Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "The Diary Of A CEO" channel.

Yeah, he is definitely a beginner at this stuff and has no clue what he is talking about. Goes to show that in this world, you can literally be absolutely wrong, pretend to know what your talking about and even write a book with misleading and toxic information in it, and if you are good at merely SOUNDING like you know what you're talking about, people will still buy into it and you can make lots of money. It's kind of sad. Granted, Orion is amazing at business and making money. He is truly a pro at that, but when it comes to relationships, he is barely a beginner, and he will stay that way if he isn't open to learning.
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There is more wisdom in this comment than in this entire conversation.
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That's a fact. It's nice to see someone else recognizes this, despite how intelligent he sounds.
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 @marieaude3685 You are the one looking at things objectively. When people say things like that, it's often a projection of their deep down feelings of themselves.
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Dating is not a job. The doc wants to see it that way because he is good at getting jobs and making money. So he figures that if he transfers those skills over, he is an instant dating professional. The truth is that having a partner is supposed to be a plus. Its supposed to be fun and not feel like work. Notice the doc never focuses on actually ENJOYING yourself in a relationship. This is because he has no clue what he is talking about. He tries to skip all the time it takes to understand attraction by comparing it to something he is aready good at. Thats lazy and haughty and a bad way to go and he misleads people because of it.
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 @keithcommins No, just the ones that speak on it without understanding how attraction actually works. Granted, I wouldn't call him an incel. Just a misguided person.
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@keithcommins The correct and healthy way to attract and vet each other 200 years ago hasn't changed. That's a fact, man. To say otherwise is to make excuses and blame something outside of yourself, which is weak, and that is unnattractive. And yeah, his "What you did to keep them" quote is reminiscent of his mindset. Meaning that isn't the only thing he says that is literally the opposite of wisdom. If that's wrong, then everything based on that is wrong, too. On his channel, he has told women to give up sex faster, which leads to misery for them. This contradicts him, saying that a woman who has had fewer sexual partners is more valuable. He wouldn't give this advice to have sex faster to his daughter if he had one. He has said that the more you do introspection, the closer to narcissism you are. That's a huge lie because people only step into narcissism when they do NO INTROSPECTION AT ALL. When they constantly avoid themselves and discomforts. He said himself that he used to be avoidant, which explains a lot of his views. He is clearly still avoidant. Yes, being in shape is good advice, but behavior has a larger effect. Lots of in shape dudes have talked women out of liking them. Having charisma is good advice, too, but that's vague and generic advice. Lots of people with charisma also talk women out of liking them, and they don't know what happened. Now, focusing on one's purpose is excellent advice, and he gets that part right. As far as what you're asking about competition. He often just mentions that people are competing. Like at 1:52:5 in this particular interview. You might think this is nothing, but he mentions it in a small way often, and even SAYING it means he has an insecurity of other people outclassing him. It's the MINDSET that makes this unnattractive. The other people that actually outclass him in some way have no bearing on his personal attraction. You say I'm pearl clutching, but you don't deny that statement. And yeah, lies are dangerous. They lead to hopelessness, which leads to a lack of enthusiasm for life, which leads to the lack of a will to live for many. Minimizing this fact doesn't make it less true. Also, I absolutely hate politics. I would never align myself with any of it due to the fact that literally all politicians lie and have to give up their integrity at some point in order to keep their job as a politician. And yeah, I have thought about making a channel. I don't know more than everyone, obviously, but I'll probably make one eventually just because I enjoy these topics.
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It's hard for many to notice because of the eloquent way he speaks. Also, he actually validates many people because they have similar issues and similar toxic beliefs to him. Not only that, but lots of his audience validates him right back, so it's a cycle of believing and teaching false and toxic beliefs. And if they're looking for validation for their beliefs, they usually are not open to hearing the truth.
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@Vindicador01 Resist porn and practice your social skills by talking to people and asking questions and being interested in them in your everyday life. You'll be surprised about how much you learn in general, develop yourself, and how easy it is to find a partner if you do all those things.
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@keithcommins Sure, but don't come at it with a cynical attitude because that's why the doc can't pick it up. So the thing women find most attractive is confidence. Confidence comes from the willingness to be vulnerable. Being vulnerable means to be YOURSELF without feeling like you have to cover something up. Men that employ a bunch of strategies and are focused on only sex cannot be themselves, which makes them unnattractive and stops them from just having fun. And having fun is attractive. Women like when men have boundaries. So you having your own high standards makes you attractive. This means reasons that will make you walk away, like disrespect or being used superficially in some way. In other words, self-respect. Women are attracted mainly to your behavior as a man. This creates raw attraction. Body and looks help, but your behavior wins out with women. THIS is why women are not giving tons of likes over dating apps. They cannot FEEL your masculine behavior over pictures. Men that understand this don't complain, but instead, will just meet a woman in person and be ok with rejection. Also, a woman likes a man willing to take the lead, but while also keeping her interests in mind. Women also like to feel heard and understood and they like patient men with self-control that are not easily offended. This helps them to feel safe which raises their raw attraction to you. Men that understand this or are willing to learn this actually experience being with a woman who wants sex more than them. There are toxic women out there that make it hard. For example, ones that constantly compete with you for taking the lead, or one's that try to gaslight you into relinquishing self-respect. You just have to be a man who is willing to do proper introspection and face your fears and insecurities and conquer them directly in a healthy way in order to spot unhealthy women and become a more attractive man. Our success all starts within ourselves and how we decide to view things. Basically, be humble.
