Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "DATING is an extended HIRING PROCESS: how to be more confident in the courtship process" video.

@BOSSDONMAN The advice he gave to men wasn't horrible, and it made sense, but it should have been stated as a mindset. Not a true comparison to getting a job. It's true that you are gathering data, but with relationships, there is a deeper portion of it that is NOT superficial that he always pretends doesn't exist. This is why you feel less interested. I'm convinced that he is just avoiding it because it makes him feel uncomfortable in some way, or he just doesn't understand it or both. Also, his advice to woman was more of a plea in order to make his life easier, rather than learning why he keeps suffering the same interactions and attracting the same type of people. A person cannot realistically expect them to not vet a man as well. They cannot healthily submit to just anyone.
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The professional level doesn't matter. And yeah, it's not easy to find a dominant woman because women are generally designed to be submissive, so they are turned on and fall in love when the man takes the lead. If a man wants a woman to lead, it generally turns her off, and she loses attraction.
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Of course. It makes complete sense that you feel that way. That's how you know the information doesn't make any sense, and it is, in fact, inaccurate. The actual truth does not discourage. Truly understanding women enables you to love them, and it makes things easier. The people that say different are looking for validation for their limiting beliefs and cause discouragement as a result.
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This is only men with a lack of integrity. They know it's wrong deep down, but they don't want to stop because it feels good. That's why you hear so many poor excuses as to why it's supposedly ok.
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@Dora-wc8be Well said.
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