Comments by "Ellie" (@ellie698) on "Triggernometry" channel.

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  31. 32:03 thank you for your question here and the benefit of your experience. Many so called "wanted" children aren't cared for and nurtured, loved and supported the way a child should be. Many of the children Francis is talking about would have been spared a desperately unhappy life if the pregnancy that resulted in their birth could have been prevented or ended. The doctor here, well meaning though he is, is being so naive and panglossian here. More emphasis should be placed on contraception to prevent as many pregnancies as possible, ensuring that only people who really genuinely wanted a child and were psychologically and emotionally willing and capable of giving that child a supportive, loving upbringing that could help them thrive would actively choose to have a child. Many children just "happen", people feel they want a child for all kinds of selfish reasons that have nothing to do with ensuring a happy, well adjusted member of society is raised. The number of unwanted kids is heartbreaking. Why on earth would a society want to add to that because some idealistic doctor is a little bit squeamish doing his job? If he doesn't want to get involved with terminations there are many other health care roles he could take on. Let others do this job that he personally finds distasteful. What is more distasteful is forcing a woman to have a child she doesn't want. In the REAL world, that Francis actually has experience of first hand, children in that situation have awful lives. In the doctor's naive and immature mindset, he seems to love in some kind of perfect world of he believes that unwanted children are all wanted *somewhere*. Meanwhile, in the real world, most of these children will always have the knowledge that they weren't planned, they weren't wanted and should never have been conceived and allowed to be born. This doctor needs to stop trying to interfere in an incredibly complex situation that his rose tinted glasses are shielding him from. I always made sure i took every care not to get pregnant but if i had i would have had the earliest termination i could possibly get. Having a child would have been a disaster for me, but more importantly it would have been a terrible disaster for that poor child. There's no way i would have inflicted life, and all the suffering and emotional pain that an unhappy life brings onto them. If a family want a child do everything to support them (as a society we don't help parents be great parents) but if someone is adamant they don't feel able to look after a child, please don't inflict an uncertain, uncaring, unhappy life on them. That is far more inhumane to me. Prevention is always better than cure, whatever the situation. Give kids the very best start on life. And a planned and dearly looked forward to child has the best chance of that.
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  51. I've worked for do-gooder charities with youths in prison. These kids go through the motions to say they've attended the sessions but that's all it is. Dogooding doesn't work, they the government throws hundreds of thousands of pounds at charities who talk a good game and write great proposals with flowery language. That achieve exactly fuck all. Absolute waste of tax payers' money. But the do-gooders and the government can sleep at night thinking they've done a good job. When am they've done is a box ticking exercise and achieved nothing in reality. These kids need the wake-up call that only guys that have walked the walk can give them. Mealy mouthed support never achieved anything. Kids just laugh at it. They live in the real world. The help programmes need to live in the real world of bad language and harsh reality too. Totally agree. This guy isn't a nice guy, I don't like him personally but if his methods achieve results, if stop and search achieves results those are the methods that need to be used. Otherwise, fuck all changes. Simple as that I tell you what, the programme he's putting together in money terms is a drop in the ocean compared to the money that's wasted on well meaning charities in the sector. I've been one of those do-gooders and I got so disillusioned by what I saw, the way the charities wrote their tenders compared to the actual results they got ie. zero A total waste of money from what I saw. It was depressing and soul destroying to be part of. I couldn't be part of it. It was a charade and individuals built lucrative careers on it. The cynic in me thinks they knew it was all pointless but just didn't care.
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  97. 21:50 It's radical feminists amongst others who ARE the adults in the room having the real conversations now. We're the people, branded TERFs supposed "trans exclusionary radical feminists" or as I prefer "Tired of Explaining Reality to Fuckwits" who believe in the sexual dimorphism of our species, only two sexes and you can't change between them. It's impossible to "change sex", every cell in our body (apart from red blood cells) have our DNA in them. So called radfems are forever lumped (by the woke) in with extreme right wingers now. Even though we, like Peterson are more left than right, the left being completely taken over by Marxist ideology. To find radical feminism responsible for what's going wrong is not only utterly wrong headed, it's insulting to the many ORDINARY women like myself, who have never considered ourselves in any way radical but are now classed as radical because we believe in reality, objective truth and facts, instilling resilience and taking personal responsibility. To say oh, it's all caused by feminism, and particularly radical feminism is utterly misunderstanding where we are at. Watch James Lindsay's channel, New Discourses, on YouTube to find where all the victim ideology, identity ideology etc is coming from. Grannon doesn't seem to be aware of this. He has his own hobby horses. Grannon is incredibly behind the times here and as ever is stating personal opinion and conjecture as historical fact. I used to watch a lot of his content until I started to realise that he was using his channel as personal therapy, but not actually learning from anything he was saying or doing. Because he speaks with confidence, he always appears to have a grasp on "the truth". I admit when watching content about narcissists quite some ago, I was taken in by the persona. Then after a while of watching him you realise he's just as clueless as the people he's supposedly teaching. There are far more self aware and knowledgeable YouTubers on the topic. See HG Tudor for a very clear, dispassionate rundown of the narc mindset for instance. He's done a LOT of videos about Harry and Megan lately but go back through the catalogue and you'll find some very good information from a fully diagnosed narc. As you hear Grannon talking about making the same mistakes over and over in his personal life and realising he's actually full of shit, you see that he's just making it all up as the goes along, pretty much convincing himself that he must know what he's talking about because he has all these followers. I never watch him any more, because if you watch him for any length of time you will see this pattern. When he actually starts talking from a more humble, more honest "yes I always sound like I have all the answers but I actually really don't, I'm still learning", I might start listening to him again. I've noticed that men tend to like blindly following other men who appear to have their shit together, without stopping to assess if they actually *do". That's why the Grannons of this world keep being successful even though they're just continually winging it! The guy's a conman, and he starts by continually conning himself into thinking he has something of value to say SMH I've followed his progress for a few years now. It took a while but I did realise after a while that he was full of shit 🤦‍♀️
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