Comments by "lina nicolia" (@linanicolia1363) on "" video.

I wonder if he had an MRI to look for a brain tumor. We see such behavior with brain tumors, as it is part of the diagnosis. He was in mental agony and there is a reason for that.
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. He had anxiety attacks probably from the meds given to him and he could not sleep. No sleep can give people suicidal tendencies. This is basic. He had emotional issues not mental issues. I do not see a mentally ill kid. His IQ was likely high and he needed to be busy and doing sports, to wear him out. Also his diet should have been scrutinized. No sugar.
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There are ways to stop this. You hold them and rock with them.....tune into their frequency. You need that close physical contact to make them feel secure and forget about their pain as it is imaginary. The brain does not feel pain but the mind gets tortured yet it is not physical. Mental pain is real but since it is not physical, people have issues dealing with it. Drugs only numb them but what helps is the close physical contact with another person or a pet. His pain was a disconnect. His family did not get it.....they went about their mellow lives and their mellow voices, as they lived in a mellow world, not able to comprehend what was going on into his head.
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Where you live seems to make a difference. Some locations are better than others. It has to do with how much money the state can afford on such cases. Sometimes parents pay for it. Maybe yours did and you simply do not know. Lucky you !
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He was so low key when his son was screaming in some agony. It irritated me, immensely. He did not feel his son's pain but instead used some mellow words, meaningless when someone is in such pain. He missed it.....such a gentle and suave man could not comprehend the agony his son was in. How could he not ? it is so obvious ! there was a huge disconnect there. These parents should have given their son to the control of the state. He may be alive now. Was it a disgrace to them? a sign of personal failure ? not if it can save your kid....you do what ever it takes, you cannot do yourself. Your pride should go out the window so you may do what is best for your child, you could not afford to do yourselves.
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I disagree. His parents failed him. They should have turned over his care to the state as they could not afford the tests. They were too proud to do so, so they made the decision to take him out of that program that had been successful for the child. Their mistake and their guilt.
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They have to be turned over to the state if parents cannot afford the treatments. The problem is they may do experiments on these kids and that is the scary stuff. Maybe it would have saved him or maybe not.
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The government should not be responsible for the children. Their parents should. Such an intensive follow up and treatment is never cheap and parents should be able to manage to find the resources. He was their child. Their responsibility.
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You are wise and you did all the right things ! Stability is huge and understanding of the situation. Some kids who behave that way have neurological issues but many just need structure and stability. It is a fine line between connecting and making their anxieties, stronger. So glad your son is fine and it was also clever not to tell him exactly the dosage of what he was getting......the power of the placebo or nocebo as they call it.
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Agree. Most parents are oblivious. Have no clue what the kids do when in their rooms or with their friends.
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People who bring children into the world should be ready to care for them. These parents had four kids already. Maybe the father should have had a vasectomy. They lived comfortably but claimed they could not afford to pay for the needed " tests ". That would be debatable. What are the priorities ? They also claim they were unaware of the cost of these tests...I see some ambiguity there. They did not want to spend the money......is what I see. They had their lifestyle to maintain.The kid was unexpectedly a problem they had trouble dealing with.
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Excellent observation. He was misunderstood ? when these kids are observed, parents should also be going in for the eval. These parents seem totally low key and disconnected. These mellow voices could not comprehend the pain of their child. They cannot understand their detached voices trigger more pain in the kid who feels totally lost . There is physical contact needed. Hugs and rocking together, on the floor until the pain goes away.....did these parents do this ? I doubt. Touching is needed to dissipate the energy that is causing so much discomfort. The kid was screaming in anger and pain as he was getting nowhere. No one seemed to respond to his pain. Parents need training in these cases. The kid was hanging in the tree by his father's window. He sent him a last message.
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agree but not always. I expect he did have an MRI and surely he had an autopsy that would have showed a brain tumor ; unless the parents refused it. Since it was not a crime, the ME would have done what ever the parents were comfortable with.
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Possessed. Did they try an exorcist ? Did he have a brain tumor ? Interesting how parents are blaming the system because they could not afford to pay for the schooling of their child. Did they consider mortgaging their house or did they consider, letting go their hold over their child ? If the state was willing to pay, they should have let him go..... They failed him. Too low key father here, not understanding the pain his child is going through. They should have released him to the state. These parents simply annoy me.
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True.
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He was there but did he hug him ????? physical contact is extremely important. Hugs go a long way......no quick hugs but hanging on to each other, rocking....That is healing.
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The parents could afford to pay for the needed tests. They should have . Healthcare is not free in most places. In Canada, it is much better than in most places. They pay for a lot.
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He is safe now. No more pain and suffering.
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