Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "Fight breaks out in The Citadel Outlets parking lot" video.

Goes to show that if someone is rude enough to not close their door when they know you're there, you really shouldn't insist on parking next to them because they are already treating you bad from the beginning. Better to just swallow your pride, humble yourself, and go find another spot. It's that pride that causes unnecessary problems like this and causes us to put ourselves in bad situations. So just let it go. You're stronger for letting it go.
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@revheavygandpinto Well it's definitely pure rudeness, but your way is actually enabling the behavior by engaging in the exact same behavior. You end up validating their use of force with your own, so now they are validated in believing they are just doing the same thing as everyone else and fights are normal. That's why walking away and finding a different spot sends a message of promoting peace and it shows how bullies will never even get a little bit of your time as long as you can help it. People like that have been having altercations and fights their whole life. You can show them a different way of behaving by not putting up with it by WALKING AWAY.
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@tamigreene2709 No, not victim blaming. I'm saying that in some cases like this one, you actually have the power to prevent yourself from becoming a victim by making a different choice.
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