jane down to earth girl, those few that there are get snapped up quickly and the rest get westernized (entitled). If he doesn't even have to courage to talk to them he's lost the game already.
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  141. How is it that for most women no matter how good they may be getting married is little more than a pipe dream let alone to a good man, but somehow horrible selfish hyena witches like her manage to secure 2 husbands? It makes no sense to me.
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  142. Wow talk about insane mental gymnastics. She compares Egyptian's using incest to keep their bloodline pure to wealthy men not getting married. Talk about fruitcake thinking.
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  143. If you think about it rationally, it's not that women and society want men to BE married, it simply wants them to GET married. That way the economy is fed with all those wasted billions of yuan and the women can simply divorce and force money from the men.
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  144.  @catfoodmillionaire7838  The problem with that is the common laws. Live with a woman long enough and the courts consider it the same as a marriage.
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  145. Lowering their standards is not the answer. That would only create more miserable couples and push the divorce rate even higher. Leave those standards in the sky and the men happily single. MGTOW meets CGTOW Chinamen Going Their Own Way.
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  146. I'm no Psychiatrist but I'm beginning to think this is some kind of shared psychosis across the entire female gender. Someone really needs to write a paper on this.
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  147. If a woman says she can only love a man over 6 foot tall good looking and wealthy its safe to say that woman is incapable of love.
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  148. Its no different than women in western nations, once past 30 if they haven't found that perfect build-a-bear boyfriend that they have in their imagination they will reject every man they meet for the pettiest of reasons. You can see them coming a mile away, they never smile and detest younger happier women.
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  149. 50 years ago even the poorest uneducated man could find a wife and create a family, working hard and providing the necessities. Now the poorest women with a high school diploma will only settle for a handsome educated wealthy man. You can not blame the men for this ridiculousness.
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  150. He has to have cars houses money be good looking and tall be able to cook AND put up with her flaws/bullshit. But she doesn't have high expectations?!?! It all depends on what your definition of high is I guess. Delusional doesn't begin to describe this one.
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  151. Look at it this way, if you're going to suffer the indignity of a midlife crisis would you rather do it alone and debt free or chained to a nagging wife with children setting you back every chance they get? Alone means blowing money on a flashy car or toy, married just means debt and misery. What would you choose?
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  152. What's great about her is 99.99999% of men will never even have to come into contact with her.
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