Comments by "Ton Bong" (@tongobong1) on "Why Men Get So Few Matches on Dating Apps" video.

@thereallegend4lyfe yes the typical gender ratio in clubs is 2 male per 1 female. The key is to dare to approach and you shouldn't approach the most beautiful like most other men. You should approach average women in clubs because hardly anyone approaches them despite the ratio. All men in the clubs have eyes for women in the top 10%.
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Great explanation of how every unbalanced market works and not just online dating market. In unbalanced market there are kings on one side and beggars on the other.
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@neildalessandro8196 but the word market is perfect description of dating. It is just a term that describes the particular behavior of people.
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The attractiveness for women is actually highly subjective. Imagine you standing alone or with other guys in the club or the same you standing with a beauty in the same club. Women find guys surrounded with other women far more attractive then guys without women. One way to fish for women in clubs is to have a good friend or relative woman helping you meeting other women.
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@harsh3948 OMG so true. 20 years ago I put my picture on mirc - an old chat program that we were using to meet people online back then. I remember that women were not interested in me so I replaced it with a picture of a random guy that had a cute girl next to him and women were far more interested in that guy. I wondered why is he so much more attractive than me. Finally I got the answer after 20 years. LOL!
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@neildalessandro8196 you are an idealist. In reality you can fall in love only if you meet a good looking woman and you can marry her only if you are her top option. Imagine you are the only guy in the world and billions of women. You could have any woman you wanted. Now imagine there is only one beauty in the world. In that case you will stay single because she will choose someone better.
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@notanotherone5564 are you a man or a woman?
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@teemun3979 All normal women so majority of women find masculine men attractive and soft men unattractive.
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@dipyaman93 The other example is when there is only one beauty and billions of men.
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@dipyaman93 not every market is capital market.
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@thereallegend4lyfe In clubs it is actually quite different dynamics and men have more chances than online.
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@JohnSmith-mc2zz apps can't do a better job when ratio is so bad. Developers try to make them better and they just cannot. The only way to improve it is to make ratio more 1:1.
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@petelee2477 I hate dancing and I want to lose some weight so I shouldn't drink beer. I think the best approach is to just be like a tank plowing through a club going after every woman you find attractive trying to move her somewhere where you can hug and kiss her. There are two facts that help. 1.Women are attracted to high status males - so be slightly arrogant thinking you are a high status male when you approach her. 2.the supply of women is endless in a large town so no matter what happens there is another pretty woman around the corner for you to approach. In case you need to calm down your nerves from bad experience in clubs you can use quick meditation by closing the eyes and counting breaths thinking nothing. This is much better than using alcohol.
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