Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "The most effective marriage intervention: get out of the house" video.

  1. You do need your own things to do and some alone time, yeah. Although, you speak as if you aren't even truly interested in the woman you're with. You said to see her as little as possible? Then why be with her if you don't enjoy your time with her? Also, its never been said you must spend all of your non-working hours together. Just learn how to have fun with your woman when you are together. Also, you make excuses as to why you don't have to listen to her or try to understand her saying its impossible, but its literally not, because she is a human being just like you. Helping her feel heard and understood actually ignites her attraction toward you making her want sex more, yet you advocate against this. No wonder you feel you must try to convince a woman to have sex because you refuse to do the things that actually cause attraction. Also, you're right that sex helps with the emotional aspects, BUT you focus on sex FIRST, instead of just having fun and getting to know her first WITHOUT sex. This doesn't work and that's why you come off as sex crazed, because you put sex first. Its the wrong order.
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  2. Orion's words are the words of a man that doesn't understand women and doesn't understand how to get along with them and makes excuses as to why so he doesn't have to learn. He literally thinks it's impossible to understand a woman, so he gives up. All the things required to be happy with a woman, he discouraged in this video. It's no wonder he can't spend much time with her. He has no clue how to hang out and have fun with a woman. Anybody with this type of limiting perspective will never be able to enjoy the kind of relationship you have with your wife. You are not an anomaly. You just have the proper view on things.
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