Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "Do All Men Think The Same? (feat. NFL Player Kyle Long) | Spectrum" video.

He is actually right about that. Believe it or not, women who feel comfortable in their femininity are willing to let their man lead them in a healthy and loving way, because its natural for them. This does not make them less in any way, and their input, opinions, and voice still have immense value. Also, this doesn't mean that same woman wasn't independent before, so she isn't depending on him for happiness, but rather just wanting to feel feminine with him, as long as he is willing to take a healthy lead which is masculine. This, in turn creates sexual polarity, as long as it is done with deep respect.
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@angiep8708 Femininity is not only in deference to men, but it mixes very well with masculinity, beautifully in fact, and it was the topic of the comment that I responded to.
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@ladyofthehills5489 Interesting. Well, we can probably go on talking about this for a while lol. You're pretty cool and really smart. I appreciate the comments and the genuine conversation. Thanks for speaking with me.
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@ladyofthehills5489 I'm on board with what you're saying here. We can all exhibit both masculine and feminine qualities, but we all have only one that is more natural to us, and that is the one that we feel the most comfortable and happy in. We can't be happy if we are in the opposite of what is natural for us for too long. Now a man may not be in his masculine all the time, and a woman may not be in her feminine all the time, but masculinity does indeed naturally include leadership, and femininity does also include submissiveness.
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@susanli7149 Well, I don't entirely disagree. As a man, I can be humble enough to let someone else take the lead. That's super important to be able to do that. With fitness stuff, I have no clue what I am doing, so my wife leads and teaches me the workouts. Also, I've had a woman at my place of work lead a team and she did an excellent job. Now, when it comes to relations in a romantic relationship, there has to be one person who feels natural in their femininity, and one who feels natural in their masculinity. Romantic relationships are like this no matter what, otherwise it doesn't work in a healthy way. Two people trying to lead won't work, and two people trying to submit and hope the other person will lead doesn't work. There is no sexual polarity in those cases. For example, my wife might lead in certain interactions with things she accels in, but overall, I generally take the lead. If I grow complacent, and start relying on her to make all the decisions and to always take the lead, she can completely do it, but she won't be happy about it, because it would force her into her masculine, which is not natural for her.
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@artaquino6388 Not at all. We were talking about femininity and masculinity and how we feel about it.
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@andrescaiced4695 Well, I wouldn't consider it an argument. It's more like we are just sharing our views on the subject. Also, I believe that they do understand what I'm saying, even if they might not agree.
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