Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "WHY people GET MARRIED when they do: dating and game theory" video.

  1. Probably femininity. A feminine woman is simply more attractive to a masculine man. Women that are generally known as "hot" tend to have tons of insecurities that they haven't yet conquered, which prevents them from relaxing in their femininity and causes self-sabotage. The pretty ones seem to suffer more trauma, which creates more insecurities that need to be addressed. Less femininity makes it harder for a masculine man to be with them. Also, very pretty women tend to attract more men that just want to use them for sex, and leave. So they have it harder in some ways. Some women just don't know how to properly vet a man.
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  2. I think this data only suggests that men usually finally grow up and get out of a scarcity mindset around 30, which makes them more attractive. Women have the "advantage" at a younger age, because most men haven't learned how to be in their natural masculinity yet, which makes them not attractive, and chasing constantly, keeping them in their feminine. Once the men grow up and finally start acting masculine, this is what makes them desirable, and why it seems like they have the "advantage" at a later age. At that point, its easier for a woman to fall into her feminine, and become the chaser, because the man is finally acting like a man. So men that understand this in their early 20s or even their teens, will have a much easier time attracting women. In other words, he'll have that "advantage", which is really just him being masculine. Of course, understanding this must come with responsibility. Otherwise he'll just go around abusing his power and breaking people's hearts and playing with their feelings and causing trauma all in the name of "feeling good". Part of being a man is not going for women you don't have a true romantic interest in.
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