Comments by "Ellie" (@ellie698) on "Matt Walsh"
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18:15... common sense vs emotions.... Jane Austen were a book about that.
In fact, we could all learn a lot from courtship and marriage in Jane Austen's day. It wasn't ideal, Everything the woman owned became her husband's on they're marriage. She ceased to be, legally. So the marriage bit was terrible.
However, the courting part was very rule bound and CLEAR because of it. Was it ideal? No, there were still men and women that were only it for money or status, or whatever. We ever marriage happy. No, far from it, people still married for all the wrong reasons, especially as they married so young and HAD to be married in order to have sex, so they often married in immature haste without the wisdom that she's with age.
But.... the rules of the courtship process.... you knew where you stood
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23:40
I don't understand how a props specialist, employed for their expertise in something why then puts that prop ino an actor's hand, who rightly and naturally assumes it's safe, because his job is to act*, not to know how the props work, is TOLD by the director to shoot the gun, then somehow *he's guilty?????
I literally don't understand how Alex Baldwin is in any way culpable for what happened.
That's like giving him a faulty vehicle and blaming him while, when driving it completely normally, because of an inherent fault in the way the vehicle has been prepared prior to use, it malfunctions and ends up damaging someone or something.
What if, Alec himself had been injured or killed instead of the person who was?
would we just say oh case closed, he committed suicide.
It's bizarre. Why was he charged with any crime??
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@darklordsauron3415
That's not true in my experience.
Having been around many men in my long life, both as partners, friends, partners of friends, family members, work colleagues etc.
I have seen how many men operate. Their are several different approaches.
There are those who act without thinking through the consequences of their actions it decisions then wonder why things don't work.
There are those who unable to make a decision so prevaricate and ruminate rather than be able to work through options and make a decision.
There are those who think they know more than they do and don't feel that they need to learn from others and their ego went let them accept that their decision making isn't the best.
I've seen and worked with many men like this.
The ones that I admire are the ones who take time to take stock of a situation, do their research, objectively weigh up potential and consequences then act having arrived at a workable, pragmatic and effective solution.
This saves time and effort in the long run while the other strategies I've mentioned result in wasted time and resources.
When it comes to emergency situations where action needs to be taken immediately I've been surrounded by men who either fall to pieces or deny that anything needs to be done, favouring a watch and wait approach. I needed to step in and get someone emergency medical care whilst the men around me were like headless chickens.
I had to take control of the situation.
One of my previous job roles involved me working as a troubleshooter helping teams of engineers who had been unable to achieve anything because of the different decision making styles meaning that everyone pulled in different directions.
I helped teams work out how to work together, have productive discussions and reach decisions, making their team more effective moving forward. It took my outside objective perspective of where their points of contention were and helping them to see how to talk their issues through in a neutral space that helped them when they went back into their work environment. The teams began to function AS a team to get things done, not a number of headstrong individuals who didn't.
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