Comments by "Ellie" (@ellie698) on "The #1 REASON You're Single u0026 Can't FIND LOVE... | Robert Greene u0026 Lewis Howes" video.

23:15 it's just about feeling that you actually matter to someone, that they value you. And if you genuinely value someone surely is natural to let them know that. It's not about grand gestures or expensive gifts. It's just the look in your eyes, the spark of ideas off each other as you engage in conversation. It's about connection. If there's no connection any more, there's no relationship is there. You can't have a relationship on auto pilot
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I only find someone attractive once I've seen what they're like as a person from talking to them. Once I am attracted to them as a person I start to see them as attractive. They might have been physically attractive all along but I would never have even noticed until I realised how much I admire their character, their attitude, their ethos. Then i actually start seeing them for the first time. They transform in front of my eyes. It's only ever happened twice and it's a magical, unforgettable experience ♥️ I'm certainly not ever sexually attracted to someone until I feel love for them!
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@shaimaadoma that's the new term for it i believe I just call it being normal, before certain members of society started trying to convince everyone else that being hypsersexualised was normal 🙄
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@RacksonRacksonRibss You're right, nobody's perfect. That's why we all have tendencies to fall into bad habits and forget what matters to us. We all need to just take time out throughout the day to recognise the good things we have and let people know we love and value them. Like all the best things.... it's really easy but really difficult at the same time 🤦🏻‍♀️ We're very easily distracted by all the stuff that's demanding our attention. I'm not perfect, I forget too. It's like that old saying, we don't know what we've got until it's gone. So to keep it, make a point of noticing it while it's happening and show love and gratitude for what and who you have on a daily basis. It doesn't have to be big gestures. Just a touch or a smile can make the difference to someone's day x
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44:06 I've been love bombed by people so many times, by men who want a relationship (however brief) and women who want a friendship. Love bombing is a major switch off red flag for me. Run away!!!
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