Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "LOYALTY means DIFFERENT things to MEN and WOMEN: working through the misunderstanding" video.

  1. You're only talking about a toxic woman with no standards, principles or self-respect. This type of person isn't actually loyal. They are guided ONLY by their heart, because they have no principles to adhere to, and they don't value loyalty. Men and women all over the world do this, and they usually end up miserable for it. An oath and duty isn't limited to men. Anyone can make an oath. Holding to that oath is based on the person's loyalty. Loyalty has only one definition amongst everyone. If you're in a marriage, and you are currently not feeling the same feelings as you were when you first started the marriage, a loyal person will still show love based on PRINCIPLE. Women are capable of this too. Granted, most people, including men, don't value loyalty at all, and they follow their heart or their feelings immediately and make rash decisions. Also, a man or a woman not showing love to each other after marriage, but staying married is another form of disloyalty, because they are not honoring the promise that they made to love their spouse. I understand your point about learning from one another, and men and women are indeed different, but loyalty means the same thing across the board. I think what you are talking about is the things that men and women have a harder and easier time with in general when it comes to being loyal. This doesn't change the definition for anybody though.
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