Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "Tests are opportunities: the way of Hercules" video.

  1. Not bad. One major issue, though. You MUST already believe in yourself and know that you can do it. This is how you can be much more likely to pass the test and know that even if you don't, you'll still be ok. Waiting until you've actually done it to know you can do it is to remain uncertain, and uncertainty is low confidence, which results in not getting what you want and being less likely to pass those tests. Also, the notion of having to "prove yourself" is approval seeking behavior. That results in a lack of confidence and needy behavior. You should already know that you are capable. There is no need to go out of your way to show off. If a job asks that of you, maybe, but definitely NOT in a relationship. This is why relationships and business are not the same. Also, tests from women are things like to see if you can keep your cool, making sure you don't have a short temperature, seeing if you are really interested in her, and checking if you can handle not hearing from her for a little bit or if you'll flip out. Women do this so they can feel your calm masculinity so they can feel attraction toward you. These things have to already be developed in you as a man. If you go LOOKING to get her approval, that will show, and you'll come off as a little boy, and a woman can't be interested in little boy behavior. This is why all your talk about status and money and success is awful and misleading advice, because thinking you need that to be attractive is another form of seeking a woman's approval. One day, I hope you finally understand this and have the courage to admit that for a long time, you really didn't know what you were talking about.
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  2. ​@SafeADude Nah, that makes you a woman and less attractive as a result. She is testing him because he keeps losing it. He needs to chill. Relax. Be calm. Handle the issue while being calm, and the tests will stop. Women sense that chink in the armor and won't stop picking at it until you repair it. In this case, it's a bad temper that he needs to fix. She wants more masculinity from him so she can feel safe and attracted. Thats why women test. And masculinity is calm.
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