Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "Where have all the GOOD MEN gone?: the consequences of raising nice boys" video.
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You have a subconscious hang-up on women being the problem for everything, which causes inaccuracies and shortsightedness. Sure, there are many women out there that have no clue how to be a parent, but there are just as many men out there that have no clue also. Many times, the parents just abandon their kids to those who are even LESS capable. These are awful influences and clearly cause emotional trauma.
We also have tv shows, sitcoms and romantic stories centered around men being a goofy fool, or a stalker, and somehow still "winning" the woman over as they often call it with their scarcity mindsets. These shows and movies are written by people that don't understand attraction, and only write from their personal fantasies. They may be entertaining, but these are often awful influences on us all.
Not only that, but there are a shortage of decent men AND women with integrity. So this isn't an issue caused by women or mothers. This is an issue that is caused by an entire world that has no clue what they are doing, which causes all kinds of emotional trauma, which gets passed down to the next generation, because most people are not humble enough to self-reflect, identify, and root these bad habits out of themselves, and most are quick to BLAME others for their problems. If our issues are always someone else's fault, then to us, there is nothing to fix or change, and so the cycle continues with all of the broken teachings.
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