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  17. If the love isn't mutually strong it can't last no matter how hard one or both try. It doesn't matter how much effort one person makes if the other person isn't able to, or isn't prepared to, meet you half way. You can't break yourself trying to do the emotional work for two. That's not to say you can't support someone, of course you can, and you should. And a person who is truly in love would and does, even when it's hard. Real, deep love gives you the energy to be there with and for someone. This is my experience anyway. And the right one, if real love gives him/her the energy too, will be able to be there for you in turn. Relationships are a team sport. A team of two. Maturity and a certain amount of healing brings you to the point that you can step up. And together from there, you learn, you grow, you make mistakes and forgive yourself and them, then grow together. And you never stop growing and learning. It's a truly beautiful thing when it happens but it's so rare!! I wish I'd found it. I found someone i loved, so much, and I've only ever felt that way about two people. I admired, respected, was inspired by them, every moment with them was precious. But for various reasons, it wasn't returned in kind. I'm still good friends with one of them 20 years later even though he now lives in Canada. True mutual love is precious, rare and to be treasured when you do, if you do (i don't believe everyone does, there's an element of luck involved to find the person you fit with), but if you do find it, TRUE love, not love from the ego but true love. I believe it to be unbreakable. That's my experience of the feelings I experienced anyway. To FEEL that love is a privilege... for both mutually to feel it for each other... OMG it must be incredible! Not sure it will happen to me but hey, never say never, you don't know what fate night have in store for you do you ♥️
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