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I can help. So you say he gets women just fine, yet the doc never once talks about actually causing desire in a woman because he really doesn't understand women at all. Then you said that he doesn't find the inherent nature of women that great, and thats literally because he doesn't WANT to empathize with them because he doesn't understand their inherent nature at all to begin with. It's easier for him to think of them in a cold way so that he can keep using them for sex without feeling guilty. Not just that though, he likely has had experiences where he felt used and women were actually cold toward him, so I'm sure his views also come from the wrong lessons taken from his experiences. The man is definitely capable of empathy, though. I'm sure of that. He just speaks from his own insecurities, and he formed inaccurate beliefs based on them instead of just addressing them.
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GOOD men offer safety and intamacy. The empathy gap only grows with toxic individuals who don't know what they are doing. And men don't have to be someone with high status or whatever in order to attract a woman. That's a limiting belief by men who who are motivated by their fears and insecurities. It's not rooted in truth. The doc here constantly speaks from a place of fear, and that's why he is wrong at least 95 percent of the time.
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@xsophia22x You're right. Women don't need men. They really can be ok on their own. If they are with a man, it should be because they WANT to be, not because they need to be. And yeah, I can believe those studies because most men are toxic and bitter like the doc here. Most refuse to humble themselves and learn how to show up in a healthy way. You're job as a woman is to learn how to properly vet a man so you'll know how he will show up in his relationship. And to also exhibit the kind of kind behavior you'd like to see in your partner. Just following ONLY your heart will only get you so far. You have to look at the man objectively.
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@keithcommins Well one thing he said in this interview is, "what you did to get them is not what you do to keep them". Literally the opposite of that is true. Lots of men attract a woman by having fun with her and planning dates periodically. Tons of men out there grow complacent and stop doing this and often wonder why the woman doesn't want to have sex as much. He thinks dating has changed. And granted, there are different avenues to go like dating apps, but the things that women and men are attracted to remain the same and have never changed and never will. The things I said are rooted in behavior and being genuine and focuses on ourselves. And while he never explicitly speaks against these things, he never mentions them. He says things rooted in superficiality like status and money and top ten percent bs, when in reality, any man can attract a woman. He has many limiting beliefs rooted in fear around this subject. The main thing is that here and on his channel, he never talks about what creates raw attraction, because he doesn't know. Instead, he often focuses on trying to talk women into why they should be giving up sex more. This is common amongst men that don't understand women. Although, I hear him say something true every now and then, but it's dangerous because mixing truth in with misleading information makes the misleading information sound more believable. Not that I think he is doing that intentionally. Oh, and he focuses on competition a lot. This is a negative mindset because it will have you subconsciously over compensating in your behavior in order to be the best "competitor". Which makes us more unnattractive. That mindset is rooted in fear. Men that know what they are doing don't think about competition, and have no competition as a result.
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This is why men who make the effort and do the inner work on themselves tend to be more confident and therefore, more attractive and have no problem attracting the woman they truly want. They don't need a woman's validation. Sadly, you can see how the doc has a perspective that requires validation from a woman. This is because he thinks that doing introspection, which is required to do the work on oneself, is narcissistic. I've heard him say this on his channel. Its an excuse to avoid looking inward, which keeps him ignorant. The opposite is true, actually. NEVER doing introspection leans more toward narcissism. So the doc is just misleading everyone and teaching how to be miserable.
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You're going to have to stop trying to SHOW stuff and just BE. They either like you or they don't and you need to be ok with either outcome. Trying to show certain things comes off as approval seeking behavior, and having that mindset makes you feel like a little boy to them instead of a man. That's why you're getting that ick.
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He doesn't really need the muscle or the height. He needs to take the lead and be more assertive in life in general. Thats why you feel like the man. When the man isn't stepping up and being masculine, the woman naturally has to make up for it, which ruins the sexual polarity and turns both people off. Especially the woman. So all he has to do is make an effort to take the lead, but sadly, it sounds like that just isn't who he is and he will likely never put in the effort to make the change. It sounds like you've accepted this, which is good because it helps you not get angery and stressed out about it.
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I wouldn't even say it's outdated, because It's never even been in-dated. His way of thinking has always been toxic throughout history. Even hundreds and thousands of years ago. It's only insecure men who don't understand how attraction works that have ever had beliefs like this guy. It's basically the easy way out in their mind for haughty men who don't want to humble themselves enough to understand how things actually work. This way, they don't have to admit they are wrong or do some introspection and do the work to make a change within themselves.
