Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "Men's romantic fantasy: why men get married" video.

  1. What you describe is looking for a mother, not a partner. The dudes that cry at the wedding and the woman is completely stoic? Yeah, thats that motherly dynamic going on right there. Its backwards and doesn't work because its not how we are designed. Watch your next wedding with this in mind. True, lots of men are subconsciously looking for that due to their personal fears, but thats not what women want. Women want leaders. THEY want to be the one getting a parent in a sense. THIS is what elicits attraction when a man takes the lead, whether they know it or not. Thats just a fact man. Thats why some women leave when the man gets complacent and STOPS leading, or hurt and CAN'T lead. This stops her from feeling that romantic feeling toward you. Its all about behavior, Orion. So when a woman actually STAYS with a man despite his laziness or his inability to be the man he was before, THAT particular woman is not simply making decisions from her feelings like most do, but instead she has true love for the man that goes beyond that and she sticks around. Thats actually what the bible reminds both men and women to do. You mentioned God, so if a person actually cares about God's approval, they will act with integrity and will not leave as soon as the feelings become not as strong. On that same note, the man needs to get his stuff together, and not remain down and out just because he has a good woman. He needs to show love also, which makes it easier on her, which helps the relationship to thrive and stay healthy.
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