Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "How to have a FULFILLING SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP, or: in praise of 24-hour diners" video.

  1. ​ @dr.jenniferma3914  I believe women feel extra hurt when rejected because they take it to mean something personal about their attractiveness. It's an insecurity. Women initiating is probably the best and most natural thing. Any man that doesn't like a woman to initiate is also suffering from an insecurity.
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  2. He either has a hypocritical stance on this like the rest of them, or he hasn't thought it through. Or maybe he thinks cheating is ok at all times for everyone. Either way, this type of stance suggests that a person thinks only of themselves and their own pleasure.
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  3. You say it isn't petulant just because you sound calm, but it is. You would basically be like a little boy throwing a quiet tantrum, because he can't get his way. It's not attractive to a healthy woman and it's a huge red flag. By doing this, you'd attract very fearful and insecure women that cause unnecessary problems and that will use similar type of tactics, because those are the only ones that will put up with that type of behavior.
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  4. Beautiful comment. He doesn't think about the reasoning behind a loss of attraction, because he only focuses on getting his own needs met. You just can't have a healthy relationship that way.
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  5.  @carlospita6442  You think looking into the reasons for something is simping?
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  6.  @treeaddict  It's different, because there are genuinely actual problems that are getting in the way of her sex drive. A woman generally isn't interested in sex due to some type of circumstance. Whether that'd be because of depression, feeling overwhelmed, or just because the man is behaving more feminine than masculine at the time, which happens with tons of men and they don't realize it. So it's good to be aware of these things and know what to do in order to make her load feel light and help her feel secure, which makes things easier for her, which helps her sex drive be naturally high, because there would be no obstacles to it. So if we as men are only focused on getting our own needs met, we don't even think about any potential things we can do to facilitate a better relationship, let alone show up properly which increases her sex drive. Also, as men, we are the leaders. So focusing on our needs in response to her focusing on her needs is to follow HER example, which in turn is making her the leader, which means we would be becoming submissive to her, which throws off the sexual polarity even more, which makes everything much worse. Now, if she is just withholding sex as a punishment, or as a manipulation tactic or for some other disingenuous reason, that is wrong and an unnecessary strain on the relationship. Still, the proper response is not to threaten to cheat.
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