Comments by "Ellie" (@ellie698) on "How To (And Not To) Date To Get Married" video.
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18:15... common sense vs emotions.... Jane Austen were a book about that.
In fact, we could all learn a lot from courtship and marriage in Jane Austen's day. It wasn't ideal, Everything the woman owned became her husband's on they're marriage. She ceased to be, legally. So the marriage bit was terrible.
However, the courting part was very rule bound and CLEAR because of it. Was it ideal? No, there were still men and women that were only it for money or status, or whatever. We ever marriage happy. No, far from it, people still married for all the wrong reasons, especially as they married so young and HAD to be married in order to have sex, so they often married in immature haste without the wisdom that she's with age.
But.... the rules of the courtship process.... you knew where you stood
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