Comments by "Ton Bong" (@tongobong1) on "Alexander Grace" channel.

  1. Also all those that used dating apps in the past have inflated ego even if they are totally unattractive. This is why it is so hard to get even below average looking woman.
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  2. In my country even 70 year old women have way more chances online than men at prime age.
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  3.  @sarahkingsley99  In 2014 I approached women during the day 360 times. Got 9 phone numbers - all real. 0 dates. Now I am 45 years old and never had a girlfriend in my life.
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  4.  @evanhuizenga8626  I tried in normal life. After 360 approaches I got 9 phone numbers. They were all real numbers but they all rejected to meet me on a date so I got zero dates from 9 phone numbers. I did this when I was 36 years old. Now I am 45 and I never had a girlfriend in my life. Getting her is mission impossible for me and also for many of my friends that are similar age as me.
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  5.  @smileydog5941  Being depressed alone is not enough. You need to be around women when you are depressed and then you will spark interest in them.
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  6. @deez3063 you are like me at 30. Got few dates that led to nowhere. You should find a way to get a girlfriend fast or soon you will be 45 and without a woman and children.
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  7.  @TheGreatSalsaMan  they will go for the top 5%. 95% of men struggle.
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  8.  @TheGreatSalsaMan  It depends where you live. Some places are a bit better for men because gender ratio of active users is closer to 1:1 than in most places where is probably 1:4 on average. I know 5 women over 40 year old that are forever single because they couldn't get the top 1% guy. Despite they are miserable they still don't want to lower their expectations. It is crazy.
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  9.  @reubenandthecruisers  they never worked well for men.
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  10.  @easternrebel1061  harassment is trying to seduce a woman after she tells you she is not interested.
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  11. Don't be silly with that women need to relax before they can get have x. Quite contrary they need to be excited and excited person is not relaxed.
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  12.  @StofStuiver  OMG! I guess it is better to have no children in these crazy times.
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  13.  @urtgoufhgho  I was always single and now I am 45. It is crazy how hard it is to get a girl.
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  14.  @OnyxCyanide  my home city is very feminist. Many women here behave like men. I tried in Vienna - Austria where women are much more traditional but it is still hard because I don't speak German and they don't like foreigners there.
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  15. You should know that harassments starts only after she says no.
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  16. So this is why Dutch women are searching for men outside Netherlands? LOL! Greetings from Slovenia where I "met" many beautiful Dutch women.
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  17. You should know that women dislike smiling men.
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  18. I actually tested it before even know it. Once I was dancing with an average woman that has a beautiful friend and I totally ignored the beauty. She started to cry. It is that powerful.
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  19. Exactly! I always felt weird when I was smiling so I am sure that it is not normal for men to smile.
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  20. I am 45 and forever single. I smiled till 30 and then I stopped smiling but still there is just no single women that I could get.
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  21.  @StofStuiver  Maybe it is finally the time to explain your daughters that they were brainwashed by "liberal" media and introduce them to men that might be good husbands - serious men and not smiling nice guys.
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  22. Women should smile. Men should never smile when trying to attract women.
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  23. It is interesting that very sad looking man is also very attractive to women by my personal experience.
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  24.  @mattjack3983  I did the 360 approaches 8 years ago when I was 36 year old and back then dating apps were quite well spread. The main reason why I failed I think is that I didn't show enough feelings for them before taking the phone numbers. I think I should at least hug a woman before I ask for her phone number.
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  25.  @OnyxCyanide  It seems Youtube is censoring the comments based on words and word combinations. You shouldn't use curse words or bad words in your replies. I also had trouble with Youtube censorship and I think they went too far with that and sometimes it is really annoying. Thank you for your support. I keep on trying despite my self esteem is close to zero. I am going out to clubs 2 times per week. In the last few months I went 20 times to clubs and I didn't meet a single girl because I find it really hard to approach with my low self esteem. Somehow I should raise it but don't know how.
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  26.  @tmcclone  I lost my virginity when I was 25 with a girl for $$$. Since then I visited about 20 such girls and many were very beautiful. You should visit a girl like that.
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  27. The rule of demand and supply...
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  28.  @Cloudo4  The distribution of women/men on tinder is roughly 30/70 so no wonder women can be super picky while men cannot. If the distribution was 70/30 then men would be much more picky than women. As I said it is all about the demand and supply.
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  29.  @ukeancraite4405  women are less picky if they have less options - the demand and supply.
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  30.  @debraglows  You don't understand. Women love men they can't keep so when he walks away she wants him back so she starts to behave like a real woman that submits to a man. Finally they can be couple because they have proper gender roles. It is like dancing where man must lead a woman and woman follows him.
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  31. Well I started the conversation with 360 women and got 9 phone numbers and zero dates. LOL!
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  32.  @benbenben123ben  but lil Putler is also a very short guy and Russian women are crazy about him. At least this is his narrative LOL!
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  33.  @falopa08  I was surprised that there are some places in Europe where women approached me in disco clubs. Unfortunately this never happened in my home city.
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  34.  @kevin3818  I just lost 18 kg so I can say that some women like me more now but some liked me more when I was looking like a strong guy.
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