Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "Dr. Todd Grande" channel.

It's better to just stay away from these people or don't even argue. Just say the truth once, and walk away. They ignore reality, and as a result, they make themselves more unhappy. If you let them pull you in to their unhappy and argumentative world, you'll be unhappy also. A person can ignore reality, but they cannot ignore the consequences of ignoring reality.
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It happens. My wife's mother passed down many of her traumas and insecurities to all of her kids. The kids didn't get it quite as bad, and with effort, the kids can conquer the trauma. They just have to want to do it. The mother can even get better if she put in the effort.
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@camerongeorge456 Its pretty amazing to hear that you've broken free of the pattern and now understand how to be happy. I'm happy for you. It takes lots of strength and humility to get to where you are now.
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@camerongeorge456 It makes complete sense. I'm glad you've been able to get some clarity on it. It's a huge step though. Most people don't even want to admit they have an issue, let alone get help and look for answers.
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@camerongeorge456 lol I can imagine lol. You really did the work though to figure it out. Bringing information to the doctor is a great idea that I may just use for myself lol. I agree that people tend to be afraid of feeling emotional pain and avoid their issues, but I never thought about people using their issues to define themselves. That's really interesting. Also, I just read a general description of it, and cptsd sounds a lot like my wife's issues. She startles very easily also.
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@camerongeorge456 Thanks. Good talking to you. I feel more informed. I hope you continue to conquer any personal issues you've got like you have been doing. I know you will.
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