Comments by "Leo" (@Leoo117) on "A feast of crumbs: how men get used" video.

  1. It's sad because this is a limiting belief of a man that literally has absolutely NO idea about how attraction works for men OR women. So instead of actually learning the truth, he makes up his own beliefs that falsely explains away why he got hurt. Thats why this is sad. The TRUTH is actually happy and easy and gets us the things and the people we actually want in our lives. But we have to humble ourselves in order to actually find the truth.
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  2. @Johnny-g5k2x  The doc is so focused on looks as a man. Listen to him. He sounds like a woman, and he projects that on all men. How can a feminine woman feel attraction to that. There can be no sexual polarity when a man has the mindset the doc has. That tells you that his behavior in relationships is likely more feminine, which is the true reason he unnattracts a woman. Worrying about money and age and generalizing everyone is an avoidance of his own unreasonable fears of not being good enough and his refusal to self-reflect on that. Then he teaches others this is normal. He WILL NOT be able to change this as long as he is too busy looking for ways to blame women for his problems, rather than reflect on how HE is showing up. It's a man's BEHAVIOR that attracts a woman. That beats looks by 90 percent at least. This means that literally, all men have the power to attract a woman WITHOUT being rich or older or having status or being super good-looking. Thats just a fact. People like the doc call them outliers, but in reality, their the ones that simply reflect on how THEY SHOW UP. They reflect on how their own decisions affect their lives. They take full responsibility for all results they get in their lives as adults. Even choosing a toxic woman that used them. They find out how to make the proper adjustments and then apply them to their choices for next time. They don't become blamers like the doc here. Basically, you can make the changes you want in your life by properly addressing your fears. You can become more attractive by looking at your own behavior, learning where you fall short. It's that easy. There is always a way. You're a man. You are the initial chooser because you are the leader and the masculine one. You always have tons of choices, whether you know it or not. You just need the proper mindset to bring it out of you. You won't find this with the doc here. The doc's tendency of focusing on wealth, status, and looks is a scarcity mindset. The truth is that you have the power to shape your life into the one that you want with the people you want, regardless of the looks you were born with. This goes for women also.
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