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@M-iy4tf Women are attracted to confidence. The confidence that a man has to be his authentic self. They like when a man has boundaries and takes responsibility for himself. They like when a man has enough self-respect to walk away if his boundaries are crossed. They like when a man has the strength to show self-control so she can feel safe with him. They like when a man helps her to feel heard and understood. They like when a man is willing to take initiative and goes for what he wants, and is still ok if he doesn't get it. They like when a man allows them to be free to come to them at their own pace. They like when a man is light-hearted and doesn't force things. These are the things that create genuine attraction and desire in a woman. It's always been this way. Dudes like Orion are not ready to see things this way because they aren't willing to do the introspection and look at their own behavior. So, instead, they complain and come up with their own reality of how they wish things worked.
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@M-iy4tf He never actually speaks directly against these things, but he never mentions any of them, and he always says other things that are completely WRONG. In this interview, he said, "What you did to get her is not what you do to keep her." The literal opposite of that quote is true. He thinks women want the "top 10 percent of men." This is a limiting belief. If he understood how attraction works, he would know that all men have the ability to attract a woman. He focuses so much on transactions because he doesn't understand what causes genuine desire. Much of his channel is focused on trying to talk women into having sex, instead of looking into what causes genuine desire. It's like he is using his intelligence in order to compensate for his insecurities. It sounds smart, but it It doesn't work.
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Its not really evolutionary programming. If the step-parent was raised in an unloving home, that step-parent is likely to be just as selfish as the people that raised them because thats how that person was taught. And a selfish person is going to be a selfish BIOLOGICAL parent also, but likely an even more selfish step-parent, because they feel an even smaller sense of responsibility. Healthy people will always make good parents and step-parents. And the ones that humbly do the work on themselves can overcome the trauma and learn how to show up in a healthy way. This is all basic psychology. They unnecessarily name this "evolutionary psychology" and unnecessarily complicate the already understood facts about why and how these things happen.
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You're not boring. You're not noticing the lack of integrity red flags in the beginning. Thats why you're getting cheaters. And you turn them off by whatever complacent behavior you show as the relationship goes on. Healthy women would just break up with you, not cheat.
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Nah, it's just things you do to turn them off by either accidentally acting more feminine or like a little boy. She calls it a pet peeve because she doesn't fully understand the reason. For example, constantly asking the woman where she wants to go on a date, instead of just taking the lead and making one. She would consider that a pet peeve, because that turns her off, because you are putting her in the lead, which is making her the masculine one.
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Don't know about that original definition of "woke" he gave. He basically is saying it never changed. I remember being on the internet back in the day, and when I seen people use that word, it always referred to being awake to how literally all politicians are lobbied, or take bribes from companies in order to have laws swayed in a direction that benefits them, and how ultimately votes don't matter. Basically, being woke or awake meant being aware of how things truly work and how we live in an oligarchy and how, despite pretending to be divided, the politicians all share the same bosses and show their unity or division when their bosses, or lobbyists need them to. This means that giving up one's integrity is a requirement in order to be a politician. Then, suddenly, politicians, democrats and republicans alike along with their pundits started using the word with a different definition, which referred to culture instead. This served as a distraction from their usual underhanded actions, and that distraction obviously worked pretty well. Looks like he is caught up in that distraction.
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Keep in mind that the only good things about porn are temporary. Similar to drugs. It feels good in the moment, and it helps you be distracted from and avoid other problems that need to be addressed, but it's ultimately bad for the mind and body. You don't need porn to realize fantasies, and you don't need it to understand your body. So there is nothing truly good about it. Even a couple using it to spice things up is basically a mental way to go outside the marriage. It's unnecessary. There are other ways to raise the attraction of partners and throw in spice. And they didn't really say anything bad about nofap, except that you should ween yourself off of it, similar to drugs also.
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@shin-ishikiri-no Nah, you stop watching porn as a man, It gets easier to filter out those social media addicted ones because your mind is no longer clouded by the drug. And you're treating yourself better, which means your standards raise, which means you'll notice women's bad behavior easier and faster and it gets easer to find good ones.
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Nah, they just like the confidence. The women without self respect put up with toxicity because of that. If you are a healthy person with confidence, you'll be a million times more desirable than the toxic bad boys who don't really know what they're doing.
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Exactly. Its all literally made up by people who don't know any better and like to make excuses for their bad behavior. The true psychology of people has never changed. It's always been the same. Thats why they can never provide any proof of their assumptions. They make money and gain attention just from a bunch of empty talking, though.
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Wow. It's nice that someone actually remembers and actually knows this. I'm sure it was the people involved in the corruption who made sure the definition was changed to culture stuff as a distraction. This man is all caught up in that distraction and is propagating that distraction as a result.
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True. Someone who truly understands something can explain it in the simplest way so that anyone can understand. People that can only explain something in the most complicated way usually don't fully understand the subject they are trying to explain.
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