Comments by "Portia" (@Portia620) on "Psychology with Dr. Ana" channel.

  1. Rule number one don’t move in with anyone
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  2. Agreed and some are very hard to detect!! stay awake and keep vetting somebody for the signs of abuse because they can be insidious and slow to show up in a relationship
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  3. They turn it on and off!!
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  4. Too many scared to be real!!! Too weak! My thoughts! I do see it’s a ton to lose also but life is a gamble!
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  5.  @hazel.p5 or they can be heartless cruel and finish us off. Years of hell and I’m really tired
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  6. A big g will get this to stay away!
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  7. Agreed!
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  8. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤YES!!!!
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  9. Great and now I’m worried 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️. Met some guy and concerned! I’m going to back off and see how he reacts. It’s early so before we get involved it’s best! I don’t sleep with them thank God!
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  10. Thank you God!! Someone has said it!! ❤
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  11. You can’t live in hell and be an angle bc as time goes by you become toxic like others. Sad truths if you don’t get out soon enough! I have seen this in abusive and narcissistic relationships
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  12. So then people that have been through narcissistic abuse can’t date because they say we tend to end up dating the same people and how do we know we’re healed and we’re not gonna track the same people seems like a losing battle if you’ve ever been traumatized, you might as well just not at all
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  13. I don’t sleep with my friends!!! 😂. Like now I want a refund!
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  14. Agreed but my caution is with a dark perosnitlu type like an NPD we can’t see them coming and years later wake up married to someone we didn’t know. Not sure it’s safe to tell people certain things in the beginning
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  15. Oh Lord I’m starting to be super paranoid after dating now!
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  16. We know that the people of countries are not always happy with their government … US citizen and our govt is ignroant too! 🥂🙏. Sending love and light
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  17. 😂😂
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  18. No contact! Yea
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  19. That’s not love!!! People can work thru most things as long as no cheating and core values are there!
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  20. Define early too!!!! That is important.
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  21. Rule number one don’t move in with anyone
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  22. If you’re raising the environment like that that’s not your fault but it is your fault if people start showing you and helping you out but if nobody shows you and no one tells you then how are you supposed to correct something and it’s same in a loving relationship. If somebody doesn’t tell you and you don’t work on it together I’m not saying it’s that person‘s fault to get you to stop drinking, but it’s their fault if they ignore it and know that you know you’re harming yourself or whatever the issue is it needs to be pointed out to the person!!!
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  23. What if someone died like family member?? We know loss is real and finite!!! I want to talk to my kdis and family daily!
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  24. Had no idea what this was but sounds like my marriage! I did this in dating situations and now I see it I’m done!
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  25. How beautiful of a story. ❤ gives me faith when I have lost most of it.
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  26. You give changes then you leave! I’m dating so easy to do that!
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  27. Confidence and humor is hot hot hot! Thats my biggest!!! Insecurity is a turn off!
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  28. People snap and we all have a point.
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  29. I wouldn’t say this is always true with immature people can this be true with triggers for people that have complex post traumatic stress or PTSD?
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  30. During trauma, it seems like we go to the small brain to function and we don’t use the higher orders of that brain wouldn’t you say that’s the default? if so, will this book help us cure trauma?
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  31. Buy a g and file a report and get a dog and Camaras!
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  32. I know someone that had a long distance relationship relationship and their married now.
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  33. Your channel rocks!!! ❤❤❤ I use the haters bs as fuel!
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  34. Let’s define punishment!!!!
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  35. 🙏😢. This world is a mess and I pray this resovles soon.
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  36. Agreed anxiously attachment of Clingy or if they are obsessed
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  37. I need that dang book!!!! Yes and thanks love your content!
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  38. Now being too honest and telling someone these up front could be used against us by a very toxic dark personality type like NPD or dark triage of personalities
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  39. Strange comments! Wow
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  40. People’s tru to trick people 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️😂😂
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  41. What if you have complex PTSD because you abuse so bad and you listen, but you might forget parts of the conversation. I noticed people that I did get really mad about that.???
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  42. How do we vet them out before!? Ugh!!! Dating in older age is scary!😱 🥺
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  43. Codependency was used for drug abuse and it’s a bad word and I don’t read books on it !!!
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  44.  @originalmix2546 aMEN!!!
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  45. Truths and we can’t prevent it!
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  46. Cheating is never excused even if you are abused! I was abused!
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  47. Mine did too. Its horrible
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  48. Simple life is not popular but so peaceful. Smart!
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  49. ❤ agreed! Know your value!
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  50. 😂😂.
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  51.  @Dimitris_Half ugh!!! Do we really need to listen!!!!!???? What if we don’t like the answers
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  52. What if somebody put you on a pedestal and you were pining over somebody else? Would that go away? Is this people that want to be with somebody? I’m confused?? it seems like it’s an obsessive compulsive disorder. These people that are so obsessed with people they stalk them?? Yikes! 😱
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  53. I wonder if anxiously attached people do this?? I thought I was anxiously attached, but I don’t think so anymore and now I know I don’t have OCD
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  54.  @XxNekoMoonxX everyone should have a limit!
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  55. My ex stalked me on the computer!!!! Ugh!
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  56. 😂🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
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  57. Forever, long-distance relationship is a no!!! 😂
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  58. Now we are talking!!! Mr. Sensitive!!! 😂
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