Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "Why dating advice is terrible: half right is all wrong" video.

  1. You said, "If you can't beat out your competition". Worrying about competition is a limiting mindset. It makes you insecure and trying to compensate to "beat out" the competition, which is unnattractive behavior. It keeps you in a state of fear. Physical attractiveness and being a good person definitely help a lot, but these things are not what truly creates that raw attraction. Also, social status literally doesn't matter at all. The fact that you think these things matter a lot tells me that you don't understand how attraction works and you have MANY limiting beliefs that holds you back a ton. With respect, because of this, your advice gets it right about 5 percent of the time. Also, introspection can never be narcissistic. Narcissistic people literally NEVER do introspection. This is how they end up being narcissistic. They are constantly avoiding themselves and how they feel deep down inside. The fact that you think this tells me that you might lean more toward narcissistic and/or avoidant behavior because that belief is an excuse for you to avoid introspection. You mentioned being rewarded by the other side. This is like looking at women as if they are your mommy. Your focus on a rewards system for your accomplishments or you doing well or showing something that should be attractive is actually VERY unnattractive and the wrong thing to focus on. It definitely points to your own current limiting beliefs and knowledge gaps. But the world propagandizes us to believe these things. So you aren't the only one.
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