Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "WOMEN are making society POLYGAMOUS: the surprising consequence of female success" video.
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This is a limiting belief, man. Hypergamy is not how attraction works. Hypergamy is a lifestyle choice for toxic women. The world in general does not understand how attraction actually works, which is why they gravitate toward superficial explanations like this one.
Whether they know it or not, women are attracted to MASCULINITY. Masculinity is not defined by status or amounts of money. Those things are superficial. Masculinity is not superficial. You or I can attract just about any type of woman regardless of her "social status".
Masculinity is drive, purpose, mission, succeeding, accomplishing, overcoming obstacles, chasing goals, boundaries, being direct and decisive, taking the lead, and getting stuff done like taking care of himself and his household, and also having humility. These qualities will beat out money every time.
The reason why men aren't attracting women in those stats is because their parents don't know how to teach them. TV and movies teach men to be stalkers and act more feminine. Then you have videos like this that validate men in not self-reflecting and learning and continue to blame women for their problems. Not that I think you are doing this intentionally, because you seem like you're genuinely looking for answers, but there are tons of videos out there that blatantly tell men to blame women for everything. Its counterproductive and just as toxic as an actual hypergamous woman.
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