Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "Men treat WOMEN the way women treat MONEY: how sex roles change the dating process" video.
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You're thinking along the lines of superficiality here. Relationships are not the same as money in any way. It's impossible, because relationships go deep, and money is on the surface. Men are with multiple women, because they want feminine attention and are just following their libido. They are using the women for these things. Perhaps also, because they just don't want to be alone. A woman they actually like comes along very rarely, and they know pretty quickly when they actually like a woman enough to want to eventually want to take things further with her.
It's also impossible for someone not to take that personally, because they are being genuine and vulnerable with their heart, while the other person is not truly interested in them, yet is doing personal things with them.
I think you're right about men having to practice confidence, but women are also overcoming insecurities, and they also have to learn how to actually choose a decent man. They have work to do too if they want to improve.
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