Comments by "Serenity\x27s Solace" (@serenityssolace) on "Male inequality, explained by an expert | Richard Reeves" video.

@remirussin7240 The problem is feminism is grooming and conditioning women how to think. This takes away the ability of taking a decision based on informed consent. If your comment was true there wouldn't be so many women in their 40s that regret slaving away all their youth in a career environment just to be single and lonely for their rest of their lives
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@remirussin7240 What I don't like is the notion of re evaluating masculinity and manhood. That is the main force that drives men into depression. Cause they can't express it and act on it. It's something deeply ingrained in the biology of men and might take hundreds if not thousands of years to change. And secondly toxic masculinity cases shouldn't overshadow the beauty of masculinity and justify the crime of re evaluating masculinity. Masculine is needed. It is necessary for a society to be stable and to function. It needs to be encouraged. And that's part of the beauty of the patriarchy. Sure it has some bad aspects that should be discarded, but ultimately the patriarchy mustn't be abolished, it needs to be polished to perfection. Otherwise society will collapse because men will collapse
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@clairemercer3099 Will you feel the same once you turn 40? That is an important question you should deeply think with yourself
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@clairemercer3099 Well, I am happy for you
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''The patriarchy is a system of power in which men have the power... so no it shouldn't be polished because then women would continue to not have power??''------ Disagree here because if the patriarchy gets polished to perfection, then the women will have more power than they could ever have with feminism. Patriarchy shouldn't be the system where men abuse their power but use it for good. Patriarchy is Greek word coming from patris+archi which means father+rule. What it is supposed to be is a system where men love, provide, advise and protect the women with the same love a father has towards his daughter. It should be absolute benevolent love. Of course no system will ever be perfect and have no flaws. Even feminism brought in a reality where it empowered men to transition to women and then take every sport awards away from real women. Feminism creates a world were women live under the tyranny of men that identify as women. With patriarchy that would never happen out of true respect towards our women. ''The traits associated with masculinity aren't hardwired into the male brain, they are also largely social. If you'd like to look into that I would advise finding an anthropological metastudy on the subject.''------I don't know but this gives me woke pseudoscience vibes. I might check it out but I doubt I will be convinced. ''So many men's rights organizations or movements I've seen tend to focus on returning to traditional values and how much women suck rather than uplifting men and enabling them to succeed in the modern world''----- Maybe that's true, but maybe it's just a vocal minority that gives the impression of focusing on how much women ''suck''. I watched a documentary some months ago called The Red Pill and it didn't seem to advertise any hate towards women. On the rest I completely agree with you
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@FriendOfMara I don't have ig and I have never spent more than 1 hour in my entire life watching Jordan Peterson but I am glad he came to the same conclusion as me according to your description
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@FriendOfMara Agreed that it's a problem that needs to be addressed. The funny thing is I feel that feminism is actually just a tentacle of marxism with the hopes of destroying the pillars/foundations of western society and then install communism
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@evacookie2194 Try saying that with a straight and serious face to women that have been raped in the female restroom by men that identify and women and then instead of getting justice they are demonized and labeled bigots. Tell that to a woman who worked her entire life to achieve a goal like a golden medal in sports just for her to lose it to a "woman" that has more muscle mass than her. Feminism is the greatest threat to womanhood, it's goal is to erase women, to turn them into men and most people like you are still asleep and think the movement cares for your rights. Only TERFs seem to have realized this
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@killingmuffins God is this reply full of baseless assumptions. I said I will read the research but with critical thinking. Most research coming from woke/leftist institutions are known to be flawed and unreliable. ''You don't think coddling boys and the "boys will be boys" mentality, while treating girls like adults and setting unrealistically high expectations changes their behaviors? You think boys were born not wanting to do chores, clean up after themselves, and even maintain personal hygiene? What evolutionary purpose does it serve to be helpless and incapable?'' Did you even read my comments? That's not patriarchy, it's the opposite of patriarchy, it's the weak men feminism and modernity encourages. A true masculine man cares for himself, his hygiene, helps his wife with chores, gets things done. Men like that can only be cultivated in a true patriarchy and feminism makes sure this doesn't happen. Feminism needs men to be all the things you described. The boys will be boys mentality is toxic and has nothing to do with patriarchy and masculinity. It's the same as I said previously. A real father raises his son to be a honorable productive member of society and would be highly critical of not disciplining a boy for doing something morally wrong. Feminism on the other hand encourages it. Both Genders need to be treated like adults after a certain point. Stop spouting lies about having high expectations for women but not for men. In patriarchy the man is the first that will enforce high standards to the boys ''Children's brains are very plastic and impressionable'' Yeah, so let's brainwash and groom them in our progressive ways as long as their young right?
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@FriendOfMara You are so wrong. Women and Men were made to complement each other. Women need Fathers and Men need Mothers. You can see the absence of that with the increasing number of women and men with mommy/daddy issues. When the establishment uses systemic racism against women to satisfy the trans community then there's an enormous threat. "Removing women's ability to describe themselves in a group is the ultimate act of male oppression and you support it. (Referring to what is a woman hysteria caused by the radical left). Again, I can dub something I was funded by woke corporations to work on meta analysis too. All for that ESG score. And yes, women should be ruled (although I prefer the word guided) lovingly by men and if that's misogynistic then I am a proud misogynist. And Men should also be lovingly guided by Women on things they lack complementing them. Obviously I wouldn't see what those organization do as hate against women cause there's no hate. Only radical leftists and feminists see everything as misogyny
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